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Topic	Where do you go to avoid "the man always pay for a date!"?
cuttin_in_farm 07/24/23 6:25:15 PM #35:	ai123 posted... If I were to ask someone to come on holiday with me, yes. But that isn't typically how such things are arranged. Thats you, I guess. I would laugh if I invited somebody to go bowling and theyre confused on why I didnt buy their shoes. ai123 posted... The reason I would ask is because I wanted that person's company. Not to test them to see if they wanted mine. These arent mutually exclusive. I may want to hang out with someone. But I also want to make sure they want to hang out with me. But either way, all the more reason folks should communicate. People have different expectations and definitions that arent necessarily malice or paranoia fueled. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:975042471] in Where do y... [t:80518112]...</cite> <quote>ai123 posted... </cite><quote>If I were to ask someone to come on holiday with me, yes. But that isn't typically how such things are arranged.</quote>Thats you, I guess.I would laugh if I invited somebody to go bowling and theyre confused on why I didnt buy their shoes.ai123 posted... </cite><quote>The reason I would ask is because I wanted that person's company. Not to test them to see if they wanted mine.</quote>These arent mutually exclusive. I may want to hang out with someone. But I also want to make sure they want to hang out with me. But either way, all the more reason folks should communicate. People have different expectations and definitions that arent necessarily malice or paranoia fueled. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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