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TopicAs an asian person I liked Khan Soup from KotH. For Apu
TommyG663513
11/25/18 10:33:29 AM
#2
Khan and his family are very well developed characters. They are also up against a bunch of Texans who are all huge stereotypes that are also all very well developed.
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TopicIf you got cuffed and searched by the cops only to find nothing wrong...
TommyG663513
11/25/18 10:30:37 AM
#9
Lordgold666 posted...
Middle hope posted...
Not at all.


Typically, when cops search and cuff you, they aren't super kind about it. Expect them to attempt to intimidate, insult you, swear at you, then don't expect an apology when they find nothing. They will treat you like you are very lucky they've decided to let you off as opposed to continuing to harass you.
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TopicIf you got cuffed and searched by the cops only to find nothing wrong...
TommyG663513
11/25/18 10:28:14 AM
#6
Evthean posted...
its happened to me and yeah a bit

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TopicAs a non-American, I don't really understand what was wrong with Bernie Sanders
TommyG663513
11/25/18 9:45:48 AM
#31
creativerealms posted...
ManBeast462 posted...
He was a white male, too much for the lefts identity politics.

You have to ignore like seventy five percent if the left if you believe that.


I don't think even the majority of the left is white.
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TopicAny of you go to strip clubs?
TommyG663513
11/24/18 7:48:47 PM
#18
Damn, you guys are crazy. I've only ever paid for a lap dance. I got two of them back to back and it was $20 each for $40 total. I felt like I really wasted my money and vowed not to do that ever again.

You guys talk about dropping $100's or $1000's like it is no big deal. Makes me feel extremely frugal for spending $20 on a blu ray.
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TopicYou know one thing millennials definitely haven't ruined? Food.
TommyG663513
11/22/18 3:49:24 PM
#4
It's the same deal on this side of the pond
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/22/18 3:40:19 PM
#123
QwelzaarKane posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
Perhaps you shouldn't try to pretend to be so certain that there are tons of ways to meet women


You're asking me things specific to you and where you live. Tf you expect me to do? I can think of ten places off the top of my head around me where I would go to meet people with similar interests.


Then list them. It isn't that hard, but you keep dancing around it.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/22/18 11:07:10 AM
#114
QwelzaarKane posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
Ok. Please list thrm off if it is so simple. Keep in mind that it has to be something I have some interest in myself.

How am I supposed to know what you're non-comedy interests are and what city you're in? Like, why are you having trouble thinking of different things you like to do where you live?

TommyG663513 posted...
Just seems weird how you've repeatedly proclaimed how easy it is without offering any meaningful advice or ideas.

QwelzaarKane posted...
Think about things you like to do (besides comedy), go to where like-minded people congregate, and socialize.


I can't offer more than that because I don't know you. I'm also not about to sit here and do research on where you should go to meet women. That's your job.


So you basically have nothing lol. Perhaps you shouldn't try to pretend to be so certain that there are tons of ways to meet women when it really isn't that easy.

Comedy is basically the most social interest I have with the greatest chance of meeting women. I certainly feel it has limitations in that regard, but idk. I have gotten women to compliment my act a few times, but it has always been a girl with a date. Again, performing comedy helps me feel more confident and comfortable with myself. That seems a lot more important than meeting women.

It's kind of stupid to just do things for the purpose of meeting women
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/22/18 12:33:31 AM
#111
QwelzaarKane posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
Not really. I outlined issues with bars. I have a job during the graveyard hours. I have my own interests that I pursue that take up time. I'm not going to do things that are completely unnatural to me just for the purpose of meeting women. Comedy clubs, quite frankly, give me more opportunity than most things I do to talk to women. The thing is I'm extremely passionate about comedy so talking to women there is just a thing that happens on occasion that I don't plan for. The thing with comedy is it decreases my anxiety about being in social situations by being on a stage in front of a large group telling jokes. There is an awful lot of worth in that all by itself which is why I go to open mics very often.

People don't have unlimited time to go meet people. It's weird to approach people at the gym, generally. Sometimes I can chat with someone at the grocery store, but people are usually busy shopping. Not gonna go to a random place to lurk and meet women unless I have a real reason for being there.

The biggest place to meet people is bars, but again, I'm not into that stuff very much.


