Lurker > 3khc

DEKMStephens posted...

Dropped out years ago lol

Same lol. Never did any of that stuff I set out to do. Shame on me. It's still on the list tho. And so far I'm doing alright.

Burnt_Puke82 posted...

I've been out of the loop for many months dealing with my own shit. I had no idea any of this happened until today.

What a fucking gut punch. We used to talk a lot privately. He was kinda like a sound board for my personal shit. He seemed to genuinely take an interest and offer good advice when asked. He sent me a couple books in the mail before and would discuss them at length He was always easy to talk to about anything. At least to me he was.

I feel like I could have done something to help when he was reaching out. I honestly feel sick right now. I really fucking hate life sometimes. I'm going to miss him.

It seems Flam had this relationship with a lot of people. He was a good man. I wish I could have helped.

Fun fact: flam is the only person I have ever exchanged phone numbers with online and it will probably remain that way. I'm cautious about real life info, yet our friendship managed to get him past my guard.

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I found the go fund me page for flam. I'm glad some of us were there to help. I noticed belf, xsq, and geno amongst the donations.


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I just remember more

@Kombucha
@steeleye5
@xsquader
@YonicBoom

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inloveanddeath0 posted...

Eh just living day to day. Quit smoking over a year ago. Working at a grocery store

Good job on quitting. Bet u saving a lot of money

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ilad wassup gamboy

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The biotech major. How'd school go?

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Feline_Heart posted...

Don't stop.

Then I will feel like I've let him turn me into a wrathful son. I refuse. People say, even in this topic, that regret will occur if I don't make peace.

It's just how do I do that when he seems so cold towards me and the sibs

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BatmanVonDoom posted...

Wassup 3 its batman.

A couple of the tc guys moved onto discord.

Flam stuff is true don't really want to go further into it on here

Oh what up. I never got into discord or any of the other replacements for tinychat. Is this where we found out

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Bp my bad homie how could I not tag you. Yeah I'm having a hard time believing this. How did the news break

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Yaas. I recognize those names.

Also
@Pyro_NinjaX
@bok_choi
@brutal

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Supernatural posted...

hi 3k
are u married to your girl yet

We got engaged NYE. Finally

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What up poptart. Yeah I want more info about flam. Was just reading our old messages. He helped me sort some things out. I wish I could have been there for him as well.

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I want a simulation of what Superman explains at 03:00

https://youtu.be/4GDNd8b_QOo?t=3m

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Anyone have screen shots from whatever year this all took place

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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]



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Pics nao

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What up. I think you're pretty fly. Can I have your number and maybe we we can hang out sometime

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I loved all the fan art. NSFW or not. But for some reason, the adult content ban seemed to have taken all the good SFW stuff too

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How has the porn ban affected this social media service since then?

Is Tumblr struggling or they still don't care

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bover_87 posted...

hi

Sup.

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RieTakahash posted...

I also don't do hard drugs anymore lmao

My best memories of you

deanshow posted...

Flam passed via illness or suicide dude. Its 100 percent true

Where did this info come from? I don't want to believe it, but I see he posted four months ago.

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Clerks II reintroduced us to Samantha Fox
https://youtu.be/18Vf6EH2tGU

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I told my fiancee that I'm probably just being sensitive, but she says the messages sent by my father seem selfish. She believe he wouldn't have contacted me if he didn't need to find his papers.

I don't like this negative thoughts, but it mind a makes sense. He avoided me all this time until now.

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Make up

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How old are u

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kingdrake2 posted...

it's always good to make peace if they want back in life (except if it's really bad) in some cases.
talking violent shit.

our mother left us in the 6th grade took well over 14 years before she called again. it was a good thing since 6 years later she ended up passing away would've been left on bad terms if there was no forgiveness (forgave her for what she did).

I don't exactly blame him for much. Yeah he left. He said son mean things. Hasn't made much of an effort to keep in touch. But he was still in my life most of the the time. And this taught me how not to treat my children.

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ssj3vegeta posted...

a lot of dose people don't post here anymore

sadly, flamazide passed away last year too iirc

I hope this isn't true. I've texted him but no reply. What happened

RieTakahash posted...

Sup

It's instagig

What up Insta my gig.

What you all been up to

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So those travelling papers are his citizen papers. He told me to find them so he can come back for my wedding.

Turbam posted...

My dad never wanted me, so fuck 'em.

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Not much jus playin som gamz

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Not asking why I'm here but rather what am I doing here

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Wait that doesn't sound right. What am I doing wrong

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Is poss

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Probably same, but I have found myself to hesitate in the winter.

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Who the fuck

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KiwiTerraRizing posted...

Yes, Im engaged to her now.

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No talking

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@Flamazide
@armandro
@inloveanddeath0
@The23rdMagus
@tachyonZ
@damn I don't remember the rest of your usernames my bad it's been literal years

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Roxborough4Ever posted...

probably too personal for gfaqs but I always blamed my dad for leaving soley on my dad....took me years to realize, it was my moms fault I dont have a dad

I've always understood how difficult my mother can be, but my father is the one who told me "have a good life" out of pettiness after he left. It was during my parents separation and he thought I was taking my mother's side when I was really trying to stay out of the entire thing. They disagreed on something, he tried to go through me instead. I told him I don't want to be caught in the middle. He messaged me " have a good life".

I remember thinking wow this is the most we've talked in years and this is what he says.

The only times I saw him after that was at my cousin (his niece) wedding and when I visited my grandmother (his mother) in hospice.

GiftedACIII posted...

Yeah it must be straining. Sorry to hear that man.

Thanks. It's really not that bad. I know people have worse relations, but I'm just trying to understand why I'm getting so stressed about all this.

MarkMahWords posted...

Reap any of the monetary/object benefits you can. You may never get that emotional connection or love that really matters, but you might as well get something out of it rather than nothing. Based on your opening post, youre gonna get a different car, and hes offering. But I sincerely doubt youll get anything more than that. Just seems to be a consistent observation that once a dad leaves, they wont come back. Plus he even said hes leaving the country soon. That should give you more reason to believe hes not coming back.

Sorry for what youre going through though. I cant imagine the hurt and stress youve gone through because of this man.

Seems logical to take what I need, but I'm not sure if I want any hand outs from this man. I don't really have a place to park a third vehicle anyway. Told him my younger brother could use it more than me.

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BuckVanHammer posted...

idk, sounds warranted...

It's always stressful when he comes back into my life. Even little text message convos like yhis. I think, what does he want this time?

It conflicts with my desire of a complete family again. I wish things were different, but it's just awkward.

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My father has contacted me recently. Well, actually I've contacted him several times for his birthday, Thanksgiving, and Christmas. No reply. I even got engaged on new years eve, but decided not to contact him this time since he doesn't respond anyway.

This month he finally reached back out to me. I told him I got engaged. He said congrats. But apparently he's planning to leave the country for good and wanted to know if I wanted his car.

I told him maybe since I don't like my cars (the cars he left and I had to pay fees/repair on my own). He said oh then we should swap since I don't like them. Then he said asked me to look for his travelling papers or whatever from our old storage unit.

I said I'll let him know if I find the papers (not going out of my way to search tho). And that I intend to sell the car he wanted to swap because I'm saving up for my wedding.

Hmm.. This topic went from question to blogfaqs. See what I mean about resentment?

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