Lurker > AreteWastrel

@MarshallStack posted...

name of sub reddit?

r/hapas

ssj-kenobi posted...

eg for woman youth and looking younger os desirable whereas for men being more mature looking is more desirable that looking boyish and baby-faced

That might be relevant

SpinKirby posted...

Stay the fuck out of the sun.

being a hermit might save us a couple years on looks

ejaculate and evacuate

bump

Maybe that's because the stock market is one of my many interests

I hope this is true lmao

CruelBuffalo posted...

Honestly this is how many Asian people treat mixed race.

I just shrug it off now, not gonna spend my life worrying or trying to justify my existence to others

That was funnier than I thought it would be

This topic turned out being pretty interesting, especially since I know nothing about makeup

I have a hard time believing a lot of those dating app preferences for some reason

anyone got any articles about how makeup damages skin? I've never heard that before, that's kinda funny.

vocedelmorte posted...

Every asian girl i know have boyfriend of her own nationality. Thing that you mentioned cam girls basically defines the type of asian girls that go for white guys

I agree, I wouldn't doubt that the one's chasing money are more likely to date white men

Corman321 posted...

I think makeup does terrible things to their skin

Lol even if that's proven I doubt that would stop women from wearing makeup

kuwab0 posted...

Look at r/EasternSunRising or r/AsianMasculinity

Those seem kinda similar but definitely more positive than the r/hapa one

Obviously this isn't true about all women, but damn it's like once most of them hit 30 they look like they're 40. Meanwhile a lot of men in their mid to late 30s could pass as someone in their mid to late 20s.

Kineth posted...

I guess I shouldn't be surprised that this is news to people, but this ain't news to me.

are you asian?

I'm seeing it everywhere now that my eyes are open CE

o_o

So why exactly is WFAM seen as worse than AFWM?

RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...

do you see white guys getting so upset or angry when a white woman is with a black man ?

uhh yes? even more so actually, there's tons of examples of black men being killed by white men for being with white women.

Emmet Till was lynched for "whistling" at a white woman for Christ's sake.

Rob Cesternino posted...

Is this the subreddit you are talking about?

https://www.reddit.com/r/hapas/

yeah that's it

Wow check out the comment section in this video

Oh_Boy_ posted...

http://home.uchicago.edu/~hortacsu/onlinedating.pdf

Seems like a good read, I'm gonna check this when I get some free time.

Oh_Boy_ posted...

I'll look the study up and post it when i find it. And I'm not going back over the shit that's happened in my life. I realize that not every Asian woman/white man couple is the same...i'm past it.

Thanks, and sorry for asking the other question, that's definitely the healthy way to look at it. I've been reading up on a lot of that Red Pill stuff on Reddit and even though I don't agree with all of it I know of a lot of people and stories that those ideologies could apply to. But I know enough decent women to know that the whole generalization of every woman being the same thing is dumb, so I feel you on that.

Oh_Boy_ posted...

I'm a hapa from a terrible WMAF family. It's awful and I don't wish to get into it. I'll just say that there's a huge bias in dating preference and to me it is based in racism and not preference. That is why Asian women specifically date white men, not just non-Asian in high numbers. Also, statistically the average Asian woman will take a white guy below the poverty line at the same rate as a gainfully employed Asian man making an average of $62K/year. A real study was done to show this.

We really have a problem with white worship in our culture, I'm not bitter anymore, I've moved on long ago but it goes way beyond just preference for most Asians.

You got a link to that study?

And do you have any stories or know of any stories (of friends or whatever) that have to do with other Asian girls in the context of this topic?

Sorry if I'm coming off as intrusive, just wondering. I'm black so I'm kinda on the outside looking in since I don't really think I have a shot with Asian girls regardless.

Highwind07 posted...

Yea FOBs are more likely to date their own nationality or race vs Americanized. This is just a gross generalization though. The usual justification is that Americanized ones are surrounded by more Whites and/or influenced by the media to think of them higher.

I read what FOB meant on Urban Dictionary and person that wrote the definition even sounded mad lmao

Zikten posted...

AreteWastrel posted...

