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TopicI love how black women sound when they use AAVE (Ebonics)
cuttin_in_farm
05/26/21 7:34:40 PM
#4
Yo, this poster has been posting a lot of weird shit about black women. Im getting a little irritated.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicHave you asked a girl out that already had a boyfriend?
cuttin_in_farm
05/26/21 7:24:14 PM
#17
DespondentDeity posted...
This phrasing is extremely toxic and your logic is incel shit anyway

If you say so.

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TopicCould you date a girl that didn't do vaginal sex?
cuttin_in_farm
05/26/21 7:12:40 PM
#27
I would say lying to a partner so that they will have sex with you is under the rape umbrella, but I dunno how serious of a topic this is.

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TopicIf some guys are trapped in the friendzone, does that mean some are locked out?
cuttin_in_farm
05/26/21 6:55:45 PM
#3
You... you realize being locked out of the friendzone just means youre the one friendzoning folks.

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TopicHave you asked a girl out that already had a boyfriend?
cuttin_in_farm
05/26/21 6:46:09 PM
#11
Jiek_Fafn posted...
It was either/or...or an exception?

It being an exception is not mutually exclusive.

Having a public proposal without telling anyone or with hints is probably a dumb move. The lady saying yes does not erase that doing it is still dumb for a few reasons.

Trying to ask out someone who is claimed is either a dick move (home wrecker/ not respecting the guy/girl already in a relationship) or a dumb move (the type of person to just dump their current s/o for a better option may have that same logic with you down the line).

I dont understand why there is pushback to this concept.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicHave you asked a girl out that already had a boyfriend?
cuttin_in_farm
05/26/21 6:37:02 PM
#5
kinetika_ posted...
I did it, and I've been with her going on 10 years. Guess I'm dumb

Good for you. It was still either a dick move, or a dumb move.

There are exceptions to everything.

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TopicHave you asked a girl out that already had a boyfriend?
cuttin_in_farm
05/26/21 6:34:07 PM
#2
Not intentionally.

Intentionally doing so is either a dick move, or a dumb move.

Anyone willing to leave their S/O for you, has the means to to leave you for someone else.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicPeople are way too fast to pull out a phone to record stuff
cuttin_in_farm
05/26/21 5:22:11 PM
#10
I think Id rather people start recording so bad people can have consequences or be pressured to stop being bad as opposed to calling 911 so that help can come ten minutes too late.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
Topicas a guy how would you feel if a woman proposed to you?
cuttin_in_farm
05/26/21 4:25:25 PM
#14
CalypsoDoom posted...
imagine being that much of a pickme


You are such an unique poster lol.

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TopicJust finished Wandavision and Falcon and Winter Soldier (spoilers)
cuttin_in_farm
05/26/21 4:24:30 PM
#8
CableZL posted...
No, I read your post. I'm just saying everyone in the Hex technically went through the barrier, not just Monica and Hex Vision. Monica is the only one who went through more than once, from what I recall.


I cant remember, but the lady from Thor seemed to imply Monicas dna was being altered because she was being forced through the barrier. Like, the show seems to make a distinction since every other character had no adverse effects.

I could be wrong, but it was only after she went through the barrier unauthorized a third time did powers actually stick.

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TopicJust finished Wandavision and Falcon and Winter Soldier (spoilers)
cuttin_in_farm
05/26/21 4:15:32 PM
#5
CableZL posted...
Everyone in the hex went through the barrier. Even more people went through it when she expanded it

Its.. like you didnt even read my post lol.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicJust finished Wandavision and Falcon and Winter Soldier (spoilers)
cuttin_in_farm
05/26/21 4:10:39 PM
#2
daynlokki posted...
Could that mean everyone who has gone through the barrier could be a mutant now?

Maybe? But only Monica went through the barrier at all. And Hex Vision.

The show seems to treat Wanda expanding the hex as different than characters forcing their way in.

Beekeeper died or something.

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TopicWhat's a normal rate to rent a car?
cuttin_in_farm
05/26/21 4:05:44 PM
#5
How old are you?

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TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/25/21 7:28:01 PM
#104
Im gonna go ahead and say fuck all of you criticizing me.

As expected, I know how to turn shit around. Thanks to the folk who actually were trying to be helpful.

