LogFAQs > #966131231

Punished_Blinx posted...

A kid with special needs is a major factor that I don't think many here are gonna fully understand. I could see that being something that is causing her to have anxiety going out without them.

But on the other hand you have your own life to handle. It's not going to go anywhere if you can't actually go out together regardless of the reason. I think you've handled it well and leaving the ball in her court is good. You can move on in the mean time.

I doubt there's anything different happening with that bumble account personally. I don't think it has anything to do with you or what you did. I think it's her struggling to get out there. Which is also why her friends and family are trying to set you up.

Yeah her kid actually has autism- she was less specific at first but eventually she told me that. I think he's about 5 or 6.

I'm sure she definitely does struggle to get out- the "source" at work was apparently really excited when I said I was interested too, hence the set up attempt. Here and there I would get encouragement about it from her through my other coworker Ellen whose office is close to hers. I would get asked for status updates etc.

However the latest time I tried to get some "intel" Ellen told me that the source just shakes her head whenever it gets brought up and said that she's "afraid" to ask Mary about it.