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TopicTinychat
3khc
03/05/20 11:07:49 AM
#189
More pics

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TopicTinychat
3khc
03/04/20 3:14:12 PM
#188
Weren't they going out

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TopicNASA sent mice into space
3khc
03/02/20 2:32:57 PM
#14
Where's the video of them being clumsy

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TopicWould you have a beer with Kevin Spacey?
3khc
03/02/20 1:35:42 PM
#9
Why not

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TopicWomen couldn't vote until 1920 basically.
3khc
03/02/20 12:33:44 PM
#6
shockthemonkey posted...
*white women


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TopicTinychat
3khc
03/02/20 12:00:24 PM
#186
Supernatural posted...
Currentevents was already taken
I remember now. IIRC, the previous name was a CE room, but it was password locked.

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TopicBrie Larson officially returning for Captain Marvel 2 despite naysaying fans.
3khc
02/27/20 7:45:18 PM
#29
Tyranthraxus posted...
I didn't even know this was ever in doubt


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Topiccandyman teaser dropped
3khc
02/27/20 7:42:14 PM
#44
I thought TT is reprising his role

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TopicTinychat
3khc
02/27/20 6:31:06 PM
#170
RieTakahash posted...
Yup
Why was it aa and not just current events

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TopicThe Proud Family: Louder and Prouder coming soon to Disney+
3khc
02/27/20 5:36:22 PM
#16
TheMikh posted...
obligatory:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w2CJE6iFxnM

with that said though, it was a fun show and it's nice i suppose to hear they're bringing it back, but i still don't see myself shelling out for another streaming service
Lol after married
Lmao blood test

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Topic"A troop of special Chinese ducks is waiting to be deployed to Pakistan to
3khc
02/27/20 5:30:46 PM
#3
TopicThe Proud Family: Louder and Prouder coming soon to Disney+
3khc
02/27/20 5:27:34 PM
#5


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Topiccute ebony pornstars?
3khc
02/27/20 5:14:14 PM
#24
Jada Fire
Osa Lovely

Blacker the berry, sweeter the juice

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Topiccandyman teaser dropped
3khc
02/27/20 5:12:22 PM
#28
dolomedes posted...
candyman
Candyman

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TopicCan you play through an old stealth game?
3khc
02/27/20 5:10:45 PM
#7
I've beat Metal Gear and Metal Gear 2 for MSX. Well, they were the PS2 ports but still

Also played the NES game on Rom back before internet banned them

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TopicWhat is a dodger?
3khc
02/27/20 4:22:24 PM
#7
TopicDo any of you ever watch nature videos on youtube?
3khc
02/27/20 2:58:23 PM
#7
AirJordan2345 posted...
what do you consider the good ones?
Search spy cams

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TopicI had a dream I was a famous author
3khc
02/27/20 2:57:17 PM
#27
Artisan1990 posted...
And I was on a book tour, answering fan questions. They introduced me as "one of the most promising young authors in quite some time". Then I woke up with a sense of deep, depressing loathing of myself because that is absolutely never going to happen in a million lifetimes.
Write a book. See if the dream comes true

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Topic12 years after everyone else, I have finally played the Assassin's Creed series!
3khc
02/27/20 2:56:02 PM
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MeIon Bread posted...
I thought the series started in 2007, with basically a game a year?
Tf dont you have google

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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/27/20 2:54:31 PM
#44
Kitt posted...
I only got to meet my dad once when I was too young to remember. Years later, I've tried to reach out to him a few times and never got a response :(

Sucks not having a father in your life.
Maybe try again. Although when I finally got a response it was because he needed something from me then started blaming me for things.

But seriously maybe your father has just been trying to figure out what to say. ALTHOUGH this mindset is what probably led to my anger when he didn't live up to expectations.

Idk dads are foos

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Topic12 years after everyone else, I have finally played the Assassin's Creed series!
3khc
02/27/20 2:51:17 PM
#8
>Plays series for first time
>Starts with the last entry of a trilogy

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TopicWhich genre takes more skill: Fighting games or Real-time strategy?
3khc
02/27/20 2:44:07 PM
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Guide posted...
I'd say just the opposite. You're free to come back from a knockdown, free to lose a round and win the set, or come back from the very last pixel of health. At the higher tiers in SC2, you don't really come back from a losing start.
Those comebacks take an immense amount of focus.