QwelzaarKane posted...
You can meet women literally anywhere


If you're having trouble even meeting women it's due to a lack of effort. Think about things you like to do (besides comedy), go to where like-minded people congregate, and socialize. Comedy clubs tell me you live in or close enough to the city. If that's the case it should be easy af to think of a bunch of places to meet people regardless of your interests.


Ok. Please list thrm off if it is so simple. Keep in mind that it has to be something I have some interest in myself. Nobody likes the dude who only does a thing to meet women.

Just seems weird how you've repeatedly proclaimed how easy it is without offering any meaningful advice or ideas.
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TopicIf slut shaming is bad so is virgin shaming
TommyG663513
11/21/18 9:51:35 PM
#32
Kineth posted...
Ryuko_Chan posted...
Guide posted...
Who said otherwise?

the trend to insult incels


Virgins are rectangles and incels are squares. All squares are rectangles, but not all rectangles are squares.

The point is, being a jaded hateful person is why incels get made fun of.


Just seems kind of low to hate on them. It's like they're already incredibly unhappy. Just wish them well and pay them no mind.
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TopicFuck thanksgiving and fuck the holidays in general
TommyG663513
11/21/18 9:45:23 PM
#4
It basically is just one big scam
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TopicFriendly reminder that giving homeless people homes is cheaper than not.
TommyG663513
11/21/18 9:38:02 PM
#80
Does anyone here claim to support the troops? I have a feeling what your opinion on homeless vets might be and I figure it isn't so supportive of the troops.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/21/18 9:29:30 PM
#109
EternalDivide posted...
I can only tell you what happening right now with my younger brother who found an online woman.
He's always been but now at 29 gone full desperate crazy. He's "not complete" until he has a woman and a family he's always said. Well he found a like minded woman. Both are desperate to be hitched by 30.
Found her online using some site, god only knows which in September. September 2018. Starts dating her and in less than a week he's invited her over for Thanksgiving with the family. God how I'm dreading tomorrow. And I'm hosting at my house.

What kind of girl is she you may ask? In the few times she's been over. Large, first generation, loud, rude, pushy, argumentative, foul mouth. Thinks she's cute as she dresses like a 9 year old would in Harry Potter print clothes or just dumpy too large tee shirts. Sits around and then falls asleep at the table or sofa, whichever she's sitting at. Uses my idiot brother as her personal ATM. Plans his days out for him. This *redacted* can't even respond when told "hello" by my other brother. She's just a true b in the truest sense of that word. Terrible person. Now she's showing up and doing chores like the dishes at my mom's house. And it's like Red Alert! Danger! Danger! You know what that is. She has her eyes set on moving in with him in my mom's house. That's what that is. Not being nice or anything. There's been stories exactly like this one playing out right now that have happened to other idiot men in my extended family. Some fresh from or not far removed from the third world girl comes out of nowhere, gets her hooks in the guy and then immediately sets her sights on the family home.
And a couple of those times these hussies have gotten in there because the mother is spineless and folds for whatever sob story they concoct. And all the family pays the price with the living hell they turned the home life into. Both of those occasions it took the mother having to go through legale avenues to evict her and their own sons. It's ugly. And damnit if it doesn't look like this is where this scenario is headed.


Damn that is pretty extreme. Seems like more dudes are willing to settle, but this scenario sounds made up if it wasn't so detailed.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/21/18 9:08:59 PM
#107
Orlando_Jordan posted...
This topic is a yikes. Tinder is a POS app, yet you guys use it because you're too lazy to actually meet women in real life. Then when it doesn't work, you complain as if women are conspiring against you.


No one has stated any such conspiracy. Just a reality in how things work. Dating app odds are stacked against men compared to women. Dating in real life generally favors women too. Is it easier to approach or to be approached? It is just the way things are and you need to understand how it works if you want any success.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/21/18 9:04:43 PM
#106
cuttin_in_farm posted...
Eh... which has it easier is harder to say. It depends what you think a successful date is.

Women get dates easier without question.

But I dunno if the metric should just be quantity of dates possible.


You only don't know because you know that'd make you wrong. Don't act like men are somehow getting a higher quality of dates when we swipe right on everything that isn't hideous and women get to be picky in the swiping department.

This isn't rocket science. It is a very well known and researched fact that women are way pickier with their swipes.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/21/18 7:07:22 PM
#103
CyricZ posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
It's just that dating IS easier for women. Why is it so hard for people to admit that in one aspect of life that women generally have it easier?

