LogFAQs > #968610279

Anteaterking posted...

Is she new to (wherever you are)?

she's new to the country (3 years) and new to the area.

Flockaveli posted...

Just reading this makes you sound boring.

huh?We met at a boba shop and grabbed some boba and some snacks and walked in the town towards tbe beach. She kept asking me questions and I'd answer and followed. We talked about a lot of things non stop and never had an awkward silence. I felt a connection. I shared some cultural things about my stuff and tried to relate to hers. I know I didn't say anything offensive or anything if that nature

Besides just not being flirtacious, there might have been some things I've said that made me sound insecure or something for apologizing for some things.

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On her profile, she said she was looking ideally for a relationship.

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bloodydeath0 posted...

ya kinda

I think people need to realize that.. Dates aren't like rom coms. Some people have some stupid high standards and many expect to have the same spark/interest as an old crush or their last date, but it doesn't always work like that. People should be patient and understand some are slow burners..

But I'll take this loss. Maybe I did something or maybe I didn't and she didn't feel a connection. I'll take that loss. But man It hurts though. Building up 2-3 weeks of conversations to someone you are attracted to and conversing everyday online with them, only to fall flat after the first day. I do catch feelings easily I guess. And I'm not the type to hang around as a friend after and/or try to change the situation. I cut my losses.
YeOld3DS posted...

This. Tinder is a sex site, not a relationship one.

I disagree. Yeah it'd known for hookups, but a lot of people genuinely do look for serious relationships on tinder.

I do use coffeemeetsbagel as well.