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100 year coma might do that.

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Good luck!

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Yep.

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V-E-G-Y- posted...

Are you sure about dat pretty eyes

Yes.

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I got a shiny Togepi last night. Going to use it with the paralyze/flinch moveset. I honestly didn't even notice until it sparkled, the blue/red spots just reversed places.

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ssj3vegeta_ posted...

You think anyone has had a CEcrush on you?

No.

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

happy birthday guys!!!

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Mead posted...

sucks that he lost his job but doesnt matter, had sex

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wwinterj25 posted...

That's because it is a none issue. You rented it out to a employee and that is allowed. If he uses it the way he shouldn't then that's on him.

Yeah we can, but mostly under certain conditions. Like severe weather limiting their ability to travel or working several shifts in a row and expected to be back in. They usually get the room for free, but he paid for the room, he just wanted me to actually let them in.

EvilMegas posted...

Great, now how can he sleep with her? Good job, Narc!

Yay! I did it!

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There was a topic a long time ago that linked to a random power generator. My first attempt got me probability Lord, the ability to dictate what happens. I'll set the probability of being found out to zero and go on my merry way.

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lihlih posted...

How did they find out?

I warned the next shift in case there was trouble, and told him to tell the managers what I did. I like to be up front and honest about this stuff.

Sahuagin posted...

you're not necessarily required to be absolutely perfect in all circumstances; for one thing, that's impossible. you had a quick judgment call to make, and you may or may not have made the right choice.

the other guy on the other hand made an unambiguous and clearly motivated choice to commit a particularly egregious violation of policy.

if I were you, I would ask whether or not the call you made was right or wrong, so that you know for sure going forward, apologize for making the wrong call this time (if you did), and next time use this experience to make a better decision.

in other words, being in trouble VS not being in trouble, who cares, just make sure to learn from this going forward.

I was told tonight that it was definitely the wrong call to make. I'm really not used to making such big mistakes and having no consequences for them. Really feels like I was at least partially responsible for the situation, which ended up with him losing his job... and I just told to call the manager next time first and that I'm not in trouble at all. Feels wrong.

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Sahuagin posted...

from the sound of it, they got themselves fired

That's what my manager said. Still, it wouldn't have happened if I told him no.

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One of the maintenance guys. He called me last week acting kind of panicky, saying it was an emergency and he needed me rent him a room that night. He explained that it wasn't for him, but someone he knows desperately needed a place for the night.

I knew we weren't supposed to rent to locals, but sometimes employees do get to stay here if they need a place. That's what he wanted to do, get the room with his employee status and just use it for them instead. I reluctantly agreed, but regretted it immediately when they arrived.

Apparently from their discussion at the desk there was some kind of domestic disturbance they were trying avoid. So I figured trouble would likely follow, and it did but in a different way than I imagined.

After my shift ended the maintenance guy called and said he was coming in. My co-worker told him to stay home, but he showed up anyway and used his maintenance key to access their room and supposedly sleep with her? Which I guess is what caused the domestic issue to begin with since this girl was cheating.

He got fired for it yesterday and I just learned it was because I rented him that room. I tried explaining to my manager that it was my fault and my decision to rent it to him, but she just kept saying they already knew all the details and that it's not my fault and that I'm not in trouble. I told her I just wanted to accept responsibility for my part, but that just kind of got dismissed as a non-issue.

Ugh... If only I had a spine and had told him no like I was supposed to. Or a brain and thought to call my manager first.

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Wingull.

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Caution998 posted...

you don't have to publicly demean the guy.

This.

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No one wants to date me, that's why. It's that simple.

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Yeah, sure...

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Sure, no one else would have me anyway.

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I've learned my lesson pretty thoroughly. I'm not falling for it any more.

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24 years ago. I was 12.

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Oh hey, it's Gamechamp3k. I'm pretty sure he posts on gamefaqs.

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Even older pic...


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Hard to say exactly. I lived with my brother on our own in early 20's... But that was only because my parents moved and let us stay at home. It was technically our place, but they owned it and I split the bills with my brother. Even after my parents moved back they renovated our barn into an apartment for themselves and left us at "our" place.

If that doesn't count, then I guess never. I'm saving up once again to try and find my own place away from them, but we'll see.

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electricbugs2 posted...

I'm always grateful that the two times my dad was in hospital long term he was a near perfect patient in this regard. Sure he was a grouchy old man, but in two extended stays in the hospital he never once shit himself, or on anything.

And that was with dementia and all.

A couple years ago my dad had an aneurism rupture, it nearly killed him. While he hospitalized they had to keep him strapped down because the medication made him super violent towards anyone.

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Worked most of the day, ate a bit before coming back to work this evening. My brother stopped by to see me and that was nice. Now I get to go home soon.

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008Zulu posted...