Because we don't think it's true. For reasons that have already been stated.

No one is saying men never have problems with dating.

No one is saying women can't be awful.

No one is saying men can't be taken advantage of.

Coming up with individual situations where men come out the worse does not tip the scale to the end of "women have it easier in dating".

I mean, quite frankly this would be easier to explain if we had some actual women in this topic.

TommyG663513 posted...
More bisexual people need to weigh in on this topic.

That's fine, but I don't think it's going to give the perspective that this topic really needs. You're suggesting that because you date both men and women that you're in a position to judge who has it easier with dating, but that ignores the fact that while you have dated both men and women, you've only ever dated AS a man. You've never dated AS a woman.

What we really need are some of the trans people on CE who have dated as both expressions. >_>


And you've never dated as a woman so I guess no one ITT has a right to an opinion here.

There really is absolutely no denying that women have it way easier in the early stages of dating which is obviously how it all starts. It is a lot easier to block users who send obnoxious messages than it is to start a real conversation. Are women too scared to block people or something?
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TopicSo Tony Hawk 4 is hated now?
TommyG663513
11/21/18 7:00:07 PM
#26
THPS4 was my absolute favorite. A truly amazing game. Loved every second of it.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/21/18 6:55:07 PM
#101
pres_madagascar posted...
The whole conversation thing has been my issue of late.

All the women I meet and date lately have been absolute dogshit at conversing, and had almost no unique personalities whatsoever. They've all seemed to want me to be the one starting and leading conversations at all times, as well as the one always deciding what we should do.

I don't want a fucking lapdog, I want a partner.


This is easily my biggest frustration I dating women. Women just don't seem to feel the need to carry a convo as much. It is pretty jarring how different this can be when dating other men

More bisexual people need to weigh in on this topic. Don't see how people would be talking up the difficulties of women in dating to such degree if you had ever attempted to date the same sex.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/21/18 6:51:49 PM
#98
cuttin_in_farm posted...
JBaLLEN66 posted...
All_My_Life posted...
Also, being hammered with dick pics and people who aren't interested in you long-term doesn't exactly do wonders for your self-confidence either


Its called having standards and filters. Women have it so hard because this is so hard to do lol.


Bro, you sound like a loser.

Women have it hard because every single dude is a hound for them. Dudes with no long term prospects either show their cards early (dick pic ppl), or use disguises.

This is the issue. Thirsty dudes who dont want to date bombard women under the guise of being a good guy.

Good guys that want to take their time arent in enough numbers and their innate approaches are being stolen by fuckboys.

Women have no clue who is who, and theres no reliable way to decipher it. Ive friends who show me their messages of dudes that 180 their personality or never stop trying. Its fucking ridiculous.

Dudes should be embarrassed. All these losers are making online dating impossible.


I'm not trying to say women don't have I hard. We all do. It's just that dating IS easier for women. Why is it so hard for people to admit that in one aspect of life that women generally have it easier?

Again, I'm bisexual. I get dick pics too. It is a lot easier to ignore those people or outright block them that it is to come up with a way to stimulate conversation. One requires clicking a button and the other requires actual thought. What are people not understanding about that?

Not all guys are just sending dick pics either. Most guys just want a decent date. Plenty of guys get roped into paying for dinner or drinks for a girl that doesn't care about them. Don't act like men never get taken advantage of. Women can be awful people too.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/21/18 6:38:51 PM
#96
CyricZ posted...
im not 13 posted...
Any sane person should do this

Yet our boy TommyG has said he hasn't.

I can say that throughout my (limited) amount of dating, I've never felt it necessary to have a backup for the purpose of my own safety.


I always let someone know where I'm going when I meet a person through online dating. Doesn't matter if it is a guy or girl I'm meeting. I always meet in a public place like a bar, restaurant, or coffee shop. I don't do it, because I live in feat. It just seems like a safe precaution to take. I would never invite someone I've never met in person before to my own residence.

Meeting an online date in a public place and letting friends know where you are should be standard for everyone. Catfishing and other weird stuff is always a possibility. Typically I try to friend them on social media before meeting so I know they're a real person.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/21/18 10:54:28 AM
#69
im not 13 posted...
pinky0926 posted...
I honestly don't know a single woman who doesn't loathe online dating as much as every CE user who complains about it.

