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-Unowninator- posted...

HaVeNII7 posted...

I talked to her a bit more about the situation just now. Shes working - the guy isnt. He watches her two kids while she uses HIS car to drive to work. She says she has bad enough credit that she cant get a loan for a car of her own.

She leaves her kids with the abuser? I can't possibly see that going well.

Anyway, what about having an intervention? And I have doubts about this next idea, but I'm saying it anyway: do you think the guy can be bribed into leaving?

Apparently hes okay with the kids. But that just sets off alarms in my head asking for how long hes gonna be okay around them. And...Not sure what either of us could bribe him with. Neither of us are particularly well off money wise.
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Omnislasher posted...

she likes it so mind your own business

Ill take the karma loss. Fuck you. Seriously.

Patchwork posted...

If she's a single mom with two kids, she should be able to get plenty of financial support. She needs to get a PFA against him, talk to a victim outreach center (you can find these in your city through Google pretty easily), and have charges filed if it happens again.

This stuff only ever escalates; it doesn't stop.

He will seriously hurt her, or worse.

I appreciate the advice and will definitely look around the area to see if I cant find a center nearby. Thank you.
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I talked to her a bit more about the situation just now. Shes working - the guy isnt. He watches her two kids while she uses HIS car to drive to work. She says she has bad enough credit that she cant get a loan for a car of her own.

Really shit situation...Im gonna try and see if I cant find some sort of assistance program to people who need a vehicle.
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Abyssea posted...

are you in love with her TC? :o

No. Im happily married.

But her and I had a thing in the past, and weve been pretty great friends for a while now afterward. We havent talked in a bit, and I found out about the situation after getting back in touch.
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Thanks for all the advice here. I really do appreciate it.

Blue_Dream87 posted...

Curb stomp the boyfriend

As much as I want to literally murder him, thats only going to make things worse for everyone involved.
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Im not really sure what to do, CE. She doesnt seem like she even cares that much. He just blackened her eye recently and I just found out about all of it. He apparently put her through a door before.

I wanna kill the guy. But I know getting violent will make things worse. What can I do in this situation? What should I do? Will confronting him or calling the police make it more likely for him to just attack her again?

Im at a loss. Does anybody have any advice?
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That honestly seems kind of ridiculous though, considering Eren and him have known each other for their whole childhood.

So at the very least Im much more interested now in seeing how they work this into the story in a way that makes sense. Im assuming they find a way to turn people into shifters and he goes for it.

Dont tell me if Im wrong though lol
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Damn. Well I guess I dont know WHICH Titan he is. Maybe Ill forget by the time the show gets around to it lol
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Thought this was about the anime and accidentally spoiled myself. Fuck. That bit about Armin hasnt happened in the show.

...ah well. Was Armin being a Titan an enormous spoiler compared to... like finding out Reiner was? Or is it not the biggest?
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FrenchCrunch posted...

that is heartbreaking

Zikten posted...

crazy

Dr_Agon posted...

lol

Internet in a nutshell.
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Zikten posted...

nobody with this theme music sucks

Thats uh

Thats not very good lol
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Damn that things gonna be a monster lol
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juicebox4 posted...

Cuz I'm playin Halo 3 drinking beers smoking cigs at 6 in the morning

That's my life lol

That sounds dope af
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vocedelmorte posted...

Just finished watching All Might vs All For One.

I can imagine little boys gets turned on by shit like that

Ah, yes. I imagine its much more adult to watch the Avengers and the Guardians of the Galaxy team up against Thanos with the Infinity Stones.
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Its easily the best shounen Ive seen in a long, LONG time.

In the sense that it actually is a legit good show.
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DK9292 posted...

HaVeNII7 posted...

DK9292 posted...

_BIueMonk posted...

HaVeNII7 posted...

Im in an area that Im unfamiliar with and the bank is one Ive never heard of. Im at an event of sorts. People from all over around here.

too bad theres no way to search for the bank's information

like some kind of engine. a search... engine..

you could like, type in the name of the bank, and your location and see what comes up. then like, click a button that says maps or directions and see where they are

LOL THATS JUST DUMB THO

Especially since he's already admitted to checking Facebook.

I think TC just wants the phone number to commit fraud.

Or because I didnt want to have her go through the trouble of needing a new card. It would be much simpler if shes still in the area and could just swing back by to get it.

Think whatever though.

Yeah, so simple. Look at how simple this topic got. Very simple. Absolutely simple.

Are you normally this much of a dick?
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DK9292 posted...

_BIueMonk posted...

HaVeNII7 posted...

Im in an area that Im unfamiliar with and the bank is one Ive never heard of. Im at an event of sorts. People from all over around here.

too bad theres no way to search for the bank's information

like some kind of engine. a search... engine..

you could like, type in the name of the bank, and your location and see what comes up. then like, click a button that says maps or directions and see where they are

LOL THATS JUST DUMB THO

Especially since he's already admitted to checking Facebook.

I think TC just wants the phone number to commit fraud.

Or because I didnt want to have her go through the trouble of needing a new card. It would be much simpler if shes still in the area and could just swing back by to get it.

Think whatever though.
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_BIueMonk posted...

HaVeNII7 posted...

Im in an area that Im unfamiliar with and the bank is one Ive never heard of. Im at an event of sorts. People from all over around here.

too bad theres no way to search for the bank's information

like some kind of engine. a search... engine..

you could like, type in the name of the bank, and your location and see what comes up. then like, click a button that says maps or directions and see where they are

LOL THATS JUST DUMB THO

Come on man. Im trying to return someones card to them. Why you ragging on me?
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spudger posted...

