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Leonhart4 posted...

Sounds like you dodged a bullet imhotbqh

Haha sure did! Would've been screwed if this happened after we had kids, like we were originally aiming for

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Wow you guys sure know your shit. The girl who cheated on me and then lied to me about it is now married to him haha.

We had a discussion over the phone about it, and it's one of the most insane things I've ever heard. I just wish I would've listened to you guys a month ago

Edit: fuck it let's make this an AMA on the subject

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Comedic TV shows always help me. It's hard to be depressed if I'm laughing all the time. Plus it's easy to start feeling connected to the characters as if they're actual people

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Don't want to see it, but I'll be doing it anyway haha

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Yes, she revealed more about the money thing, it's pretty personal, but that's the last thing I'm worried about. I really don't think she's a bad person, I think the emotional stress got the best of both of us.

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There really is a lot for us to work on. Prior to this shit it's been a wonderful relationship for the both of us I want to work on it and I really think she does too. Otherwise she would've just made it official with him already

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If I've learned anything from his strategy (yes I've admittedly done it before) the girl almost always stays dedicated to her dude, even if he is a really awful piece of shit.

Honestly the fact that they didn't start dating immediately after we broke up shows that she still cares about me and probably wants to fix things. I think she's just still upset about our toxicity exchange since the breakup.

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Oh I know they have an ulterior motive. They were acquaintances in College and he just texted her "Hey" and it lead to this.

When I found out about it, I messaged him warning him that she was dating me when they started talking and after I found out the details I messaged him apologizing, stating how I really care about her and got worked up. No reply either time, so definitely nefarious.

Once we start working on things again as long as she stops talking to him about our stuff and talks about me in a positive light I'm sure he'll fade away on his own

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I agree, but I know that wasn't her intention at all. When it happened some shit was going down with all of her support systems and he was there when no one else was. Like if you're actively dating/sleeping with someone then you know you're cheating, but if they're helping you in a bad time, you're just get support.

That said it doesn't even come close to justifying it. Especially considering how I found out, but I can see how she made that mistake

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For those that remember about a week or two ago. I posted here asking about some advice, concerning my ex not coming home or talking to me about anything. Well now all has been revealed to me and well you guys were partially right.

She wasn't cheating, but she had found another person to confide in. So instead of talking to me about our issues back in August, she just kept talking to him instead, leading to our break up in October. That said, her reasons for doing it are technically sound, not justified but I get where she's coming from. We talked it out and we're going to work on it, but she needs some space first because of how toxic things got. So things are rough, but I did really want to clarify what happened for ya'll since you guys helped me so much

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50 exactly

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1. Kingdom Hearts III
2. Fire Emblem: Three Houses
3. Untitled Goose Game

It's a shame I didn't play more of this year's games there are some that look really good

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Squirtle > Charmander > Bulbusaur
Totodile > Cyndaquil > Chikorita
Treecko > Mudkip > Torchic
Piplup > Chimchar > Turtwig
Oshawott > Snivy > Tepig
Froakie > Chespin > Fennekin
Scorbunny > Sobble > Grookey

3 > 2 > 6 > 1 > 7 > 5 > 4

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Scarecrow

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I think Wahlberg can pull off if he cares about it. He's very hit and miss for me, but he is definitely capable of pulling it off.

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Have fun powering up Tidus'

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Honestly seeing it just because they changed his design. More companies need to do stuff like this and showing support for the movie us the number 1 way to do that.

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Mustache with beard growing back.

I usually run mustache out of control beard combo, but my hair grows so damn fast that when my beard gets too bad I just shave the whole thing and run only moustache for like a week. Despite 'looking like a weirdo' I look like an even bigger one clean shaven.

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The Mandalorian was great it actually felt like Star Wars to me without dipping into nostalgia too much like I felt Rogue One did.

Heavyweights was pretty fun, about what I expected, but definitely a solid movie for what it is.

Kim Possible is one of my favorite cartoons and I look forward to rewatching more of the episodes


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Depends on the floor but like 90% of the time it's garbage

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So happy Kim Possible is on here. If I recall it never got dvd releases. So it's pretty nice to finally be able to watch the whole series in order in great quality.