Women don't have it easier with dating, I truly don't believe that at all. They have it easier getting a date, they have a worse time not being used for sex.

I've never had a woman lie to me about her intentions, i.e. pretend she's looking for something meaningful and then drop me after sex. This seems to be the default for most women's experiences, though.

Everyone is unhappy with dating for the most part. We all just want to meet someone and spend a lot of time being rejected, being harrassed or just failing to even get a connection.


I don't doubt online dating is complete **** but it's like you are ignoring the fact that loads of crappy bad responses with a few potential good ones beat none at all.


This. Dating is generally easier for women. Way easier to get better at it when other people do the more difficult part, the initial approach.

I will acknowledge a number of things where women have it harder than guys, but they have an advantage in dating.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/21/18 10:38:05 AM
#62
CyricZ posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
I'd rather sort through a hundred sick pics than send a hundred messages with barely any responses.

Grass is greener.

TommyG663513 posted...
Women generally have it easier with dating

How often have you accepted a date worried that your date might attempt to physically overpower you?


Nonsense. Women do have it easier in dating. The vast majority of women aren't living in fear of rape on every date. If there is even a mild suspicion then bail on the guy.

I have been on dates where someone could physically overpower me. I also date men. I've never genuinely suspected someone of those types of ill intentions though.

You can say, women have it a lot easier in dating meanwhile acknowledging the issues that are more specific to women.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/21/18 10:23:56 AM
#60
CyricZ posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
I have a job during the graveyard hours.

Healthcare workers. Look for nurses or other healthcare professionals. They keep the oddest of hours, so you'll have that in common, and some of them clean up damn good.


Yeah I won't deny any of that, but it is always much easier said than done. I can't just look for nurses unless she is out wearing her scrubs.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/21/18 10:21:38 AM
#59
pinky0926 posted...
im not 13 posted...


I never quite understood this

Ignore the guys sending dick pics and size up the actual decent suiters... I can't imagine how this is harder than the average guy trying to get a date on tinder. It's freaking brutal out there


You have 500 messages in your inbox and all of them say "hey". How motivated do you feel to delve into the profile of and chat to every single one of those guys to figure out which ones are the decent ones? How far do you take it before the guy reveals his fuckboy personality?

Because it's so "rigged" for guys, fuckboys are craftier than ever in their approach. They play the perfect gentleman right up until they get what they want (sex), and then drop it faster than a hot potato. At this point the game is rigged in the man's favour.

The issue here isn't that women struggle to get dates. No one is going to argue that: of course women have it easier to get that initial date. What they struggle with more is finding someone who wants to stick around after sex.


Yeah I won't say that is a good thing, but that is still very preferable to what guys deal with. I'd rather sort through a hundred dick pics than send a hundred messages with barely any responses.

People need to cut it out with this "both sides" crap. Women generally have it easier with dating though this also varies a lot individually based on attractiveness. Again, not saying women don't have their own problems, but I'd much rather take theirs. You are always better off receiving a ton of messages than waiting for a reply.

Getting that initial date is a big step in finding a relationship. Guys get used for sex too. Some girls just want a one night stand.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/21/18 5:22:44 AM
#42
QwelzaarKane posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
What is your point?


You say meeting women IRL is difficult then immediately say you only go places where you're unlikely to meet women. Like, no shit you're having trouble. You can meet women literally anywhere.


Not really. I outlined issues with bars. I have a job during the graveyard hours. I have my own interests that I pursue that take up time. I'm not going to do things that are completely unnatural to me just for the purpose of meeting women. Comedy clubs, quite frankly, give me more opportunity than most things I do to talk to women. The thing is I'm extremely passionate about comedy so talking to women there is just a thing that happens on occasion that I don't plan for. The thing with comedy is it decreases my anxiety about being in social situations by being on a stage in front of a large group telling jokes. There is an awful lot of worth in that all by itself which is why I go to open mics very often.

People don't have unlimited time to go meet people. It's weird to approach people at the gym, generally. Sometimes I can chat with someone at the grocery store, but people are usually busy shopping. Not gonna go to a random place to lurk and meet women unless I have a real reason for being there.

The biggest place to meet people is bars, but again, I'm not into that stuff very much.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/21/18 2:46:58 AM
#35
QwelzaarKane posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
You act like dating is so easy and accessible outside of apps.