Now that I think about it I guess a lot of the good looking Asian girls I know arent with other Asian men and pretty much all of the Asian cam girls/youtubers/instagram models that Ive seen are usually with white men.

are these girls westernized asian girls? just wondering. I have a theory that the ones who are raised in the west go for white guys usually. and the ones that grew up in asia or raised by parents that grew up in asia, and have a more traditional life, go for fellow asians to marry

Im not 100% sure but Id assume its mainly about westernized Asian girls, yeah.

Squall28 posted...

Because white men are glorified in Hollywood, and they go out of their way to desexualize Asian men in media.

Thats definitey a huge factor in it, the perception of white men in media being so far above the minorities is a little fucked up when you think about it.

I saw a post screenshotting tweets that went as far as some of those girls parents telling them to marry a white man.

...Asian girls being with white men or men of different ethnicities.

Now that I think about it I guess a lot of the good looking Asian girls I know arent with other Asian men and pretty much all of the Asian cam girls/youtubers/instagram models that Ive seen are usually with white men.

I never really thought about it before (probably since Im not Asian or white) but its interesting. Do you feel any way about this CE?

RedWhiteBlue posted...

And yet most of us never see these people (cheaters), it's mostly online venting.

I know a ton of people irl that have either been cheated on by a girl, has cheated on their girl, or fucked girls with boyfriends so even though I don't believe everything I read I believe that a lot of the stories I read are true. Especially considering the way that females act.

Like look at this story, I don't even know how I would be able to deal with some shit like this...

all the poor saps that will never find out that their girl has cheated/is cheating

I know it's a 2 way road and girls/guys both cheat but it's still crazy reading about how fast some of these girls will fuck over a dude in a long term relationship for a chad

KILBOTz posted...

under 5'6" guys can round up if over 1/2" and add 1 inch. So 5'4.5" = 5'6"
5'6 to 5'11" you round up to the nearest inch. So 5'11.25" = 6'
6'-6'3" you can round up if over the 1/2" mark but it makes you a petty bitch
over 6'4" you truncate off the fractions.

bob742omb posted...

AreteWastrel posted...

No, I meant to say 5'11.5"

just round up at that point
you're 6'

But I don't want to be a LIAR

No, I meant to say 5'11.5"

I'm pretty sure I've clicked this topic on 2 or 3 different occasions forgetting what this topic was and laughed every time

I told you guys I'm spiraling

I've lied about being 6 feet so much I couldn't even fathom clicking that 5

Are breast reductions as bad as implants in terms of feeling fake?

I've been telling people I'm 6'0" because I really thought I was, I feel like such a damn fraud

I'm spiraling right now CE

Muffinz0rz posted...

you don't have to censor "fap"

Oh cool, I remember I got moderated for saying fap before, but I guess that was a while ago

This game sucks

Just wondering

final bump

Ill look for that later

bump

clearaflagrantj posted...

AreteWastrel posted...

This topic is making me scared, there's this girl I've been kind of interested in and we've been hanging out a lot and stuff and she just got out of a 4 year relationship and they even lived together.

It really depends on the person, some people can move on faster than others.

I absolutely should not have dated immediately after my long term gf, it was unfair to the few women I was with directly after. But two years of being alone helped me grow past my ex and now I'm happy with someone else.

Then again I broke up with my ex so if she dumped me it probably would have taken longer to heal

Yeah thats true, I wonder what to think about it if she was the one that was dumped and shes a pretty attractive girl

CyricZ posted...

Well... yeah. Sex in general is usually not all that entertaining except for the people involved. You think porn is how sex looks? Geez, guys.

Im gonna have to disagree here, I barely ever watch professional porn, I primarily watch amateur porn and most of the time it is pretty good. Shit even most snapchat porn that I see is pretty decent so Im not buying that unless youre telling me those people are professionals too

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au_gold posted...

Kim Ks is alright.

That's one of the worst ones, especially since it's so popular

It's probably better than a lot of other celebrity ones, but I just hate how you see Ray J more than you actually see Kim

I really don't think I've ever seen a good one

And it's not even because "they aren't pornstars" or whatever, because there's obviously a lot of good amateur porn out there

This topic is making me scared, there's this girl I've been kind of interested in and we've been hanging out a lot and stuff and she just got out of a 4 year relationship and they even lived together.

yeah, I think most of the philosophy is based on this book

guess not

Johnny_Nutcase posted...

Still recovering from 9th degree burns from the firework mishap.

sadly I don't think my finger will grow back