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We wanna bang each other (I think) but she's weird about sending pics and that makes me feel weird. I send her pics whenever she asks. If I ask, she'll make excuses or ignore it, and then be like "I'm horny, what porn do you like". She's sent some before but then deletes them after. If I send them when she asks, I feel like it's only fair that she sends them once I ask after I send mine. It's a huge turnoff and I'm just keeping her on the backburner/cooldown/etc, pulled away but not cut the rope.

I notice that I'm starting to fall into the same pattern of not holding someone accountable to reciprocation that I need because I don't wanna lose them, and even if it's as small as this, I've been in this pattern enough. It's been my Achilles heel throughout my life with women. I don't hold onto standards and my brain eventually makes up excuses why it's okay for her to not do the same thing for me that I'm doing for her.