I basically just go out to watch and perform in comedy open mics.

It is rare to see a group of single girls together in a comedy club.


What is your point? I go to Comedy clubs, because I love comedy. Meeting women is far from my reason for attending. I want to get better at doing stand up comedy first and foremost. Occasionally I get opportunities to speak with women there, but not often. You tend to see a lot of couples there. Rarely are women present at those sorts of things without a date, but it still does happen.

I don't really like to go out to bars and drink. Not sure where else I'm supposed to go to chat up strangers. Bars are the only place I know I wont be speaking to someone too young. I'm almost 30.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/20/18 11:00:32 PM
#30
Sad_Face posted...
Hulkasaurusrex posted...
I agree thirsty guys hurt women more than anything because they don't really got to try. It gives them no reason to improve. I saw an article and they made a profile with a hot girl and said the worst shit still had tons of replies.

Found it

http://www.cracked.com/blog/4-things-i-learned-from-worst-online-dating-profile-ever/

The profile is pretty funny


> Make a profile made of the worst stuff ever, but is entertaining to read through when most girls don't even bother with their profiles
> Also note at the end "Want $$$ and casual sex"
> Is terribly surprised when guys are lining up to get their chance

How is the writer so oblivious to how the dating game works?


Yeah I mean at least that profile comes off as more honest. Hard to imagine a bad profile that isn't at least a bit in jest. We all know that girls get away with super generic profiles.

Just hard to imagine a profile a woman could write that takes away whatever was gained from good pictures.
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TopicRewatching The Last Jedi and why the fuck *spoilers*
TommyG663513
11/20/18 10:39:00 PM
#29
littlebro07 posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
I will never like SW as much as I did before TFA was released. The exact opposite of what I was hoping to happen.


I really liked TFA and still do.

I'm hoping 9 will retroactively make 8 good. Like on it's own 8 blows but as a pair 8 and 9 are fantastic.


Sort of like how TFA on its own is pretty passable, but it looks horrible when paired with TLJ.
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TopicRewatching The Last Jedi and why the fuck *spoilers*
TommyG663513
11/20/18 10:37:44 PM
#28
Anarchy_Juiblex posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
Anarchy_Juiblex posted...
*insert ever growing collage of white knight articles defending this abomination*


It's funny because it is very easy to criticize the sequel trilogy without mentioning anyone's race or gender despite SJW types saying otherwise.


I agree, everything from fuel, convoluted chase scenes, prequel style detours, suicide being the answer, suicide not being the answer, strategy breaking hyperspace kamikazi missiles, etc etc etc but the critics mention Hondo's hair and suddenly this movie is the hill to die on for feminists.


Personally, my biggest complaint was all the set up and unanswered questions from TFA basically being for nothing.

One movie played it stupidly safe while the other desired to take all of the wrong risks without taking any real worthwhile risks.

Hyping up Rey and her abilities and her possible lineage was beyond stupid. Luke, Han, and Leia were all completely wasted as characters. You could go on and on with these issues...
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TopicRewatching The Last Jedi and why the fuck *spoilers*
TommyG663513
11/20/18 10:25:20 PM
#21
Anarchy_Juiblex posted...
*insert ever growing collage of white knight articles defending this abomination*


It's funny because it is very easy to criticize the sequel trilogy without mentioning anyone's race or gender despite SJW types saying otherwise.
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TopicRewatching The Last Jedi and why the fuck *spoilers*
TommyG663513
11/20/18 10:23:38 PM
#19
I will never like SW as much as I did before TFA was released. The exact opposite of what I was hoping to happen.
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TopicFriendly reminder that giving homeless people homes is cheaper than not.
TommyG663513
11/20/18 10:19:46 PM
#29
samurai bandit posted...
How is giving them a gome going to get them food, pay bills and maintain themselves? (Unless they sell them)


Part of the idea is to get a social worker on their case to help them improve their lives starting with a residence.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/20/18 10:17:33 PM
#28
QwelzaarKane posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
No I use it every few months when I feel a twinge of hope that every negative feeling I've ever had was false only for I to be confirmed.


