LiberalAgenda8 posted... Coffee would be better.
I defend my views and what I value tooth and nail.
Connections form due a plethora of reasons. Right day at the right time. How a conversation flows. How someone eventually values the other person. Common interests.
For the sex part, it's completely fine to have sex. Where did you get this idea that having sex is an inherent bad thing?
If you do things yourself, rely on yourself, and dont depend or put too much dependent on others, then thats literally being independent.
Current status of friends doesn't really affect your potential partner. Because multiple people have reasons why they may have a close circle or no friends at all. Which include
A. Moving
B. Having traumatic experiences
C. Busy with other things that they value
If you have no other friends, that effects nothing on how you look at your partner. Everyone deals with their emotions in different ways. When people go on dates, the first question isn't "do you have any friends" the focus is on what they do for work, how they spend their time, the flow of the conversation, attraction, and more. You cite "clinginess" but fail to realize that clinginess happens with a lot of people , regardless of them having current or past relationships.
Not every relationship is perfect and people go through life with trauma and experiences that shape them to who they are. News at 11.
So what's your main reason that you believe you're single?