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PerseusRad posted...

TC, it probably wont be much comfort, but in the future, youll hopefully be super relieved that youre no longer with her. Even if she was amazing up until just recently, what shes showing you now is indicative of something that was always there, even if shes at her lowest right now. Im sure youre shaken up and will be for a while, but I hope that those feelings will transform after enough time has passed.

--Zero- posted...

I went through something similar with my ex-wife except a lot more physical. She's a toxic person and you're better getting out of the situation before you get that battered spouse syndrome and you get stuck in that circle of hell with her. You'll love again. You might be bad at communicating and meeting her standards which can be hard to match sometimes. She sounds controlling too getting mad about porn and controlling how the rent is paid. You should consider saying fuck it and telling her you're done with her and then block her number. The moment a partner lays their hand on you is the moment you should get out of the mess.

After 6 months to a year of being away from her you'll realize how much better your life is.

To be honest, even while I was in the relationship, I felt more relaxed and comfortable when it was just me and our dog in the apartment. I really enjoyed her company, but I always felt like I could end up saying or doing the wrong thing at any given moment before she gets mad and gives me the silent treatment.

This is just gonna be the roughest breakup I've ever experienced. With most of my other exes, we split on amicable terms. And we didn't have an apartment or a dog together. So even if I wanted to avoid seeing her, I can't.