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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/27/20 2:42:19 PM
#42
Trigg3rH4ppy posted...
Serious question, does your dad or his family have history of mental illness? He doesn't sound like his bulbs are tight, and I mean that in the most decent way possible.

You don't need that shit in your life, you obviously don't need him. You made it this far, fuck him. It's nothing to do with you man, some people just arent great at family stuff and sadly shouldn't be parents.

My opinion: your dad sounds manipulative and not willing to take responsibility for anything. Shit sounds toxic.
I dont know of any mental illness other than maybe alcoholism but my father seems unaffected by that. He does seem like he's trying to guilt trip me tho. After sleeping on it, you're right i don't need this shit.

WrestlinFan posted...
Cut him out of your life completely. Immediately. You sound like you're doing well for yourself TC, I know it'll hurt but that pain will dull eventually and you'll be way better off if you severed ties with him.
I am ignoring him right now because I'm ashamed how I reacted. It was really bugging me last night like I wanted to fight him but now it's already starting to dull.

darkmaian23 posted...
There isn't. What's going on here is mismatch between your wants and needs and what reality has provided you. You don't want a relationship with your father, you want a relationship with a version of your father who would actually play the part. You want that void in your life filled. But it isn't going to be, because the man who is your father isn't a good person and doesn't want to be your dad. That has nothing to do with you, and it isn't anything you can fix.

Does the guy by any chance seem to have fake emotions and a bizarrely high opinion of himself? I'm getting a Narcissistic Personality Disorder vibe from this weird back and forth about the SUV and this stuff about nobody helping him. Look up NPD if you don't know what it is, and if he has more than a couple of the traits, cut him off right now and don't look back. The horror of being tangled up with someone with has NPD and has set their sights on you can't be overstated. Until you've had it happen to you, you can't know how bad it is. It'll be bad for you, bad for your future wife, and bad for your future children.
That sounds right about me looking to fill a void. I wish he never contacted me because I prefer my made up memory of what should be like to the actual reality of him resenting me.

I can't really say if he has NPD because I'm not too close with him. Even before my parents split he was always kinda detached. We never had conversations and most of our interactions was him getting mad at me for fighting with my younger sister.

I was the one who caught him leaving the house when he separated. Said he needed some time because he has low self esteem or something. He never came back so I figured he was just depressed, but I hate that he seems to blame me for that.


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TopicBat vs. Knife
3khc
02/27/20 12:51:35 PM
#22
viewmaster_pi posted...
i don't get where this belief that bats are hard to control after swinging is coming from. is it slower than a knife? sure, but it's not like a giant warhammer
Go to the batting cage then come back here

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TopicWhich genre takes more skill: Fighting games or Real-time strategy?
3khc
02/27/20 12:49:31 PM
#17
Fighting games are the epitome of competitive gaming

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TopicThey made the Rarity figure too fucking sexy
3khc
02/27/20 12:42:37 PM
#4
The other day I was wondering what happened to bronies

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TopicBat vs. Knife
3khc
02/27/20 12:34:46 PM
#16
Coastal_elite posted...
not sure if serious, but kali sticks are very, very different from a baseball bat. They're weighted too differently.
Just because a boxer uses gloves doesn't mean they can't fight without them.

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TopicBat vs. Knife
3khc
02/27/20 12:22:09 PM
#3
I've practice eskrima so either weapon is fine

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TopicPost her face when she sees your penis
3khc
02/27/20 12:09:57 PM
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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/27/20 1:17:07 AM
#38
Highly Evolved posted...
I can sort of relate. My father left us when I was 9, I remember his last words were: you are the man of the house now, take good care of your sisters and mother. He showed up some years later to ask for money (I suspect he had a second family at this point) and didn't give so much as an explanation.

