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Arcanine2009 posted...

Something similar actually happened to my brother's friend. He had a brain tumor and ihe got got taken out. But it affected his speech. It took a while for him to recover. He needed help obviously. But his wife at the time couldn't take it and left him. He is now married to another woman who used to have cancer as well and they have a kid.

This generation is fucked I swear. You wouldn't see this with our parents generation.

It's true that you aren't obligated. But what if it was your spouse?

My mom and I was there for my dad when he got brain cancer and to the very end at least.. It's not easy by any means.

Might just be a generational thing as well. Our generation are not as mentally strong and won't work through as many hardships as our parents.

First of all that is good in some ways. Recognizing limits is important. There are times when you need to push past or seek further help to keep going though and sometimes you need to work to make your limits higher.

Second hmm if a generation turned out that way...probably has a lot to do with the parenting and overall descions of the proceeding generation.

People whine about the generation THEY RAISED. Should've done a better job parenting and with everything else then. Lie in the bed you made or fix the shit you and your own parents broke.