And I have no way to prove what I'm about to say, but I'd suspect that you're just the kind of naive, idealistic youth who's primed for exploitation. But maybe not, who knows. Maybe you've found the too-good-to-be-true gal of your dreams. Does this in any way change the fact that your parents have good reason to be worried, based on what could happen?
For what reason? What logical reason? Technically someone young and beautiful could be a black widow and our friend here could actually have a lot of money. Being judgemental based off what "could" happen is rather stupid considering that just about every decision we make is a risk in a way. Why not just lock him up for the rest of his days?
He seems like a typical hardass dad with high expectations, but who nevertheless cares about you and provided a stable family environment (stable financially, at least; maybe not what you would call "emotionally").
Nope. A stable environment covers them all, not just money. Also the "Oh he cares he's just tough!" excuse has been used to "justify" a lot of horrible crap so be very careful when you play that card.
It seems your entire defense is built up of worthless "what ifs". Let me just say
SO F***ING WHAT?!
There are no guarantees in life, if you refuse to do something purely based off a flimsy "what if" you'll never leave the womb. That said I'm not saying "let's get risky!" either...
He's a grown ass man, he should be allowed to make his own decisions(within reason obviously) Threatning to pull him out of the will because he wants to marry an older woman is nothing more than parential bullying. He's trying to get him to bend over and do what he wants, instead of letting his son be an adult.
Pretty childish if you ask me.
Honestly though, one can't just start being a father so late into their child's life.
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