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MrToothHasYou posted...

Honestly getting turned down asking someone out is basically nothing compared getting actually dumped in a long-term relationship. When youve been dating someone for more than a year, are living together, etc. and they are like Yeah, nah. I think Id rather just be alone than continue to date you. Thats a deep cut, because its not like you can just shrug it off like well they didnt get a chance to know the real me or anything like that because they did know you. They knew you really wellmaybe even better than anyone else in your lifeand they decided that what you brought to the table wasnt good enough for them.

Yeah, that is rough. Can I also suggest that it sucks being on the other side of it? Having to end a 2-year relationship with someone I lived with was probably the hardest thing I have done in my life. I still was very sad for what could have been, but realized it wasn't working for either of us. On top of mourning the end of the relationship, I also had the crippling guilt on top of it.