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Topic	Ex from SIX YEARS AGO sends me an email
MrToothHasYou 12/14/22 1:07:06 PM #26:	action52 posted... There also is no telling how things will go with such a toxic person. Even assuming she's sincere... which she seems to be, but it could also be that her husband treated her like shit and she just wants to cheat on him or rebound after a terrible divorce... Anyway, even if she's sincere, there's no guarantee that things will go well. When people like that ask for forgiveness, often they act like they are entitled to it. Or they get all patronizing and wonder why you're still hung up on all that bad stuff instead of being happy about what a good person they are now. Or they might try to gaslight you and twist the conversation into a discussion about how you were both wrong. Or some combination of the above, or some other shitty thing. Like I said, a quick message saying you don't hold a grudge and wish her no harm is the most she should hope for, and more than she deserves. 100% on the nose here. Im not replying (I deleted the email almost immediately after reading it a few times just to make sure I wasnt going crazy) so hopefully for her sake she isnt holding her breath waiting for one. --- An Injury to One is an Injury to All https://iww.org/ <cite>MrToothHasYou posted [p:970158609] in Ex from SI... [t:80275360]...</cite> <quote>action52 posted... </cite><quote>There also is no telling how things will go with such a toxic person. Even assuming she's sincere... which she seems to be, but it could also be that her husband treated her like shit and she just wants to cheat on him or rebound after a terrible divorce... Anyway, even if she's sincere, there's no guarantee that things will go well. When people like that ask for forgiveness, often they act like they are entitled to it. Or they get all patronizing and wonder why you're still hung up on all that bad stuff instead of being happy about what a good person they are now. Or they might try to gaslight you and twist the conversation into a discussion about how you were both wrong. Or some combination of the above, or some other shitty thing. Like I said, a quick message saying you don't hold a grudge and wish her no harm is the most she should hope for, and more than she deserves.</quote>100% on the nose here. Im not replying (I deleted the email almost immediately after reading it a few times just to make sure I wasnt going crazy) so hopefully for her sake she isnt holding her breath waiting for one. --- An Injury to One is an Injury to Allhttps://iww.org/</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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