Dunno why I even doubted myself tbh. Let a buncha nerds get to me. Im honestly embarrassed.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 10:59:36 AM
#95
ROOTFayth posted...
I mean you come across as very needy and insecure, like just saying "would you be open to drinking wine with me" and talking to us about how you absolutely need her to be with you...

you should pick up the PUA stuff however mysoginistic it is, might learn a few things

Bro, she said yes. Has it occurred to you that maybe the way I talk to her is due to how weve communicated prior?

Like, tell me to change things if it doesnt work. Otherwise yall sound weird.

bsp77 posted...
You can play off your marry me as a joke.

Sounds tough to pull off. I think I should just be honest and say I was drinking. Playing it off as a joke might be weird since thats what I responded to her question with.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 10:35:19 AM
#91
bsp77 posted...
But you can also date people just for sex and such. But I have already been married, had kids, and been divorced, so my priorities are different from some others.

Im sorry to hear that...

This particular lady Ive known for 4 years. I wasnt really interested in her romantically until recently. Its very difficult converting from friends to more imo. Add in that its hard to see her in person, and its tough.

But I think I sank it. At least for now. Ah well.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 10:30:24 AM
#89
doomcrusader posted...
She agree to marry you yet?

Yea, its happening on September 17th. Youre all invited.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 10:18:37 AM
#84
bsp77 posted...
Yeah, but why would you ever text someone about marrying? I mean, no amount of drinking should cause that

Because I actually want to?

Why would I want to date someone if it wont lead to marriage?

Drinking for the most part just amplifies the subconscious thoughts, but no one in their right mind just blurts out their thoughts willy nilly.


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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 10:13:52 AM
#82
Aeriis posted...
TC made a topic once about how beating children is okay and anyone who disagrees is white

Did you just make this up? I never made such a topic.

More than likely, my consistent stance is that every culture but American white people use spanking as a form of discipline, yet as always, anything minorities do is wrong and archaic.

Dont try being over dramatic.

As for the topic at hand, Im kinda mad tbh. I let myself be goaded into sending that stupid shit. Now I look like some clingy loser.

Autocraticus posted...
The fact you've already placed her on a pedestal already shows you aren't ready to be in a serious relationship with her.

Oh, fuck you. I waited a full week to even text her back. I was only prompted to text because I was drinking. What pedestal are you even talking about.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 3:18:38 AM
#59
Truth be told, theres plenty women out there. I can catch a fair amount of them.

But this lady is just completely in a different league. If shes with me, sweet Jesus watch out. I dont know any of yall. I probably fucked up, but Ill deal with that later. My fault for drinking.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 3:09:59 AM
#57
You know what would be fun? If she was with me.

oh man would I just be a giant asshole. You fucking nerds would be stuck here. Talking about mundane shit.

Even if she doesnt wanna marry me. I can damage control. I am a pro liar. I can get out of anything.

She will be with me. I will make sure it. She has no choice tbh.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 2:55:09 AM
#56
I dont care anymore.

I liquidated all my investments so that I could give money to my friends.

I just dont find this fun. Nothing about this is fun.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 2:48:23 AM
#53


Bring it on.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 2:41:25 AM
#52
Well. 2 nos and one yes.

I dunno guys. I just really. Wanna be with her. She used to visit me at work way. And I would visit her. Shes like run across the place to hug me and have this giant smile on her face.

But i was with my ex. I was so fucking stupid. I should have left her then. I really hope I didnt wait too long.

Im just gonna go for it tomorrow. Once the whiskey wears off. Just call her and ask. I need to.

ah man. Another yes. Geez man.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 2:35:24 AM
#48
Mackorov posted...
text her 'Marry me!'

just be upfront bro. Women like men with CONFIDENCE right

Im fucking wasted, but Im willing to go for it if someone else agrees. Ill post results.

I dont even care.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 2:31:06 AM
#45
Ryuko_Chan posted...
TC you two are both crazy and she likes you back

marry her

Fuck! You make me just wanna send Marry me. And fucking 2:30 am.

She would be so fucking content. I would be so fucking content.

Why are we not married, bro? Im solid. I got this!

