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Funkydog posted...

Yes I am. It's fucking abhorrent and shows a genuine evil and disregard for women.

Fuck 'em.

These are still kids who don't fully understand the depth of why what they did was so fucked up. It's hard to explain it to them in a manner that will convey the severity. However attempts have to be made to appeal to their empathy and sympathy. If you just punish them and fuck their lives without any real attempt at having them understand why, they're just going to either learn nothing or worse they will blame their victims because "Well it wasn't even them" and they go through life actually having a (justified to them) reason to hate women.

Mishandling this situation is how you get them to go out and abuse women.

It is very possible that they did this as a 'joke' without any real malintent. They are still just kids that are being absolutely rocked with hormones. While most kids are content with looking at adult content or, at worst, spying on nude/changing individuals (Still fucked up, mind you), this is still a situation in that same vein. They are just trying to see nude women because that's what every boy kid desires, mostly due to their uncontrolled, raging hormones.

I'm not saying they don't deserve the suspension. Or that they deserve no punishment. I'm just saying that if you don't handle this correctly, you do more damage overall. The kids need to walk away both: feeling that they were understood and understanding why what they did was not just a "victimless crime".