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Epic-Vegan_420 posted...

how is that even possible

i cant imagine not getting laid in that long

Not pursuing anyone/not having the patience to wine and dine. I wanted to try without any strings attached but the only time that ever worked for me was HS.
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Epic-Vegan_420 posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Also, full disclosure: I haven't been laid in 4 years so...kind of puts a little more urgency on playing the game for now. I need sex like I need water at this point. Been far, far too long.

what the fuck

4 YEARS?!

Yup. Last gf I had was in 2014 when I was a worthless drunk. Been sober for over 2 years now though.
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Also, full disclosure: I haven't been laid in 4 years so...kind of puts a little more urgency on playing the game for now. I need sex like I need water at this point. Been far, far too long.
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TheKingbear2018 posted...

Scotty_Rogers posted...

Just say you're not interested tf

_Goggalor_ posted...

Eat More Beef posted...

If you're too chicken shit to even say "I'm not interested," what is asking a message board for help going ti accomplish?

Just man up and say you don't think of her in a relationship type way.

But I kinda wanna bang her with the lights off. I have my needs...

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Eat More Beef posted...

If you're too chicken shit to even say "I'm not interested," what is asking a message board for help going ti accomplish?

Just man up and say you don't think of her in a relationship type way.

But I kinda wanna bang her with the lights off. I have my needs...
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Epic-Vegan_420 posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Questionmarktarius posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Questionmarktarius posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Maybe I can treat her as a fixer upper. Get her in the gym more. Girls do that shit with guys all the time.

If you're also kinda pudgy, sell it as a "couples fitness" thing.

I'm the opposite of pudgy. 5'9", 146 of mostly lean muscle so...

Do it anyway. For every pound she loses, you try to gain.

Why would I gain? I fight at featherweight.

because nerds on this site think that gym = bulking up

I won't act haughty about it because it's A different world (fighting), but yeah, bulking up would just slow me down.
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FrisbeeDude posted...

TheKingbear2018 posted...

I am not interested? It's that simple, man...

Yeah, but this is a troll topic

It's literally not. At all.
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Questionmarktarius posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Questionmarktarius posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Maybe I can treat her as a fixer upper. Get her in the gym more. Girls do that shit with guys all the time.

If you're also kinda pudgy, sell it as a "couples fitness" thing.

I'm the opposite of pudgy. 5'9", 146 of mostly lean muscle so...

Do it anyway. For every pound she loses, you try to gain.

Why would I gain? I fight at featherweight.
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Questionmarktarius posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Maybe I can treat her as a fixer upper. Get her in the gym more. Girls do that shit with guys all the time.

If you're also kinda pudgy, sell it as a "couples fitness" thing.

I'm the opposite of pudgy. 5'9", 146 of mostly lean muscle so...
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Epic-Vegan_420 posted...

yeah fam thats called a project girl

treat her as your side piece

Good advice actually. I can go on the date while continuing to look for a more ideal person.
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Maybe I can treat her as a fixer upper. Get her in the gym more. Girls do that shit with guys all the time.
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Slip-N-Slide posted...

Aren't you the nut who trashed his own bathroom and posted the video?

You need psychological help.

I'm actually quite peachy atm. I train all day and it's the most fulfilling, wonderful feeling.
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Epic-Vegan_420 posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Epic-Vegan_420 posted...

wow your so selfish

just go on a date with her

>literally discriminating based on weight

Why is it not okay to discriminate based on physical attractiveness?

Except OP said he just feels 'above' her

It's elitism, not because of physical attractiveness.

In terms of looks and health, I am above her. It's called having standards. Chicks always talk about "leagues". Well, she isn't in mine.
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pojr posted...

why not text her. say something like "I want to be up front with you. While I enjoy speaking with you, our differences are too apparent for me. I don't see is going further than friends. I'm sorry" and then block her number?

Because the thought of doing that mortifies me for some reason. She's a nice girl. Just not physically attracted to her.
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SageHarpuia posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Questionmarktarius posted...

"I'm not interested"
There. That was easy.

Like I said, that's difficult for me to tell people. I have a legitimate problem saying no. Plus what do I say when she wants to know why? The truth would crush her...

Not if she crushes the truth first

She's 5'3" and about 160-70, maybe more. That's entirely possible.
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Epic-Vegan_420 posted...

wow your so selfish

just go on a date with her

>literally discriminating based on weight

Why is it not okay to discriminate based on physical attractiveness?
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Questionmarktarius posted...

