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| Topic | There is no hope for me anymore. I've spent over 10 years trying to get better |
| ShotOJameson 07/02/17 12:17:06 AM #100: | Keith_Valentine posted... I do take it too far, and there are many circumstances that could affect someone. But all the talk about feelings and that, it bugs me. You can feel your feelings but still think logically. If you're fat, quit fucking eating so much. If you're ugly , better get some money and nice shit. If you feel crappy, go workout. If you're lonely, find the sexiest body on the ugliest girl to start with. Shit like that. I get it, and you're right in a way, but ignoring feelings can really cause more problems for a person later and completely exacerbate the problem. Also some people really aren't so caught up in the competition in life and just really want nothing more than piece of mind. The thing that gives me 'peace of mind' is just knowing I did my best and all I could regardless of results, and learning from the L's I've taken. I'm honestly an extremely competitive person and it's been a huge burden on me all my life. I hate it tbh. I don't even really care about winning all that much either though I just hate, HATE to lose. Anything. It's crazy, and sometimes it's hard to turn off so I have learned to choose my battles more wisely as a man, and realize not everything is a competition. --- ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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