Then maybe quit using dating apps and

Lost_All_Senses posted...
go out in the world


You act like dating is so easy and accessible outside of apps. I basically just go out to watch and perform in comedy open mics. Only thing I can guarantee is my love of comedy and the joy of pursuing it. Sometimes I get opportunities to talk to girls there, but girls very often go to those shows with their BFs. It is rare to see a group of single girls together in a comedy club.
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TopicFriendly reminder that giving homeless people homes is cheaper than not.
TommyG663513
11/20/18 10:03:16 PM
#27
OctilIery posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
It seems cheaper to just let the homeless beg for money on the streets than to pretend that I care about them. I can just blame their lack of bootstraps and take greater pride in my own abilities.

I can't imagine one single benefit to the rest of society that could arise from a reduction in homelessness. Their lack of bootstrap doesn't stop me or anyone else going all sorts of bootstraps on the world.

It costs the community way more to have them living on the street.


Yeah I know. I was attempting to be sarcastic. I felt my overuse of the term bootstraps properly conveyed that, because I rarely if ever hear someone seriously use the term.

At the very least, homeless veterans should all be given free housing. It's an embarrassment that people spout support the troops yet let veteran homelessness be such a problem.

But I agree with the premise that we need to get all homeless individuals into homes for the betterment of society.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/20/18 9:51:41 PM
#23
Lost_All_Senses posted...
Btw. Why do I always see these topics but I rarely see topics about actually dating women? Are you guys using tinder specifically for material to bitch about women?


No I use it every few months when I feel a twinge of hope that every negative feeling I've ever had was false only for I to be confirmed.

I'm sick of going on dates with girls that expect me to pay for drinks meanwhile talking about what feminists they are...
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/20/18 9:34:18 PM
#18
cuttin_in_farm posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
Perhaps if all women didn't share the same generic personality...


What reason do they have to change this? Men would do the same shit if people matched with them.

Lost_All_Senses posted...
You guys need to go out in the world so you can realize women aren't all one hive mind that is easily manipulated by the world. Not any easier than men at least


Who said they were? Some people arent good on camera. Some people get stage fright. And some people cant make dating profiles. I see too many women in the later. Too many women who give minimum effort in responses because they have TOO much choice.

They have no control mechanism. They have no reason to assume they need to try. Because they dont. You cant criticize them for something that works.


How do we solve this? If I judge a woman by her profile then all women are eliminated. Pictures generally display an acceptable woman. Hard to gauge if it is a good match unless we talk. Need to match up so we can talk. Hard to justify putting in too much effort into opener, because so many accounts are inactive. Best bet is to devise some sort of unique opener you use on everyone. The whole game is based on casting a wide net.

Hard for me to get all picky about a woman's appearance, because I know that only matters so much. As long as they aren't super overweight and/or ugly then I'm open to speaking with them. I've been on numerous first dates where I try to get her to talk about herself and it is super generic stuff. Half of these women even admit they're boring to my face and all I can do is nod. I don't think I'm the most adventurous person in the world, but most women make me feel like I just got done backpacking through Europe.

If only I change and no one else does then I get nowhere.

Only success I've had is performing comedy at open mics. I'll usually get a girl or two to quick complement my act, but it is always a girl with a date. This stuff is just downright depressing.

At least I do get a lot of enjoyment out of doing stand up among my other hobbies.
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/20/18 9:23:18 PM
#17
_Lyonidias posted...
cuttin_in_farm posted...
Hulkasaurusrex posted...
I agree thirsty guys hurt women more than anything because they don't really got to try. It gives them no reason to improve. I saw an article and they made a profile with a hot girl and said the worst shit still had tons of replies.


Men have to learn VERY fast what to say and how to prevent themselves.

I see girls with profiles with nothing but group photos (I can never discover who the actual chick is), terrible selfies (Isnt this what you women do all day?), and no or one fragment (not sentence) bios.

I cant criticize them because they clearly get mountainous amounts of messages.

But this stupidity and lack of pride from men ruins it for everybody. Women dont know whats shit about themselves or their presentation, thirsty dudes still are thirsty while men who try cant compete with the sheer quantity of thirst and look elsewhere.


TommyG663513 posted...
Perhaps if all women didn't share the same generic personality...


jfc yikes

date men if you hate women so much tbh


I do date men too. It really isn't that much better. A lot of gay dudes act a lot like straight girls. I'm into more masculine men and it seems the majority say "yasss queen."

