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Topic	What's the worst you've been rejected?
MrToothHasYou 07/19/22 11:10:51 AM #45:	bsp77 posted... Yeah, that is rough. Can I also suggest that it sucks being on the other side of it? Having to end a 2-year relationship with someone I lived with was probably the hardest thing I have done in my life. I still was very sad for what could have been, but realized it wasn't working for either of us. On top of mourning the end of the relationship, I also had the crippling guilt on top of it. Oh for sure, especially when theres nothing wrong with your partner, being unhappy in an otherwise healthy relationship can make you feel like there must something wrong with you. Youre deeply entangled in each others lives at that point and you feel guilty that you cant just be happy with what youve got. Its worse when they are on good terms with your friends and family and vice versa, because youre not just ending your own relationship at that point, youre also severely impacting several others. Its shit all around, although being the one to break things off doesnt carry the rejection aspect, which is what I find particularly painful. --- An Injury to One is an Injury to All https://iww.org/ <cite>MrToothHasYou posted [p:966682232] in What's the... [t:80099269]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>Yeah, that is rough. Can I also suggest that it sucks being on the other side of it? Having to end a 2-year relationship with someone I lived with was probably the hardest thing I have done in my life. I still was very sad for what could have been, but realized it wasn't working for either of us. On top of mourning the end of the relationship, I also had the crippling guilt on top of it.</quote>Oh for sure, especially when theres nothing wrong with your partner, being unhappy in an otherwise healthy relationship can make you feel like there must something wrong with you. Youre deeply entangled in each others lives at that point and you feel guilty that you cant just be happy with what youve got. Its worse when they are on good terms with your friends and family and vice versa, because youre not just ending your own relationship at that point, youre also severely impacting several others. Its shit all around, although being the one to break things off doesnt carry the rejection aspect, which is what I find particularly painful. --- An Injury to One is an Injury to All https://iww.org/</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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