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mammerjammer0 posted...

Thats ******* disgusting. Not something to brag about.

lol it was pretty fun dont knock it til youve tried it :D

LinkPizza posted...

Sounds interesting I dont mind topping in the dark, so I wouldnt mind trying it Haha.

I dont often go to sex parties but something I took from the pandemic is to always say yes to things. 9 times out of 10 its fun, and the one time you at least usually get a fun story out of it. And this one was both!

IAmNowGone posted...

and naturally the stereotype of gays being too sexual comes in only a few posts in smh lol.

idk man I guess we can go back to agreeing that its messed up that gay people feel so comfortable putting explicitly toxic things like no blacks in their Grindr profiles but Im not really sure where you wanna take it from there.

Or to put it another way, sometimes I find it exhausting that so much of gay identity revolves around trauma and negativity, and I think there is value in focusing on celebrating that we in many ways have all of the same opportunities that non-queer people do while our community is also more accepting of fun things that are stigmatized in the society of the straights ;) particularly when it comes to expressions of sex.

See? Tales of sexual depravity led to an interesting discussion about queer identity. Sexual depravity wins again! :D

Art imitates life.

Sufferedphoenix posted...

So people just come up and fuck you while you pretend to be asleep?

Not gonna lie if I wasn't afraid of stds I'd be down for trying that

I couldnt bring myself to play along with the sleeping thing, it was too funny to me to be hot.

But yeah some rando comes up and Id wiggle my booty as an invitation and wed get down to business. Im 99% sure its a good thing it was too dark to know what they looked like, although there were some really hot guys roaming around, both locals and foreigners.

Edit: Also, we live in a world with prep and basically no risk of getting HIV. Have all the sex. :p

Ok, this thread is too sad. Lets get horny and weird.

Im in Tokyo right now and went to a gay sauna last night. In addition to the usual sauna dark room, theres an area with a bunch of bunk beds where the bottoms hang out. Except the gimmick, in extremely Japan fashion, is that they pretend to be asleep. Like, actual fake-snoring asleep. I met a few other first-timers and we all bonded in our bewilderment lol.

Im vers but cant really get into topping in dark room situations so I was bottoming. Lets just say I was a popular boy last night. :)

Cruddy_horse posted...

This might be an unpopular opinion, but whether you're queer or not I think referring to us as "the gays" is kinda offensive.

I feel like there so many other toxic things within the gay community that the gays isnt worth focusing on.

For being so vocal about inclusivity etc so many gay people are shallow and judgmental af.

Hey boi how bout all that gay stuff we do?

My first thought was also Columbine. I remember walking into my parents bedroom and seeing the helicopter view of the school. I was too young to really know what was going on, just that it was a big deal.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/131d3zw/how_a_lot_of_people_feel_right_now/

Thank you for reminding me of this. <3