It isn't about hating women. Dating prospects in general are bad. The majority are losing in the online dating game. Do you seriously think straight women have no complaints?
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TopicStormy Daniels Says Trump Has 'Ruined' Her Career
TommyG663513
11/20/18 9:14:02 PM
#14
So what bad has happened to her? Hasn't she just gotten more exposure? Didn't she play a very key role in obtaining all of this exposure?
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TopicDudes ruined online dating.
TommyG663513
11/20/18 9:11:23 PM
#11
Perhaps if all women didn't share the same generic personality...
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TopicFriendly reminder that giving homeless people homes is cheaper than not.
TommyG663513
11/20/18 6:18:29 PM
#23
It seems cheaper to just let the homeless beg for money on the streets than to pretend that I care about them. I can just blame their lack of bootstraps and take greater pride in my own abilities.

I can't imagine one single benefit to the rest of society that could arise from a reduction in homelessness. Their lack of bootstrap doesn't stop me or anyone else going all sorts of bootstraps on the world.
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TopicFarted and a bunch of white mucus came out
TommyG663513
11/19/18 7:24:28 PM
#14
Get help
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TopicThis is why Acosta's pass was revoked
TommyG663513
11/19/18 4:41:50 PM
#19
StraightCircle posted...
Dash_Harber posted...
StraightCircle posted...
I want your thoughts on the matter


Trump doesn't want press freedom because he wants an oligarchy, not a democracy.


He wants press that asks questions, not make accusations and then get angry when he doesnt believe them


Lol. Trump thinks questions are accusations now.
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TopicChipotle manager who was fired for refusing to serve black customers be rehired
TommyG663513
11/19/18 11:40:52 AM
#72
Questionmarktarius posted...
what does " truck the sh-- out of that bi---" mean?


Low level physical assault. Not that the store employees are allowed to be physical with a thief to prevent theft anyways. I guess they could stand in the thief's way and put them in a position where the only way to leave is to push them.
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TopicChipotle manager who was fired for refusing to serve black customers be rehired
TommyG663513
11/19/18 11:26:06 AM
#65
HiddenLurker posted...
mattnd2007 posted...
Is it normal to not have to pay before you get your food there? I've been to Chipotle in 3 or 4 different states including Minnesota and I always had to pay first.

It was a group. All they have to do is ask for one ticket and have the last person order slowly so cashier can't give a total while rest of group gets their food first.


Yeah this isn't nearly as hard to do as people are making it out to be. You can fairly easily steal from places like Chipotle and Subway. The reality is the vast majority of people are honest and decent so they wouldn't consider such a thing. Instead, they feel the manager being racist is the real problem.

The dine and dashers should be identified and banned from chipotle's nationwide. Hard to enforce, but it is about all the company can real do beyond handing this over to law enforcement.
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TopicGood lord SNL is terribad
TommyG663513
11/19/18 11:10:45 AM
#42
TheBiggerWiggle posted...
The format for SNL is incredibly dated and cast members with enough move on to bigger and better things quickly. SNL is just a stepping stone now.


It always has been a stepping stone.
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TopicGood lord SNL is terribad
TommyG663513
11/19/18 10:32:26 AM
#28
I do feel like SNL is on a downward trend though. Pete Davidson is awful and they keep giving him more and more screen time. Vanessa Bayer and Bobby Moynihan were their two best and they left recently. Kate McKinnon is easily the best one on the show. Heidi Gardner is getting more screen time and I hope she progresses into one of the top performers.

Their political skits tend to do pretty well, but a lot of other stuff is awful. I really hate when they depend on random celebrity cameos for a cheap cheer from the audience.
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TopicThe Disney SNL skit was just flat out sad.
TommyG663513
11/19/18 10:24:34 AM
#12
Sometimes I feel more cringe watching SNL than I do going to my weekly open mics.

Seriously, it is remarkable how many jokes they tell that absolutely bomb for the live audience.

Biggest problem is easily Pete Davidson. He is the worst cast member by huge margin. They keep trying to force him down everyone's throats and cater sketches to his extremely specific range of being a lazy stoner type. All o the comments they made about him dating Arianna Grande was so full of cringe.
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TopicIs anyone else's office a ghost town right now?
TommyG663513
11/19/18 10:14:59 AM
#5
I work in a warehouse for UPS and there's always a few hundred people here.
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