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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 9:59:31 AM
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She's been texting me every day because I was going to play along to get sex, but the more I think of it I don't want anything to do with her and believe I deserve better.

We're supposed to have lunch tomorrow, and I'm having a real hard time trying to back out. I'm not assertive at all and we live in a day and age where ditching someone for being lazy and not taking care of their bodies is frowned upon.

I work way, way too hard to settle for a fat girl tbh. In the gym training for my first fight at least 10+ hours a week. I'm not saying all women need to look like sticks or professional athletes to be attractive to me, but there's plenty of middle ground between that and the damn michelin man.
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Fam_Fam
02/16/18 10:00:48 AM
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if this is how you talk/think about people, you aren't someone who deserves better. you're kind of mean.

i get being conscious about health, but you sound like a jerk.
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SageHarpuia
02/16/18 10:01:27 AM
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Just tell her you're having second thoughts and then cry rape after you do it anyway.
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KiwiTerraRizing
02/16/18 10:02:25 AM
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Be a man and tell her. Youre about to start fighting professionally and cant tell another person you arent interested in them?

Go to lunch, her fat isnt contagious and she wont try to fuck your on the table. Talk to her like a human being, pay and say youre busy and arent interested in further dates.

Thats it, easy.
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 10:02:26 AM
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Fam_Fam posted...
if this is how you talk/think about people, you aren't someone who deserves better. you're kind of mean.

i get being conscious about health, but you sound like a jerk.


How is it mean in the slightest? I work incredibly hard. I look good. Why should I settle for someone far below that?
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 10:04:29 AM
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KiwiTerraRizing posted...
Be a man and tell her. Youre about to start fighting professionally and cant tell another person you arent interested in them?

Go to lunch, her fat isnt contagious and she wont try to fuck your on the table. Talk to her like a human being, pay and say youre busy and arent interested in further dates.

Thats it, easy.


I know, but contrary to popular belief, I'm too damn nice for my own good. I nearly lost my damn mind in a relationship once because I was mortified of breaking it off and hurting her. But my god was it a toxic relationship that needed to end for both our sakes.

And fighting is different. You're supposed to hurt the other person so my mindset is totally different.
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pojr
02/16/18 10:05:34 AM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
Fam_Fam posted...
if this is how you talk/think about people, you aren't someone who deserves better. you're kind of mean.

i get being conscious about health, but you sound like a jerk.


How is it mean in the slightest? I work incredibly hard. I look good. Why should I settle for someone far below that?

she might work hard too. no reason she should be lower because she has metabolism and thyroid issues.
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Veggeta_EDGE
02/16/18 10:06:58 AM
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SageHarpuia posted...

bro.....
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 10:07:22 AM
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pojr posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Fam_Fam posted...
if this is how you talk/think about people, you aren't someone who deserves better. you're kind of mean.

i get being conscious about health, but you sound like a jerk.


How is it mean in the slightest? I work incredibly hard. I look good. Why should I settle for someone far below that?

she might work hard too. no reason she should be lower because she has metabolism and thyroid issues.


Why is this the go to excuse for lazy people? I know for a damn fact she doesn't work hard and does not have medical issues such as you're referencing. She drinks smoothies and works out once every few weeks from what she's told me.
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Hairy-man
02/16/18 10:09:41 AM
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Tell her that you trashed your apartment in a fit of rage. Also didnt shower for a month.

She will run man
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Questionmarktarius
02/16/18 10:10:13 AM
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"I'm not interested"
There. That was easy.
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Epic-Vegan_420
02/16/18 10:10:32 AM
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wow your so selfish

just go on a date with her

>literally discriminating based on weight
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KiwiTerraRizing
02/16/18 10:11:12 AM
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Im surprised shes willing to fuck you with your whining tbh
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 10:11:55 AM
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Questionmarktarius posted...
"I'm not interested"
There. That was easy.