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 2:23:45 AM
#40
Darmik posted...
This and the 'amazing trading opportunity'?

lol good luck. Amazing what guys will overlook if she's hot.

Its not her looks man.

Its our talks. When we go eat somewhere or hang out, I just recently realized. Shes so fucking beautiful and what she says I relate to so fucking much. I go through life always changing how I behave to fit the mold of others.

But fuck. Last time we went out to eat, she would be talking and my mind just couldnt help repeating how amazing she is. For a brief moment, I felt like a giant bitch. But I held it back.

She just deserves so much better. She deserves me, bro.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 2:14:00 AM
#38
totalnerdken posted...
Just straight up tell her that you think she's cute and you'd like to go on a date to get to know her better.

Although, I wouldn't go in thinking that you're the best option for her. You are merely an option, nothing more. And you should see her as that as well, just an option, and nothin more.

I have to be her best option. Who else does she know that is like me? Im successful. I have my own place. Im knowledgeable. Im cultured.

Im just a giant pussy when it comes to taking risks. Ive a 100% track record with asking people out. But Im too much of a perfectionist. Shes not showing me any clear signs. I have to risk it asking her.

The alternative is I overthink it, and chicken out. I have to keep arrogant energy.

Gosh, if she joins my boat, its smooth sailing. She wont have to worry about shit. Im taking care of her. I just have to risk it ig. Youre right. Youre right.

RebelElite791 posted...
Someone who thinks they're Jesus is a psycho, at best.

Such a privileged prospective.

I will try to think about your advice tho. I know a relationship cant fix things. But *she* can.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 1:57:04 AM
#27
You need to be more kind bro.

Dont go calling people psychos. I gave 1% of interactions. I know its weird, but I just know once shes with me, everything will be fine. I have my own place. Investments accruing. No debt. A decent job.

But without someone to support, whats the point? She will benefit too. Im her best option tbh.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 1:52:30 AM
#24
RebelElite791 posted...
Literally complaining that someone is responding with interest instead of one word replies. And she's clearly a fucking psycho so enjoy each other.

You CE tough guys are all so bold behind anonymous screens. You be calling people whatever the fuck you want since you think theres no consequences.

Im not religious. Excuse the fuck outfa me for not fully understanding what she tries to say. I just say she understands me. Boom. A book about how shes confused and how I need to trust God, not her.

Then I come here and these people are all happy and shit. And then theres people here with families and success and hobbies.

If I had her, I could be fine. I drink more and more every day. Shit is getting expensive. I just fucking ex left because of vague fucking reasons.

I know it sounds weird. But shes super great and understanding. I just need to say what I think. Thats all.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 1:44:39 AM
#22
RebelElite791 posted...
She sounds receptive, why are you freaking out? "Would you be open to drinking with me" is the worst thing i've read today though, congrats

Dude, her responding was like finding a leprechaun.

Its rolling dice. When she does respond, she usually sends a giant fucking book. And Im like, ok? I just think youre cute and super nice. Why are you telling me all this shit? I just thought we could get some tacos.

So I have to be super cautious with asking her stuff. I never know when she will go ghost.

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TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 1:39:06 AM
#17
Ryuko_Chan posted...
tell her when youre free

and keep it to a sentence at most

Bro, shes super flaky. Should I lie and say a weekend since its more likely to line up, or be honest and say most evenings?

Cause tbh. The longer I wait, the longer shes gonna think I just wanna be friends. Shes social and attractive. Shes gonna find some white dude.

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TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 1:30:16 AM
#13


Someone help me followup. This is what I have to work with. Im a dumbass and didnt respond. I can salvage this tho.

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A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm.
TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 1:25:58 AM
#6
KaZooo posted...
bruh its over

Bro fucking get out of here. She has to be with me. I was a bitch and waited so long to ask, but now is my chance. I have to be aggressive. I asked on fucking Sunday evening like a dummy. I should have gave more time.

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TopicYo, I really want to ask her out. But dunno how to do it.
cuttin_in_farm
05/24/21 1:14:54 AM
#1
Beautiful girl. Met her at one of my old jobs helping people with federal student loans. We used to hang out a bit but she had a bf.

Recently I learned they broke up. And damnit I want to jump in so fucking bad. Shes a shit texter tho. Like, wed go 6 months and shit without talking.

