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TopicGuy on Tinder gets 3 matches out of 5,000 swipes, no dates.
Will_VIII
09/22/23 12:02:35 PM
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SwayM posted...
I mean even if it were "only" this, this is exactly what I'm talking about.

But it's not just that. It's the fact that unless you're in the top % of men, no one's even going to see your profile. The more frustrated and desperate you get at a lack of matches, lowing your standards and swiping more punishes you, and further reduces the likelihood of matches. Everything about the way the algorithms work contributes to kicking the shit out of you when you're down.
I don't think I'm anything particularly spectacular and I don't live in a heavily populated area (and it's politically split) but when I was on apps up until about a year ago, I always had a conversation going if not a date planned.

Bios and recent pics are pretty important.

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