Rubik's.

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Worked from 7pm last night till 7 this morning. Was supposed to be back at 3 till 11, but I was told I could come in at 5 instead.

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A bit old, here goes.


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My dog Rinky Dink. Usually just go with Rink.

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Weezy_Tha_Don posted...

how could anyone hate you my dude.

I made a huge mistake and it came back to bite me. Ruined all my online friendships, and things haven't been the same since.

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_Matchabuu_ posted...

I mean no ones welcoming of me which is part of why I made the discord

Just dont create issues and youll be fine

Depending on who else is there, my presence would be the issue.

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I don't think I'd be welcome in another ce discord. Even if I was, not sure I want to risk it.

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Me too. Always thought I'd be married with kids by this point.

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Anyway, I've said my peace on the matter. I didn't intend to get involved as much as I did.

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joe40001 posted...

It's horrible you've had to endure that.

But these people choose their relationships, people don't choose their parents.

Anyway I guess I don't get the point of white knighting these people who aren't prisoners and have tons of relationships and options.

Sure they deserve happier lives, but when it comes to who has gotten more fucked over by life, those who have had to be alone definitely win out.

That's more along the lines of how I feel, these people who have options, even if they don't like the options are in a better position to have an enriching romantic life. That's why it bothers me when people like that claim to have no options at all while still cycling through relationships all the time. It feels demeaning towards those of us with no one. It hurts, and is frustrating, and it sure as hell feels hopeless to think that could happen for me, but that doesn't invalidate the pain they feel from bad relationships either. I'm guessing it's an entirely different type of pain than the loneliness and self hating we feel, but it's still pain.

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joe40001 posted...

Well that's a very rare situation and people should get the cops involved.

99.9999% of people aren't going to murder you or your family if you leave them.

True, but they might harrass/assault/stalk you or your loved ones anyway, or try various ways to ruin your life after. From what I've seen in bad relationships, clean breaks are the rarity, and I don't fault anyone for fearing the repurcussions.

I've been alone romantically my entire life. I'm 36 and never had a date or been intimate with anyone. It's an incredibly painful situation to be in, it's frustrating and kills your self worth.

I've also been abused my entire life. By my dad, and my mom sometimes. My brother and classmates too. When you have emotional attachments to these people leaving is hard, especially if it's also dangerous.

I do take a bit of offense at people saying they're forever alone when they can and do actually date. It feels like an exaggeration and downplaying the pain that some of us are dealing with for real, but if it meant being stuck in another abusive situation, I wouldn't take it.

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joe40001 posted...

Just as dangerous how? If you are in a bad relationship leave, if you legitimately fear for your safety from leaving tell a bunch of people and leave safely.

If you don't fear for your safety leaving a relationship then you are in no way in "just as dangerous" as a hostage situation.

If they know where you live, or where your family is, it's substantially harder to leave an abusive situation.

My dad always told my mom if she ever left him that he'd go murder her parents then hang himself. Considering the damage he did to his first wife's property when she left him, and how violent/unhinged he was towards my mom and myself it wasn't out of the question for him to do that.

He may not have had us in a literal cage, but it was still a prison.

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Sometimes they are hostages though. Not in a traditional sense, but still just as dangerous. No one should ever stay in an abusive relationship. It's just an entirely different situation from actually not being able to find anyone.

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Vol2tex posted...

True, but then you see guys on here turning down "whales" who hit on them.

Sure, some do. I'd be glad to attempt having a relationship for once though. When I say I'm going to die alone, it's because that's an actual factual possibility that is most likely going to happen. It's because of standards, or being picky. It's simply because I'm not good enough.

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Vol2tex posted...

She's not the only one to say this, several women I know have stated the same thing about the guys they see only wanting sex or being jerks (many of them seem controlling). I know we are only getting one side of the story though, but these experiences are why they feel that they will "be alone".

You can say that they are exaggerating because they could meet a great guy at some point in the future and have a better chance finding a guy to be with long-term than guys do finding women.

I think the difference is that they would be choosing to be alone in that situation. It's due to them preferring to be alone rather than with a jerk. While some guys literally have no choice except to be alone.

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I don't think I've met any like that. Most of the ones I see struggling with relationships are the ones who feel that they always have to be in one, so end up jumping into situations that aren't good just to have somebody.

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I have no self esteem. I haven't accomplished anything worth being proud over.

The only thing remotely close would be feeling nice when I get a compliment on being good looking. I mean, I strongly disagree, but it's nice to hear. It's also amounted to exactly squat in my life besides a few moments of feeling nice every once in a while.

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Roanoke...

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TheDreadedWave posted...

You, you are

Deception!

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Total beta. I wish I could vote moderate, but I don't believe there's any chance any more.

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Blue, but green is a very close 2nd.

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