I asked if she wanted to drink wine with me and she said in a week since shes busy. But I need her to be with me now tbh. Shes gorgeous and super fucking nice. Shes like the one person on the planet I relate to.

I really dont want to wait too long to ask. Shes super flaky on communicating. And tbh, shes super lost. She voted for Trump and felt comfortable telling me despite me being black. And last she was questioning if she was Jesus and that I need to surrender to God. But damnit I need to be with her.

Gosh man. I just downed 6 shots of fireball, so Im a little woozy. Im thinking of just calling tomorrow and being upfront. But I dunno.

God, she needs to be my wife. Fr. Shes learning trading and I scheduling my series 7/66 exams this month so perfect match too.

CE. Help me craft a text to send. I cant wait.

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TopicThe Redfield bloodline.
cuttin_in_farm
05/23/21 11:23:07 PM
#3
https://youtu.be/laGChAJmkR8

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TopicThe Redfield bloodline.
cuttin_in_farm
05/23/21 11:15:46 PM
#1
Why is this shit the funniest meme Ive seen come out of a game? The fact that I can easily see an American Dad antagonist with this plotline makes it so much funnier.

They have musical numbers and everything. When and why did this shit start?

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TopicIt's so fucking tragic what happened to DMX
cuttin_in_farm
05/23/21 8:28:35 PM
#16
NOM posted...
Again, he went to prison for that, was repentant and some stories say it was his brother/cousin or something like that that did the actual abuse/dogfighting at his house.

Get off his dick.


Bro, you cant ask why people think hes shitty, then get defensive at the answer.

Plenty of people in similar situations as DMX didnt partake. People are allowed to not like him for it.


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TopicWhich One is the Angel and Devil Here?
cuttin_in_farm
05/23/21 8:18:53 PM
#10
Jiek_Fafn posted...
Theyre in masks. No way to tell who they are

Yea, but one has a white, angelic mask. While the other has a black, evil mask. The answer is color coded.

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TopicScenario: You're about to bed your dream girl when your friend really needs you.
cuttin_in_farm
05/23/21 8:17:30 PM
#6
RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
If they are a friend they are more important then a random hot girl, once the fun is over thats it and she will probably be out of your life. The friend is someone you know is going to be around you again and you need to be there for them.


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TopicHow southern are you?
cuttin_in_farm
05/23/21 5:57:15 PM
#19
KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
"How's your mom 'n em"

What's that even mean??

Hows your mom and them?

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TopicWatching Mortal Kombat at the drive in
cuttin_in_farm
05/23/21 12:06:29 AM
#2
Drive ins are the best tbh.

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TopicSinging, dancing, or instrument player?
cuttin_in_farm
05/22/21 10:39:59 PM
#7
RedJackson posted...
I've always stuck by this and will forever stick to this: if you can hum a melody in any capacity, you can probably learn how to sing.

How well? Well depends on the amount of study just like anything else tbh >_>

The voice can be particularly tricky without guidance.. but that you can make real progress? Absolutely. Just don't strain it or force it. Those vocal cords don't grow back like that.

Is singing even something you can improve? I dont think my voice can really change notes much.

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TopicSinging, dancing, or instrument player?
cuttin_in_farm
05/22/21 6:42:05 PM
#4
RedJackson posted...
In my experience singing has gotten me laid more times than saying I'm the guitar player in a band

But I also dance around the stage so there's always that

Man, it's so great being me :D

Man, I cant dance, sing, or play anything.

Ive come to rely on blatantly cant dance dancing to compensate, but if I could sing?

Itd be game over for everybody.

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TopicSinging, dancing, or instrument player?
cuttin_in_farm
05/22/21 6:36:33 PM
#1
Which social skill is the best to have?



One thing I will make sure my children have is at least one of these skills. Being able to do at least 1 puts you socially ahead of the curb by a large margin imo.

Which one do yall think is the best to have if you can only choose one?

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TopicAre you comfortable enough to cry in front of your friends?
cuttin_in_farm
05/22/21 6:32:16 PM
#2
I am not 100%.

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TopicWe always say "Thank God" but why don't we ever blame da devil?
cuttin_in_farm
05/22/21 6:31:10 PM
#2
People do?

Very often actually.

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