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bigblu89 posted...

Bit thats the thing, some people set (in my opinion) ridiculous parameters on whats considered cheating.

Granted, they were in their late teens, but I remember my wifes friends sister broke up with her boyfriend once because he said he found J-Lo attractive, and she said finding anyone attractive other than your S.O. is considered cheating.

Thats ridiculous.

Sure, you could view someone elses standards as ridiculous, but abiding by them anyway is one of the ways you show you value their opinion of you. Of course they should tell you what their standards are ahead of time, so it would be unreasonable for them to punish you for something you legitimately did not know would be a problem for them to accept.

I think if youre deceptive about any of this, like you actively try to hide your actions from your spouse, then Ill bet its because you realize they would consider you cheating.