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Topic | Are you still on good terms with any of your ex-partners? |
Zonbei 03/25/24 12:57:36 PM #69: | KogaSteelfang posted...
*Is treated like trash. Is talked to like trash. Is looked down upon as trash. Is told he's trash.* I didnt say you dont have much of a chance. I said you need to get some therapy. You have a chance as long as you actually do the work, instead of being hopeless. Which is what I keep telling you. I didnt say dont blame yourself. I said blame yourself in a constructive way. Acting like its some unstoppable quality of reality is not helpful. You are the problem. You can do better, and then you wont be the problem. Seriously; see a therapist. Everyone should see a therapist. You want someone caring and encouraging to help you turn things around? Thats what a therapist is for. Relationships are not therapy. Women are not your therapists. Being emotionally distant is the problem. That actually does mean people wont want to get to know you, and thats reasonable. Your trauma and anxieties need to be worked through. With a therapist. You absolutely have a chance, as long as you stop moping around about how you have no chance and doing nothing to change. --- It's a luscious mix of words and tricks, that let us bet, when we know we should have folded. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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