"I'm not interested"
There. That was easy.

Like I said, that's difficult for me to tell people. I have a legitimate problem saying no. Plus what do I say when she wants to know why? The truth would crush her...
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pojr posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Fam_Fam posted...

if this is how you talk/think about people, you aren't someone who deserves better. you're kind of mean.

i get being conscious about health, but you sound like a jerk.

How is it mean in the slightest? I work incredibly hard. I look good. Why should I settle for someone far below that?

she might work hard too. no reason she should be lower because she has metabolism and thyroid issues.

Why is this the go to excuse for lazy people? I know for a damn fact she doesn't work hard and does not have medical issues such as you're referencing. She drinks smoothies and works out once every few weeks from what she's told me.
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KiwiTerraRizing posted...

Be a man and tell her. Youre about to start fighting professionally and cant tell another person you arent interested in them?

Go to lunch, her fat isnt contagious and she wont try to fuck your on the table. Talk to her like a human being, pay and say youre busy and arent interested in further dates.

Thats it, easy.

I know, but contrary to popular belief, I'm too damn nice for my own good. I nearly lost my damn mind in a relationship once because I was mortified of breaking it off and hurting her. But my god was it a toxic relationship that needed to end for both our sakes.

And fighting is different. You're supposed to hurt the other person so my mindset is totally different.
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Fam_Fam posted...

if this is how you talk/think about people, you aren't someone who deserves better. you're kind of mean.

i get being conscious about health, but you sound like a jerk.

How is it mean in the slightest? I work incredibly hard. I look good. Why should I settle for someone far below that?
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She's been texting me every day because I was going to play along to get sex, but the more I think of it I don't want anything to do with her and believe I deserve better.

We're supposed to have lunch tomorrow, and I'm having a real hard time trying to back out. I'm not assertive at all and we live in a day and age where ditching someone for being lazy and not taking care of their bodies is frowned upon.

I work way, way too hard to settle for a fat girl tbh. In the gym training for my first fight at least 10+ hours a week. I'm not saying all women need to look like sticks or professional athletes to be attractive to me, but there's plenty of middle ground between that and the damn michelin man.
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Trickfinger posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Trickfinger posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Trickfinger posted...

I already told you what you need to do. It doesnt fucking matter what you what to say so badly but cant. That in ITSELF means you have some sort of issue.

And my issue is people like you.

What do you mean people like me?

Just SAY what your issue is dude it's not a big deal.

Just stop. You know full well what the ToS is like.

Yeah I do. So you wanna say something offensive?

Only if you're sensitive.
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Trickfinger posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Trickfinger posted...

I already told you what you need to do. It doesnt fucking matter what you what to say so badly but cant. That in ITSELF means you have some sort of issue.

And my issue is people like you.

What do you mean people like me?

Just SAY what your issue is dude it's not a big deal.

Just stop. You know full well what the ToS is like.
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Trickfinger posted...

I already told you what you need to do. It doesnt fucking matter what you what to say so badly but cant. That in ITSELF means you have some sort of issue.

And my issue is people like you.
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Offworlder1 posted...

Well whenever I am feeling down sex, gaming, time at the gun range, or driving makes me feel better.

Choking people and bending their arms and legs in painful ways is what makes me feel better, but there are no classes today at my gym.
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Trickfinger posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Offworlder1 posted...

@_Goggalor_

Sounds like getting escorts instead of dating would be better for you if you feel sex is the only main reason for you to date.

There is more to being with women besides sex, shared interests, trying new things together, doing activities you both like with each other, enjoying each others company.

Sex is better with someone you love in my book.

I can't even say what I feel so this whole world is fucking pointless.

Ah. Think you suffer from depression. Honestly I suspect most of the guys like you on CE do. If you want to feel better I suggest seeing a psychiatrist. There is no shame in getting help.

Again, thanks for the attempt at help, but there is no way to convey how I feel without A. Getting modded and B. People pretending I'm just an Internet tough guy. They wouldn't understand at all.
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Offworlder1 posted...

Sorry life has got you down, sounds like you need to go play some Pokemon or a game you love to get out of your funk.

@_Goggalor_

I can't say what I need without getting moderated, but it sure as hell is not a VG.
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Offworlder1 posted...

@_Goggalor_

Sounds like getting escorts instead of dating would be better for you if you feel sex is the only main reason for you to date.

There is more to being with women besides sex, shared interests, trying new things together, doing activities you both like with each other, enjoying each others company.

Sex is better with someone you love in my book.