AzureAnihilator posted...

DK9292 posted...

Take it to the bank and let them handle it.

Common sense to the rescue.

Im in an area that Im unfamiliar with and the bank is one Ive never heard of. Im at an event of sorts. People from all over around here.
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Wel, I called the customer service number on the back of the card and asked them if they could contact her directly so she could come back and get it. But instead, they just said they were going to disable the card.

They just asked me to throw it in the trash. Was hoping to return it to her without her needing to get a new one. >_>
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I tried searching their name on FB, and messaged someone with the same name who lives nearby about it.

But is there anyway to get a phone number from the card that I could just use to contact them directly?
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Zack_Attackv1 posted...

And you doubt the appeal of mai wife, Aqua?

Who?
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How do I kindly tell him hes fucking crazy?
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Know whats sad? Theyd still be getting a better deal out of this.
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Pretty much any that dont fill their games with Microtrans. So not many.
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CE is easier than a fat chick who got ditched on prom night

Jesus Christ guys...
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Ive heard Fight Club is much better than the book.

Also the new Berserk anime that came out a year or two ago? Way better than the manga.
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I would define it as compromising your own happiness or well being in favor of maintaining an appearance of masculinity.

Common example being a man who feels worse about something if it pushes him to cry because that isnt masculine.
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Muh Halo 2 tho
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Yeah. Whole body 4-5 days a week usually. Was just at home for around 4 months. Just started going to the gym a couple weeks ago.
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Im married and have only slept with her aside from one time we decided to try an open relationship.

So...#1 I guess. Other lady was...okay.
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Quite a few actually...mostly the cast from MHA.

All Might and Goku does sound like an amazing combo though lol
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Ive got a few female friends but I like to make myself think none of them want to fuck.
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EliteLevel posted...

HaVeNII7 posted...

Step 1: Eat healthier.
Step 2: Try and cut out pop/energy drinks.
Step 3: Grab a daily vitamin or something.
Step 4: Start working out.
Step 5: Drink a protein shake in the morning.
Step 6: Go to sleep at a decent time.
Step 7: Wake up after 8 hours max.

This will fix many things. Its what I started doing a few months ago and noawadays I almost always feel great. Not quite as depressed as I used to be either. Its nice.

You lost nearly everyone at step 1.

I know it sounds hard, but I just said fuck it a while back and did it. Its a LOT easier than I expected it would be.
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Step 1: Eat healthier.
Step 2: Try and cut out pop/energy drinks.
Step 3: Grab a daily vitamin or something.
Step 4: Start working out.
Step 5: Drink a protein shake in the morning.
Step 6: Go to sleep at a decent time.
Step 7: Wake up after 8 hours max.

This will fix many things. Its what I started doing a few months ago and noawadays I almost always feel great. Not quite as depressed as I used to be either. Its nice.
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I dont know too many dead artists off the top of my head.

Ill go with Nirvana - Rape Me. Great song.
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This isnt news. Cops do this on the reg. Give them paid leave for a few, maybe waggle your finger at them. Itll all be good.
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Thats not even remotely the same thing. You want a wrapped candy because they have to go through all sorts of destinations to get there. Our wrapping is more akin to our clothes not a condom.

That signs kinda dumb.
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Quicksilver posted...

Because we have a lot of weird perverts and we don't want to embolden them by having images of naked people everywhere.

Do you think their perversion is potentially somewhat caused by the taboo nature of it?

If we treated sex like no big deal, which it isnt, and normalized it, Id argue there would be less pervs.
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MrK3V posted...

HaVeNII7 posted...

Same as TC, but Ive been doing my entire body every day.

Shits getting tougher every day I go in.

dude you have to break it down by areas

Honestly Im just kind of excited. I want that lean athletic bod and I want it yesterday. The faster the better.
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Same as TC, but Ive been doing my entire body every day.

Shits getting tougher every day I go in.
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Yeah, Idk. I want it, but Im kind of turned off by the editions and All but guaranteed microtrans in it.

Think Ill pass, and then grab on a sale maybe. Idk. Red Dead 1 was so good, but I try and make it a point to avoid games with micro transactions.
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thrashmetal14 posted...

Of course, I'm not a homophobe

Andherewego.jpg
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Well you wanna know what TC?

....fuck youuuuuu!
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Just finished the first episode. Doesnt seem too bad.

NeonOctopus posted...

It's really good imo. The artstyle is beautiful and the stories are fun. Honestly, the thing I like least about Cowboy Bebop is the main plot lol. But since only 5 episodes out of the 26 are devoted to plot, I can look past it >_>

This though is worrying. Is it like a villain of the week kind of show? Because of all the praise I wont lie, Im going in expecting a pretty great story.
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Its for the best.
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Topic. Seen a ton of anime but Ive been wanting to go back and watch some of the classics Ive missed out on.

Watching the first episode now and it seems...okay? Dunno.

Right now Im wanting to watch this, Ghost in the Shell (Ive seen the first but not the others.), Gurren Lagan, and Evangelion.
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Legitimately a very great band. Not a lot of musicians change their sound as much as LP has over the years.
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TC, its a real thing. I take every step I can to make myself happy. Every single one. And sometimes, there are still days where I just dont want to get out of bed. But I force myself to, because if Im gonna be unhappy I might as well be doing something that might make me happy in the future.

Its definitely real, although I do agree that there are certain steps you can take to lessen its impact.
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This is why I only buy what I REAAALLY want to play. Games are so big now usually. By the time I finish it the other two games I wanted are $20.
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