Bottom line - not everyone is a good person, and that includes your own family. Best advice I can give is, make damn sure you don't repeat the cycle.
I hope I don't treat my children like this. Them begging me to talk with them. Them doubting if I care.

BlazinBlue88 posted...
Yeah sounds like he's a stranger more so than a parent. Stop acting like you have an obligation to this stranger. Focus on the people in your life that want your love and return that love with more of it.
I just feel like there is some miscommunication. Apparently six years ago he thought I took my mother's side and he resents me for that. I tried explaining this was not the case but he doesn't believe me. I failed to communicate this with him. Or he fails to understand.


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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/27/20 1:12:19 AM
#37
I feel so dumb.

He claimed I won't let him use the SUV. I asked when i ever said that and that I only expressed concern about the long drive. He said to review our conversation. So I summarized the entire convo in a wall of text to point out that I never said what he claims. But he never answered.

Basically i got trolled and replied with a meltdown. I'm pissed at myself for this

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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/26/20 9:01:49 PM
#31
berlyman101 posted...
this dudes dad is literally pulling some bitchy girlfriend shit. sorry tc
I see that comparison, but the first thing thst popped into my mind was internet troll.

I usually don't respond with wall of texts to someone pissing me off but he got me there.

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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/26/20 8:19:28 PM
#27
He replied again. Says how my sister is daddy's girl and I'm a mommy's boy and not to take offense. But also says how I'm not helping him. Apparently he needs the SUV for storage. I offered my garage for storage, but he declined. I don't know what his ducking problem is

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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/26/20 7:24:58 PM
#24
IfGodCouldDie posted...
Honestly, I had the chance to meet my father when I was around 20-22, I dont remember exactly when, I guess he had really regretted not sticking around to get to know me. I let him die with that regret. He could have made the attempt at any point in my life but decided not to. I in turn have used my lack of ever having a father or even any real father figure to fuel being the best father I can be to my wonderful children.
Honestly, my future children is all I'm thinking about after this. I will never do what he did to me.

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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/26/20 6:21:58 PM
#22
Blue_Inigo posted...
Yeah your dad doesn't deserve that honor
Sucks. Really sucks. Although my friend said the baby would technically be named after me. But nah. I'm now triggered by my own name.

Solid Sonic posted...
This topic has made me really depressed and I've been already feeling kind of low for the past few days as it is.

This in particular has soured me pretty badly. It's like justifying why people out there think the only real worthwhile companions are dogs. I feel like I need a pet and to move somewhere I don't need to interact with anyone...
I feel pretty bad, but am surprised I don't feel worse.

I actually just left work early because don't want to deal with extra stress.

Wewillrocku posted...
don't think about it
I wish he never contacted me in the first place. I was content believing he was just very shy and embarrassed to reach out to his kids. Now he is actively antagonistic to me.

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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/26/20 6:16:44 PM
#21
I asked how he can call me a mommy's boy after I've stayed neutral throughout their separation. Called him out on deleting me from fb, changing his phone numbers and making it hard to contact him.

He denied the Facebook thing (at which point I told him he can view this in our Facebook history). Says that I listen to my mom and never supported him. I tell him he never talks to me so how can i know his situation?

Then I asked what can I do to support him. No reply again so far.

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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/26/20 6:02:42 PM
#17
Thanks for the consideration, but I'm cool off fathers for the time being.

Like I used to want to continue the tradition of handing down my name to my son (I was named after my father), but noy anymore. Like wtf i knew a total asshole with that name

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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/26/20 5:02:19 PM
#14
He replied to

What the fuck he just told me I'm a mommy's boy. What the fuck does she have to do with any of this??? She wasn't even part of the conversation.