Also really hyped to actually watch through The Simpsons for the first time

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So I've got two right now. My former main one is now part time and it sucks. I'm a fast food restaraunt manager. The company is severally understaffed from employees to management. I was already working about 50 hours a week of highly stressful work. Despite this corporate changed our close time from 11pm to 2am and let us know less than a week in advance. Led me to finding my other job the only reason I stayed a few days is because I do really like a lot of the employees there and I've procured enough raises to get decent pay.

My other job is a lot better slightly less pay, but I just cook rotisserie chickens for a grocery store. It's a pretty simple job, but it does keep my mind occupied as most of it is just time management. There's just enough to do that keeps you from moving from to thing, but not so much that you begin to panic. The draw is my hours are 5am-130pm. Which is really hard for me coming off of closing shifts, but I'll adjust eventually.

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I've actually really been wanting to watch Rat Race so now I'm even more hyped for it.

And I love Mystery Men to death, but it can be pretty damn cringy at times and totally has that 'bad' 90s feel to it

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Me forgetting about Mystery Men in the Ben Stiller topic got me thinking about this. What're some of your guys' favorite 'bad' movies? Also wouldn't really include so bad they're good movies since most of people's enjoyment is just ironic.

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Used to be a Halloween movie for me, but has since turned into a Christmas one.

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Anyway I've come to my conclusion.

I told her she needs to move her stuff out, etc. and were to stop communicating once all the official business is out of the way (phone plan, keys, etc.)
She asked what made me come to that conclusion, as tempting as it was to just say GameFAQs and move on. I told her I would tell her the reason for the umpteenth time either over the phone or in person and if she immediately starts changing before she's fully moved out then I might be willing to work with her.

I really appreciate the advice everyone I don't think I would've actually went about pulling the trigger on this otherwise.

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Also for what it's worth I've had a roommate on heavy drugs before and I know the behavior, plus we have a handful of valuable comic books, some of which are exclusively hers. They'd be sold already if it was drugs.

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BlueCrystalTear posted...

Okay, so how long was she at the optometry office? If she's at Walgreens for a similarly short period of time, that's becoming a pattern. She would need to clear a drug test for a job like that.

Not long she said she quit due to sexual harassment. She did o line classes and passed a certification exam for the job. If she was in it for the drugs I highly doubt she would've done all that

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Bossman_Coolguy posted...

Is this the north Dakota girl?

Haha no you must be thinking of a different user

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I've had two theories

1. She'll lose money on her car or the credit card stuff. Then be stupid and quit one of the jobs and continue to spend what little she had on food/gas/etc.

2. She's just lying about being broke and just doesn't want to help me

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BlueCrystalTear posted...

So... she's working two full-time jobs even though she doesn't need to, staying at a friend's house more than your shared place, somehow isn't paying her end of the bills despite having two jobs, and now she's making things tense?

Yeah, whatever she's soaking her money into, it can't be good - especially since she's not telling you. She should've stuck to the job she enjoyed doing. What were those two jobs? Is there anything suspicious about the second one? Because I'm wondering if that's what started all this.

The job she liked ended, it was a Flower nursery job. Her other one was overnights at a hotel, and then she picked up an optometry office. Then quit both and is now a server and as well as just started a pharmacist job at Walgreens.

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Honestly my thoughts on her being this distant is frankly immaturity. I think drugs/cheating would make sense under a lot of normal circumstances, but it feels like shes more than anything just trying to avoid the situation hoping it goes away. She doesn't like responsibility and expectations, before we got together she was doing the same thing with her mom. She had like two or three jobs and was sleeping at her same friends college dorms. My assumption would be she viewed her mom as overbearing and is likely viewing me the same way.

That said I don't think it changes the situation much and I think your guys' general solution is correct nonetheless

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Yeah she was making more than minimum.

One job was 12 and the other was like 13.50
I was making 16.50 at 50 hrs a week.

Minimum where we live is like 8.75

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ChaosTonyV4 posted...

Working two jobs and still being broke sounds to me like a drug problem, tbh

Nah that one's impossible, she hates drugs more than the thought of cheating due to some heavily personal reasons. She's even tried smoking weed a couple times and thinks it's just a waste of time. She's more likely to be cheating on me

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Yeah severing communication is what my friends were suggesting as well, but it's weird. The situation was such a colossal heel turn, we went from spending majority of our free time together to none at all. She's given a reason, which has a little bit of truth to it, but it still feels like little more than a way to just blame me, which I accepted the blame for initially and apologized and tried to change it, but only recently I thought about it and I feel like she's acted this way before with others.

