LogFAQs > #983908599

If I could figure out how or when I can talk to women and get adequate, satisfying responses that don't make me feel bad maybe I could get closer to not being single.

My ADHD is going to make it impossible to 'get used to' disappointment, but it makes it even harder if I talk to someone I know just to be more routinely be kept in the inside of whatever's going on in their life, basically just short of "please be friends with me I kinda like you okay" and something as basic as "Let's have lunch sometime and talk, or maybe just talk if you're bored" is met with "schedules really bad and I have to look after my kids" with no sorrys, no thank you, no 'would if I could bro, sorry buddy'.

Like what happened what did I do? Why did my last message after that get previewed and then left on Sent, no reassurances and basically one step short of the ol' shitty classic final Facebook message "LOOK, I really don't have time to talk with you and we REALLY didn't know each other that well anyway." or equal equivalent value?

I know I'm overreacting a LITTLE but I can't recall when even people I've known to be nice to me for no reason and not expecting some kind of quid pro quo relationship to feel like I'm someone who needs to be ignored. Maybe from their perspective I've looked like someone who actively didn't need them or ignored them on purpose, but that's not what was happening at all.

It's all so frustrating.