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Topic | Where can I shop for door length hanging scrolls? |
BakusaiTenketsu 11/22/21 11:11:11 PM #3 | Looking for something door length and width. I'm not even sure if they make those. --- |
Topic | Where can I shop for door length hanging scrolls? |
BakusaiTenketsu 11/22/21 10:00:24 PM #1 | Our new house has a set of french doors that have glass panes on both doors, but we will be keeping one door locked and a piece of furniture behind it. Rather than let everyone see the piece of furniture through the door, I thought maybe a long wall scroll, or door scroll if that is what it's called, would be used so you can't see through the door. I was hoping for something artsy, but I can't find an online site or local store that sells something like what I'm looking for. Any suggestions? --- |
Topic | Is it disrespectful to transgenders to say you have a deadname and aren't trans? |
BakusaiTenketsu 11/11/21 10:43:42 PM #32 | NFUN posted... no its a bad topic he oculdve just googled the answerJust so you are aware, this is one of the top results from googling "deadname,": "According to one entry in Urban Dictionary, a Dead Name can be described as follows: n. The birth name of somebody who has changed their name. Most commonly attributed to trans people, but can be attributed to any person who has changed their name. ( sometimes written as two words: dead name)" ...I suspect, though, that the tidbit might be by part of what para was saying. --- |
Topic | Is it disrespectful to transgenders to say you have a deadname and aren't trans? |
BakusaiTenketsu 11/11/21 7:19:09 PM #25 | paperwarior posted... is it disrespectful to ask if the combination of your birth and current name is intentionally a play on words? >_>Highly coincidental. --- |
Topic | Is it disrespectful to transgenders to say you have a deadname and aren't trans? |
BakusaiTenketsu 11/11/21 6:53:39 PM #18 | |
Topic | Is it disrespectful to transgenders to say you have a deadname and aren't trans? |
BakusaiTenketsu 11/11/21 6:52:25 PM #17 | I'm not trying to defend calling my old name a deadname. I was named after my father (I was John, the IIIrd). He had no relevance in my life, and my mother raised me alone. After I was married, my wife suggested changing my name if I didn't like it so much. Anywho. This topic does make me feel as though I was definitely in the wrong, and I will apologize to my daughter :). --- |
Topic | Is it disrespectful to transgenders to say you have a deadname and aren't trans? |
BakusaiTenketsu 11/11/21 6:48:29 PM #13 | I don't claim to know everything about LGBTQ, in fact I am quite ignorant on quite a lot of it. But I do want to make sure I learn what's right or wrong, and make sure that I remain a positive influence for my children in that same regard. I'm almost 50, and the times have changed quite a bit since my childhood. --- |
Topic | Is it disrespectful to transgenders to say you have a deadname and aren't trans? |
BakusaiTenketsu 11/11/21 6:26:07 PM #6 | Well, I tried to trim the topic title as much as I could, it originally said "transgender community," but I hit the 80 limit pretty quick. --- |
Topic | Is it disrespectful to transgenders to say you have a deadname and aren't trans? |
BakusaiTenketsu 11/11/21 6:20:01 PM #2 | My daughter is 14, and really into the LGBTQ movement, and I totally support her (and the movement as well), I just wasn't sure if she or I was misinformed here. --- |
Topic | Is it disrespectful to transgenders to say you have a deadname and aren't trans? |
BakusaiTenketsu 11/11/21 6:18:19 PM #1 | I legally changed my name from John to Locke back in 2006 (a name taken from my favorite FF game, fwiw). I was having a discussion with my daughter today who has a transgender friend, who I've known for many years. We were discussing their old name is now a deadname, and I said my birth name is also a deadname. My daughter thought I was being disrespectful to transgender by stating I also have a deadname, but I wasn't aware it was that sensitive or even appropriated in that manner. All the same I apologized to her, but am I wrong here? --- |
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