I can't even say what I feel so this whole world is fucking pointless.
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hortanz posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Broseph_Stalin posted...

loafy013 posted...

Fair, next.

Basically. There's a reason TC linked to a far-right conspiracy theorist youtube account and not the actual developer update from Blizzard. Here's the actual video:

https://youtu.be/5P1Md792fF8?t=2m38s

So if you're dumb enough to record yourself griefing and upload it to youtube or stream on Twitch, you will be banned. If someone else records you breaking the rules, you will be banned. This fixes an issue OW has had with players getting hundreds of reports before any action is taken. Video evidence is actually far better than just reporting someone and claiming they did something.

But TC is part of a generation of socially inept loners raised in far-right internet bubbles where they've never had to deal with consequences to their actions. He's the type of person who'd call another player the N-word and then complain about being banned for his political opinions.

Can't say anyone would be sad if these people left the game. Blizzard doing something right for once.

Or players that don't like that language can just ignore it and not demand everyone get along and be nice like it's kindergarten.

This guy literally punched his own mother

And there are unicorns in the sky. See, I can make shit up too.
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Trickfinger posted...

Why is sex your only reason to date? You could hire prostitutes.

Now we're getting to the crux of what your issues stem from.

Because everyrhing else I need I can get 10x easier from other men tbh. I enjoy conversation with men more, we have more in common obviously. And as for romance, I find it tiring and therefore don't desire it.
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Trickfinger posted...

Why should someone be turned on enough to have sex with another person at a whim? What boes being their boyfriend/SO have to do with another? They're not their own person anymore? Fuck outta here.

Sex is the only reason to actually date imo, so yes.
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Trickfinger posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

"Honey, I want to have sex"

"Well I don't feel like it"

And your last point is the exact reason a sex doll is better. Never not in the mood.

Why...

...THE FUCK...

...are you trying to initiate sex with a declaration. That is the dumbest thing I've read all day. You have to be joking. Has that line EVER worked for you?

No, but it should. Especially if they're your gf/significant other.
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Trickfinger posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Pointless arguing with you. You'll never see the light.

This is an example of beta-ness.

A guy argues with you even insults your way of living life and you shy away from him. Instead of pushing back against something you friggin bend.

Because I can't grab you through my screen and choke you, now can I? What is there to push back? Pixels?
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Trickfinger posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Trickfinger posted...

This is another phenomenon I've noticed among beta men and I guess it's why they're beta.

They are aware of their issues but they refuse to make efforts to change their behavior. It's as if they want to be beta or that they languish in it. It's sad but intriguing at the same time. How could you be a man yet shy away from being assertive? That's literally your purpose in life. To assert yourself.

Ok, next time I get rejected for sex, I'll assert myself and do it anyway.

Stop being obtuse.

HOW are you getting rejected for sex exactly? Give me an example.

Also someone doesn't have to want to have sex with you just because YOU'RE in the mood. AND GUESS WHAT. IT'S NOT NECESSARILY PERSONAL.

"Honey, I want to have sex"

"Well I don't feel like it"

And your last point is the exact reason a sex doll is better. Never not in the mood.
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Saquon--Barkley posted...

Whats the point of living in an unhappy state? If you have unlimited time, I dont see any reason why you wouldnt want to learn something new.

If I had the freedom of waking up every day knowing that nobody had the power to tell me to do something for 12 hours straight, my opportunities would be limitless.

Painting would just be one activity that I may be interested in learning about. There are an infinite amount of things that someone can improve on and discover on a daily basis. Doing the same things every day (like working the same job 70 hours a week) is what really crushes my soul.

Spend 99% of your time alone for years on end then remake this topic.
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Trickfinger posted...

This is another phenomenon I've noticed among beta men and I guess it's why they're beta.

They are aware of their issues but they refuse to make efforts to change their behavior. It's as if they want to be beta or that they languish in it. It's sad but intriguing at the same time. How could you be a man yet shy away from being assertive? That's literally your purpose in life. To assert yourself.

Ok, next time I get rejected for sex, I'll assert myself and do it anyway.
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Asherlee10 posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

I shouldn't be so surprised to see opinions on women like this on CE, but I still am.

Tbh, don't take it the wrong way, but knowing what I do about you, I take your opinion less seriously on this subject. You're a good person, but your experiences aren't going to be similar for very obvious reasons.

My experiences are irrelevant to the abysmal opinions/perspectives I'm seeing in this topic.