Like I said, that's difficult for me to tell people. I have a legitimate problem saying no. Plus what do I say when she wants to know why? The truth would crush her...
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Yomi
02/16/18 10:12:01 AM
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"I'm not interested."
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 10:12:43 AM
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Epic-Vegan_420 posted...
wow your so selfish

just go on a date with her

>literally discriminating based on weight


Why is it not okay to discriminate based on physical attractiveness?
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SageHarpuia
02/16/18 10:14:24 AM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
Questionmarktarius posted...
"I'm not interested"
There. That was easy.


Like I said, that's difficult for me to tell people. I have a legitimate problem saying no. Plus what do I say when she wants to know why? The truth would crush her...

Not if she crushes the truth first
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 10:16:31 AM
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SageHarpuia posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Questionmarktarius posted...
"I'm not interested"
There. That was easy.


Like I said, that's difficult for me to tell people. I have a legitimate problem saying no. Plus what do I say when she wants to know why? The truth would crush her...

Not if she crushes the truth first


She's 5'3" and about 160-70, maybe more. That's entirely possible.
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pojr
02/16/18 10:17:22 AM
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why not text her. say something like "I want to be up front with you. While I enjoy speaking with you, our differences are too apparent for me. I don't see is going further than friends. I'm sorry" and then block her number?
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Epic-Vegan_420
02/16/18 10:18:20 AM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
Epic-Vegan_420 posted...
wow your so selfish

just go on a date with her

>literally discriminating based on weight


Why is it not okay to discriminate based on physical attractiveness?

Except OP said he just feels 'above' her

It's elitism, not because of physical attractiveness.
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 10:18:46 AM
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pojr posted...
why not text her. say something like "I want to be up front with you. While I enjoy speaking with you, our differences are too apparent for me. I don't see is going further than friends. I'm sorry" and then block her number?


Because the thought of doing that mortifies me for some reason. She's a nice girl. Just not physically attracted to her.
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Jiggy101011
02/16/18 10:18:48 AM
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https://www.yourtango.com/2017301700/fat-women-make-men-happier-says-science

Good luck being miserable.
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 10:19:29 AM
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Epic-Vegan_420 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Epic-Vegan_420 posted...
wow your so selfish

just go on a date with her

>literally discriminating based on weight


Why is it not okay to discriminate based on physical attractiveness?

Except OP said he just feels 'above' her

It's elitism, not because of physical attractiveness.


In terms of looks and health, I am above her. It's called having standards. Chicks always talk about "leagues". Well, she isn't in mine.
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12amMadman
02/16/18 10:19:50 AM
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Just text "sorry" and ghost her
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Epic-Vegan_420
02/16/18 10:20:02 AM
#26:


reported for fat shaming
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Slip-N-Slide
02/16/18 10:20:33 AM
#27:


Aren't you the nut who trashed his own bathroom and posted the video?

You need psychological help.
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Ilishe
02/16/18 10:20:55 AM
#28:


God fucking damn it CE!

What did I tell you?!

Pics or gtfo
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 10:21:58 AM
#29:


Slip-N-Slide posted...
Aren't you the nut who trashed his own bathroom and posted the video?

You need psychological help.


I'm actually quite peachy atm. I train all day and it's the most fulfilling, wonderful feeling.
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deanshow
02/16/18 10:23:10 AM
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Double leg takedown+rear naked choke
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 10:24:28 AM
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Maybe I can treat her as a fixer upper. Get her in the gym more. Girls do that shit with guys all the time.
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Epic-Vegan_420
02/16/18 10:25:12 AM
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yeah fam thats called a project girl

treat her as your side piece
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 10:26:24 AM
#33:


Epic-Vegan_420 posted...
yeah fam thats called a project girl

treat her as your side piece


Good advice actually. I can go on the date while continuing to look for a more ideal person.
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fusespliff
02/16/18 10:27:57 AM
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Questionmarktarius
02/16/18 10:28:28 AM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
Maybe I can treat her as a fixer upper. Get her in the gym more. Girls do that shit with guys all the time.

