Control is also the Paragon option and Destroy is the Renegade, so in your scenario it's showing barbwire wrapping around a kitten and a kitten wrapping itself in barbed wire. They are both supposed to have equal pros and cons, there is nothing incongruent there.
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If you wake up at a different time, in a different place, could you wake up as a different person? [HERO'S PLUNGE]
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