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bigblu89 posted...

Whatever issues you have with my sister are between you and her, and I would appreciate it if you keep those issues between you and her. You also need to understand that she is my sister and both myself and my mother have no issues with her and will continue inviting her and her family to events and gatherings. I understand and respect your decision to not attend those events, but please keep your issues with her separate from your relationship with myself and my mother. Thank you.

This is more or less what I've said to her in the past. Like basically, I can't disown my sister, and that I don't like feeling like I have to choose between the two. Her response is usually "I totally understand and respect that! I appreciate your making us feel included even if we can't be around them."

And then next time I do see them, they'll be taking shit about my sister again lol.