In many guys' minds gay men are effeminate or not "real" men so when a gay guy hits on them thinking they are also gay it's considered an affront to their masculinity
This kinda. They are real men to me, it would just make me wonder why they would think I'm not straight.
You are looking at in the wrong light. Guys dont hit on you because they think you are gay, they hit on you because they think you are hot.
Further, you are viewing gay people through a very stereotypical lens. You seem to think that all gay men are ultra feminine flaming queens like you see on TV. That is not the case. I am a gay man, and you would never know it unless I told you. In fact, MOST gay guys arent stereotypically gay. You only notice the ones who are because the rest act no different from straight people. Being attracted to men is just a facet of someone's personality. It does not cause people to automatically act feminine. Flaming queens are a minority.
I would also challenge your assumption that there is something wrong with being gay. Why is someone less of a man because they happen to like a different kind of sex? I know plenty of gay guys who are far more stereotypically "masculine" than most straight guys. I would encourage you to make some gay friends IRL so you can see how we really are.
What the fuck. I never said gay men are flaming queens. I never said being gay is wrong.
Dont just dump all that false generalized shit on my character. You are assuming too much about me and being unfair. I just shared my honest thoughts as a straight man, dont ever slander me with that bullshit