If you're also kinda pudgy, sell it as a "couples fitness" thing.
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asdasddsa
02/16/18 10:28:46 AM
#36:


Deal with it TC.
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 10:30:05 AM
#37:


Questionmarktarius posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Maybe I can treat her as a fixer upper. Get her in the gym more. Girls do that shit with guys all the time.

If you're also kinda pudgy, sell it as a "couples fitness" thing.


I'm the opposite of pudgy. 5'9", 146 of mostly lean muscle so...
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Questionmarktarius
02/16/18 10:35:25 AM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
Questionmarktarius posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Maybe I can treat her as a fixer upper. Get her in the gym more. Girls do that shit with guys all the time.

If you're also kinda pudgy, sell it as a "couples fitness" thing.


I'm the opposite of pudgy. 5'9", 146 of mostly lean muscle so...

Do it anyway. For every pound she loses, you try to gain.
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KazumaKiryu
02/16/18 10:35:48 AM
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"I'm not interested"
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Sami1000
02/16/18 10:38:54 AM
#40:


Gog, how you're holding up?
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TheKingbear2018
02/16/18 10:43:21 AM
#41:


I am not interested? It's that simple, man...
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pojr
02/16/18 10:52:12 AM
#42:


what did George Costanza do when he wanted to end a relationship but didn't want to break up?

simple. be a bad boyfriend. start smoking, ask for a prenup, etc.
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 10:53:20 AM
#43:


Questionmarktarius posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Questionmarktarius posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Maybe I can treat her as a fixer upper. Get her in the gym more. Girls do that shit with guys all the time.

If you're also kinda pudgy, sell it as a "couples fitness" thing.


I'm the opposite of pudgy. 5'9", 146 of mostly lean muscle so...

Do it anyway. For every pound she loses, you try to gain.


Why would I gain? I fight at featherweight.
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FLUFFYGERM
02/16/18 10:53:21 AM
#44:


bang her then ghost her
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FrisbeeDude
02/16/18 10:54:13 AM
#45:


TheKingbear2018 posted...
I am not interested? It's that simple, man...


Yeah, but this is a troll topic
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 10:56:10 AM
#46:


FrisbeeDude posted...
TheKingbear2018 posted...
I am not interested? It's that simple, man...


Yeah, but this is a troll topic


It's literally not. At all.
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Epic-Vegan_420
02/16/18 10:59:36 AM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
Questionmarktarius posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Questionmarktarius posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Maybe I can treat her as a fixer upper. Get her in the gym more. Girls do that shit with guys all the time.

If you're also kinda pudgy, sell it as a "couples fitness" thing.


I'm the opposite of pudgy. 5'9", 146 of mostly lean muscle so...

Do it anyway. For every pound she loses, you try to gain.


Why would I gain? I fight at featherweight.

because nerds on this site think that gym = bulking up
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_Goggalor_
02/16/18 11:01:59 AM
#48:


Epic-Vegan_420 posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Questionmarktarius posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Questionmarktarius posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Maybe I can treat her as a fixer upper. Get her in the gym more. Girls do that shit with guys all the time.

If you're also kinda pudgy, sell it as a "couples fitness" thing.


I'm the opposite of pudgy. 5'9", 146 of mostly lean muscle so...

Do it anyway. For every pound she loses, you try to gain.


Why would I gain? I fight at featherweight.

because nerds on this site think that gym = bulking up


I won't act haughty about it because it's A different world (fighting), but yeah, bulking up would just slow me down.
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Questionmarktarius
02/16/18 11:02:56 AM
#49:


Just stop trying to fish for excuses, and say "not interested".
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Eat More Beef
02/16/18 11:06:20 AM
#50:


If you're too chicken shit to even say "I'm not interested," what is asking a message board for help going ti accomplish?

Just man up and say you don't think of her in a relationship type way.
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