You're weighing in with your opinion on a dating scene you're not part of. I'd say it's relevant to point out your lack of common ground.

I don't have to be a male in the current dating scene to identify unhealthy opinions and perspectives.

Yes, you do. Your experiences are not indicative of how these men have been treated.
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Asherlee10 posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Asherlee10 posted...

I shouldn't be so surprised to see opinions on women like this on CE, but I still am.

Tbh, don't take it the wrong way, but knowing what I do about you, I take your opinion less seriously on this subject. You're a good person, but your experiences aren't going to be similar for very obvious reasons.

My experiences are irrelevant to the abysmal opinions/perspectives I'm seeing in this topic.

You're weighing in with your opinion on a dating scene you're not part of. I'd say it's relevant to point out your lack of common ground.
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Offworlder1 posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Scenario: You want sex, but your gf is pissed about something minor and refuses. How so you assert yourself?

Talking to her and trying to work out the issue, if she is u reasonable though you go out to eat.

@_Goggalor_

Ok, so I don't get what i want and she gets to be catered to. Typical.
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Trickfinger posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

No, the majority that I've met are just plain manipulative. That's it. I never felt like I was in control or didn't have to cater to their every whim lest I upset them.

Yeah.

Yeah.

You are one of many weak men. Those women are not manipulative with every man. Men with strong sense of self and boundaries will simply not tolerate certain behavior. Guys like you can be spotted from a mile away. "I could get him to do something he probably won't push back."

It's not "them". It's you, this is what I have to explain to every one. You're expressing anger outwardly towards them, but inside you're really just frustrated with yourself for allowing stuff to go down the way it did.

Pointless arguing with you. You'll never see the light.
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Asherlee10 posted...

I shouldn't be so surprised to see opinions on women like this on CE, but I still am.

Tbh, don't take it the wrong way, but knowing what I do about you, I take your opinion less seriously on this subject. You're a good person, but your experiences aren't going to be similar for very obvious reasons.
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Scenario: You want sex, but your gf is pissed about something minor and refuses. How so you assert yourself?
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Trickfinger posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Imagine telling the truth about a dirty little secret of dating any woman. Don't kid yourself, they know they can be as manipulative as they wish because of sex.

Ugh. Please. People get away with what you let them get away with. If you're a grown ass fuckin man I don't want to hear you whining about getting taken advantage of. You're either weak or just stupid.

So I'm dumb for living in reality? Ok.
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Garioshi posted...

_Goggalor_ posted...

Trickfinger posted...

The guys buying sex dolls aren't driven enough to get sex from women. Nothing of value is lost actually a whole category of people will now be much happier. Hopefully they'll be less inclined to take out their sexual frustrations in the form of acting like ass hats online

Garioshi posted...

Third_Eye posted...

women expect financial codependency for giving up sex. hopefully, this will finally put them in their place

imagine hating women this much

Imagine telling the truth about a dirty little secret of dating any woman. Don't kid yourself, they know they can be as manipulative as they wish because of sex.

ITP: All women are out to get you.

No, the majority that I've met are just plain manipulative. That's it. I never felt like I was in control or didn't have to cater to their every whim lest I upset them.
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Asherlee10 posted...

Man, some of y'all have got some serious issues in relation to women.

Not really. This is the way women have made it. They took the "equality train" and never got off at their stop. Now they just want superiority and to become bullies to their perceived former bullies.
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Trickfinger posted...

The guys buying sex dolls aren't driven enough to get sex from women. Nothing of value is lost actually a whole category of people will now be much happier. Hopefully they'll be less inclined to take out their sexual frustrations in the form of acting like ass hats online

Garioshi posted...

Third_Eye posted...

women expect financial codependency for giving up sex. hopefully, this will finally put them in their place

imagine hating women this much

Imagine telling the truth about a dirty little secret of dating any woman. Don't kid yourself, they know they can be as manipulative as they wish because of sex.
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They'll also have to find new ways to control men. Sex was their biggest bargaining chip.

Don't take out the garbage or help clean? No sex for you.

Upset them in some other way? No sex.

Well, what incentive to men have now to put up with that?
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My memtal health.
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Saquon--Barkley posted...

I get depressed sometimes, but mostly because I feel like I work too much and I dont live my life how I want to.

I would be a lot more happy if I just had unlimited free time to learn new things and grow as an individual.

There's sadness, and there's the miasmic black hole that is actual depression brought on by fucked up brain chemistry. One you can tune out and cheer yourself up. The other is like a physical sickness that eats at your very soul.
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