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Topic	My friend is marrying a filipino woman in a couple weeks...should I speak up?
Chunky 10/19/22 7:50:18 PM #44:	CRON posted... I'm going to get crucified for this but I have zero idea how dudes in these situations have no self awareness. Like, literally everybody is judging and mocking them for being desperate and taking advantage of women who just want the visa in hopes of not living in poverty. Literally everybody sees through the bullshit and desperation and sees it for what it is. Could be wrong, but I think deep down he knows this is a terrible idea, but his judgment is clouded because he doesn't think he could do any better. Norman_Smiley posted... Have a conversation with him. Don't disparage her. Ask questions. Why is she so urgent? How do you know she is the one? Why not have her visit and stay with you for 6 months first to see how it works? Have they talked about family expectations? She may expect him to help take care of her parents, or portions of any money she earns may go to her parents. Do you know his family? I would probably air all my real concerns to his parents if I knew them. I can answer one of those questions. The reason she hasn't visited him is because it is near impossible to get a visa in the US. That's why that whole stereotype of marrying into the US is a thing. Flockaveli posted... https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/5/8/AAdMiTAADy6O.jpg You gotta find another hobby little guy. Stop shitposting kid. Not gonna lie, I laughed at your title of my name. I don't know why people keep claim I'm a troll or claim my topics or fake. Are my stories really that unbelievable? Honestly I'm flattered, it must mean I'm a great storyteller and writer. --- The n00b of MBH and CE - and proud of it! President Chunkey Simmons, running for 2016. <cite>Chunky posted [p:968833999] in My friend ... [t:80202275]...</cite> <quote>CRON posted... </cite><quote>I'm going to get crucified for this but I have zero idea how dudes in these situations have no self awareness. Like, literally everybody is judging and mocking them for being desperate and taking advantage of women who just want the visa in hopes of not living in poverty. Literally everybody sees through the bullshit and desperation and sees it for what it is.</quote>Could be wrong, but I think deep down he knows this is a terrible idea, but his judgment is clouded because he doesn't think he could do any better.Norman_Smiley posted... </cite><quote>Have a conversation with him. Don't disparage her. Ask questions. Why is she so urgent? How do you know she is the one? Why not have her visit and stay with you for 6 months first to see how it works? Have they talked about family expectations? She may expect him to help take care of her parents, or portions of any money she earns may go to her parents.Do you know his family? I would probably air all my real concerns to his parents if I knew them.</quote>I can answer one of those questions. The reason she hasn't visited him is because it is near impossible to get a visa in the US. That's why that whole stereotype of marrying into the US is a thing.Flockaveli posted... </cite><quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/5/8/AAdMiTAADy6O.jpg You gotta find another hobby little guy. Stop shitposting kid.</quote>Not gonna lie, I laughed at your title of my name. I don't know why people keep claim I'm a troll or claim my topics or fake. Are my stories really that unbelievable? Honestly I'm flattered, it must mean I'm a great storyteller and writer. --- The n00b of MBH and CE - and proud of it!President Chunkey Simmons, running for 2016.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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