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Cleo_II posted...

He just says its not natural for him to give compliments because he doesnt feel like he needs them. He keeps saying he will work on it but doesnt. He just thinks the fact that he wants sex with me pretty much every day if he could is enough of an expression of his attraction to me. He doesnt understand why it isnt to me.

Oh he was complimenting me like crazy at first. So hes obviously capable. He maybe stopped once we moved in together and got comfortable. But its something were going to dive deeper on in therapy.

Yeah, he needs to realise that you dont make compliments for *you*, you make them for *the other person*. I want to have sex with you, what more do you want? Is a bit yuck, no matter how you word it.