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TopicThere is no hope for me anymore. I've spent over 10 years trying to get better
HBOSS
07/01/17 11:49:55 AM
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Sure topics like this happen. The feels is something others can relate to. Part of the responses show how others deal with it. Many advocate change. It requires the person to find balance in themselves in a physical state (for changes in activity) and mental state (for change in mindset) of wellbeing. Theres also a spiritual change once you align yourself to inner peace of mind and well being. Many dont realize it but its there. That kind of balance takes effort and time to do and maintain. Its the kind of effort and time some of us dont see the point in doing because theyre too focused on the negativity in their lives. They try and try and it seems to lead nowhere. Nothing is wasted. You may gain further insight. Keep tryin and eventually, you see how we use externalities to validate us as people. Hopefully, youll realize that its what you find in yourself through fitness of body and mind that extends into the world. youll do it. You can do anything you put your mind to. Youre worth it.

When i see this talk about loss of hope, its those who rather give up. They see no point to progress in life. Its as if the world is crushing them through its pressure of success, wealth, and social/cultural demands. Its a very dangerous mindset to remain in because each passing time is an excuse to delay (what in their minds is) the inevitable. Here, theyre weighing in on the release of whats inevitable. Will today be the day i finally go... I know, its what i thought of and it got difficult to wake up every morning with that kind of thought. Its too easy to find the negativity in our lives and we often convince ourselves thats the way its was, is, and ever will be. However, its not. We dont see the option we have and block ourselves from a truth long forgotten - whatevers there we looked inside ourselves and choose to dwell on the things the stifles our growth as a human being --we choose to be this way. Thats why others here bluntly acknowledge that point. Thats why they dont sympathize. They choose not to take every word posted to affect them cause it shouldnt. Those of us who reply may have a more depth of understanding cause all it takes is 1 trigger word to bring them back to a time in their lives when they experienced it. They may recall the despair and close minded ways. They know what it feels like to be isolated. They know what it means to have someone, anyone out there care enough to ;tldr a specific point. To the tc and other readers, a lil encouragement means much more to them than any of us will ever know. It did for me. Youre always worth it.

How do you deal with the negativity. Itll be there but its there in a way to balance yourself towards a better sense of selfworth. There comes a point in everyone where they tell themselves, enough is enough and its time for a change. Theyre ready listen. So, they take an effort. Make the time to brainstorm and find their way to achieve that balance in life. They take everything into account from various sources and wisdom to find themselves. They tried to find themselves externally through what the world defines but the truth is always been something from within. We let the world shape us and for some its not enough. You have to reflect internally to find it. Its often difficult to find because we are so different, unique, and seek others and other things. We close our minds by focusing externally. Its never too hopeless but its often challenging because nobody teaches us to keep our minds open and look within ourselves to seek the answers that fulfills us. It Gives us hope and no longer wanting to feel empty inside. That my friends is the hope thatll redefine you. Its this journey of inner well being and self reflection thatll solve any challenges the world has. I hope one day youll understand this.
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