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dave_is_slick posted...

You're married, what do you actually know about the dating scene? Legit question. You seem to base it on ideals instead of reality.

I think it goes way beyond that.

@Gladius_ seems like a decent person, but I dont think its possible for her to understand how unbalanced and difficult it can be for the majority of straight men to successfully date even just a handful of women. It would be like us, men, telling pregnant women that we know what its like to be pregnant and that its really not that bad because we read about it.

This doesnt mean women or anyone else should get rid of their preferences and expectations. Keep them because lowering your standards, regardless of how unreasonable they might be, still is no guarantee youll find happiness or contentment anyway.