Now he's saying he will never contact me again. Fml

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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/26/20 3:16:34 PM
#12
E32005 posted...
probably cuz your mom treated him like shit
What does that have to do with me

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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/26/20 2:39:58 PM
#10
ehhwhatever posted...
ordinary people
What does this mean

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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/26/20 2:32:53 PM
#8
IfGodCouldDie posted...
I can't relate because my father bounced on my mom as soon as he found out she was pregnant. I also spent the majority of my childhood in foster care because my mom sucked at being a mom to me and my brother who she had with another deadbeat PoS. What I can say is fuck'em, are you happy with your life? The life you built without his janky ass? Because if you are you need to understand that you did it without him and he is the one missing out on having an awesome kid, you ain't missing out on having a shitty father, that's for damn sure!
I figured I'm not much to be proud of, so thanks your words made me feel a little better about myself. But it sucks because that still means I have to accept he just doesn't care to be part of my life.

cuttin_in_farm posted...
Ill never understand why people think they have to have a relationship with family.

We all had friends that are no longer friends. A father is no different to me.

But I obviously dont know the specific context here.
It's just something I want.

Blue_Inigo posted...
That's a fucked up story man. You really need to tell him how you feel about all this. Give it to him straight. Make him answer for his fuck ups
When he first told me to have a happy life. I called him right away and gave him a piece of my mind. It was a weird moment because we never really talked before that and suddenly I was pouring my feelings out about how he's treating his son.

Now this second time I don't bother to call, but I did send a message saying that I never forgot the first time he told me to have a happy life. Told him I forgave him that time because I thought he was angry about the separation. This time I asked him if he only contacted me because he needed something.

So far no response. No longer surprised.

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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/26/20 1:54:40 PM
#4
TheLastHero posted...
I didn't even know you still posted here. Wild
I'm surprised I remembered my log in information tbh

SquantoZ posted...
Are you Will Smith?
Apparently. Can anyone else relate

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TopicMy father told me to have a happy life
3khc
02/26/20 1:46:53 PM
#1
He told me this previously during his separation from my mother. I forgave him because I figured he was just mad at her.

Fast forward six years later. I barely see him, but still message happy birthday, happy holidays, that I'm finally engaged. No reply.

Last month he finally replies. Says he's leaving the country for good and wants his old SUV [that he abandoned and I had to pay ~$1000 to maintain over the years]. I remind him I'm getting married. Says if I can find his citizen papers then he'll be able yo return to the country and attend the wedding. And that he'll give me his car since he won't be needing it anymore.

I tell him money is tight and so I can't afford insurance/registration on a fourth car. Suggested he teach my younger bro to drive and pass the car to him. I also invite him to my newly purchased home, thinking he'll be happy to visit.

He ignores that and asks me to drive the SUV 2.5 hours to his location and trade cars. I tell him the SUV may not make the drive. He says never mind to the whole thing and tells me to have a happy life with my fiance.

How come he don't want me man


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TopicTinychat
3khc
02/26/20 1:37:25 PM
#166
Remember aacurrentevents

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TopicPlaying Resident Evil 4 for the first time, already died in the 2nd area -_-
3khc
02/17/20 11:50:27 PM
#52
Ada Separate Ways was koo. Play that too tc

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TopicTinychat
3khc
02/17/20 11:02:43 PM
#71
Daffadilio posted...
Those werent the real donors, except maybe belf, the other two people were using to troll but as long as the donations were real, eh
Lol I was wondering how squad and geno were together in the same donation. Why use them tho

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TopicTinychat
3khc
02/17/20 10:42:05 PM
#65
Supernatural posted...
wow!!
now how am i going to stalk your gfs
Lmao this brings me back

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TopicTinychat
3khc
02/17/20 10:30:27 PM
#60
I don't have fb

But u the homie too I just be like that

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TopicWhat character would you be in the most recent Planet of the Apes series?
3khc
02/17/20 10:06:35 PM
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Dawn of the Planet of the Apes

Maurice should have been the surprise bad guy instead of Koba. Koba had reason to be the villain, but it was too obvious and would have been much more interesting to see him fight his hate for humans due to his bond with Caesar. Their brotherly relationship at the the beginning was top tier.

Maurice would have been a huge twist. Dude was a circus performer and seemed gentle but could harbor a lot of hate for humans.


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TopicSo you think soldier would be like this in WW3?
3khc
02/17/20 10:01:46 PM
#2
There are billions of people in the world so yeah I would expect a wide variety of tastes and appearances.

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