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Yes, and in her defense a couple of big things happened including work on her car, and her credit card info being taken, but those were months ago and she has since gotten the credit card stuff back and taken care off, but she's still broke.

That said I've been covering rent, all the bills and just bought a car with just my single job so it still doesn't line up tbh.

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Normally I try not talking about really personal stuff here, but this has been affecting me pretty horribly. I've asked friends and they've given me what's probably the right answer, but I want to see some more neutral opinions.

So about a month ago I broke up with my girlfriend of almost 3 years. It had been an incredibly strong relationship up until about July/August. We had been living together nearly the whole time, began sharing bills and were discussing marriage/kids. But around the aforementioned time she began working two full time jobs. One was for money and the other she just really enjoyed doing. Now at this time we weren't having money issues at all I was making more than enough to cover both of us, but despite this she stopped being able to cover her own bills and even food or gas money. In addition to that I almost never saw her, she more often then not stayed at a friends house cause they lived closer to one of her jobs.

It's pretty easy to think that she had been cheating on me, but I'm like 95% sure that's not the case. It's not like her at all and she's always had a huge issue with people cheating on her, but needless to say the money issues and her not being home made the situation incredibly tense. We discussed breaking up several times, but didn't until she finally went back down to one job, but despite her doing that, her flaky behavior remained for a couple weeks, so I finally broke up with her, with the intention of letting us try and repair things without the expectations that come with relationships. We agreed on her still living here as friends and that she would start contributing more money. Seeing as how I'm posting this here it obviously didn't work as planned.

The situation is in flames now. All the issues we had have just worsened. We've had several heartfelt discussions on the issues we have with each other, but despite that her actions haven't shown the slightest sign of improving.

I've tried talking about just separating entirely and dropping all forms of contact, because that's the vibe I get, but she doesn't want to do that and insists that we keep being friends. Should I keep trying? Should I drop her entirely? Should I stay friends with and forget being in a relationship? (idk if I can physically do this one)

There's several other details I can go into if you guys need more info. I didn't want to make the opening post too long.

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I find making a general priority list hard, since a lot it winds up being a result of how well characters fare on their own, but as far as this contest goes I'd say this one's pretty close to what I would save.

1. Sabin Rene Figaro
2. Quina Quen
3. Jecht
4. Kefka Palazzo
5. Freya Crescent
6. Vivi Ornitier
7. Tifa Lockhart
8. Squall Leonhart
9. Yuna
10. Golbez
11. Celes Chere
12. Gilgamesh
13. Vincent Valentine
14. Edgar Roni Figaro
15. Yuffie Kisaragi
16. Seymour Guado
17. Oerba Yun Fang
18. ExDeath
19. Cecil Harvey
20. Sazh Katzroy
21. Kuja
22. Estinien Wyrmblood
23. Rufus Shinra
24. Red XIII
25. Gaius van Baelsar

91. Serah Farron
92. Lenne
93. Leblanc
94. Cissnei
95. Layle
96. Isaaru
97. Eiko Carol
98. Tiz Arrior
99. Agnes Oblige
100. Edea Lee

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SantaRPidgey posted...

I mean you're very wrong, B/W 2 was a completely different game with a new plot, x/y didn't even have one and Us/um was the exact same game as far as features go (unless you're mad they didn't have mantine surfing in the first one)

-The original had Red/Green in Japan then came out with the superior Blue which is what we got as Red/Blue in the west

-Still haven't played GSC so I'm not sure on how much better Crystal was on the other two

-Emerald was far superior to Ruby/Sapphire

-Diamond and Pearl were horrible Pokemon games everything about it moves at a snail's pace and a ton of the new Pokemon weren't even obtainable until Platinum. Which is so much better that D/P are borderline unplayable

-You're absolutely right on Gen 5 and that's the exception

-X/Y's even worse as a result, because there is no Z. Despite being a remake ORAS had a ton of content and ended up easily being the definitive Gen VI game.

-Still haven't beaten Sun/Moon because of the opening hours being painfully slow, but everyone and their moms have told me to just play Ultra Sun/Moon they're the best ways to play it.

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