Lurker > SophieLuvsTofu

Great job buddy.

It takes a lot of dedication, we are very proud of you.

But most importantly I hope you feel accomplished; keep at it. It's less about the look and more about the health benefits.

When I was a waitress way back when, it was HARD work.

Customers were inappropriate 6/10 times, not everyone tipped, some people gave like $1 tips.

But you know I never was angry at someone for not tipping, just upset.

weapon_d00d816 posted...

This account again?

I'm older than you lol

uwnim posted...

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grob%27s_Attack

This might very well throw them off enough to give you a chance

I appreciate the additional feedback but I don't want to memorize any more; this is all new to me and I can't memory all this stuff as easy as you people.

Thank you though but no more please lol

TarElessar posted...

If your opponent messes up in the beginning, get him with Fool's mate to utterly destroy his reputation.

This would be hilarious.

Punctus_Pilot posted...

You want to make trades. Obviously, you'd like the trades to put you in better positions. The value of each piece is:

Queen - 9
Rook - 5
Bishop - 3
Knight - 3
Pawn - 1

The points don't matter, but it's something to keep in mind to better value your trades. Since you're generally unfamiliar with chess, your bishops will likely be more valuable to you than your knights, and his knights will likely be more valuable to him than his bishops.

Got it...kings the most valuable I assume (duh).

I didn't know they were weighted like that though; cool.

Nomadic View posted...

I knew about the four moves thing. Wasnt aware of the other two. Im not much of a chess player, but if youre playing against anyone with a 1/2 decent background in chess theyre going to see these moves a mile away though.

These are good too, I wonder if he knows about them? Probably...maybe he won't expect me to know of them though? Does that make sense? Also not sure I could memorize those. First one seemed simple but there's a variable there expecting those moves right?

Thank you!

I'll gamble on Scholar's mate, don't really have much time to learn anything else ahead of time.

Here's to hoping for cheese lol

Reading now

bluezero posted...

No, there's no chess cheat codes.

Darn, lol.

Don't you wish?

So I bet with someone I can beat him in Chess because he was such a braggart.

So tomorrow at lunch I am playing chess with someone. Problem is, I realized I mixed up Chess & Checkers and I'm not too familiar with Chess. I know the pieces and their movements and all that stuff but I was wondering if there were some movesets that give advantages? I get it, if it was that easy, it wouldn't be hard.

But I know like tic tac toe has certain moves that will always at least end up in a draw, hoping for similar advice.

Thanking!

I'd say like 48/100.

Since the chances are 1/100 but you already went 99 times I'd say your chances are higher than a 1/100 from a fate perspective.

But mathly speaking 1/100.

Allow me to educate you.

They partner with banks in a way that makes cash back profitable for THEM.

I actually didn't like controlling the ships because I felt it was too hard.

Darmik posted...

Re-iNcarnated posted...

That was my perspective on what you sounded like, since we are in the topic of perspectives. But my main point was disagreeing with your definition or even having a definition of love.

Like the saying in Fast and Furious 7 goes, you can't tell someone they love you. I don't know if this is entirely relevant, I just wanted to be able to quote that

IIRC she posted that her partner has both cheated on her and hit her. Probably a troll account but who knows.

Seems you got your facts mixed up a bit there...

Re-iNcarnated posted...

That was my perspective on what you sounded like, since we are in the topic of perspectives. But my main point was disagreeing with your definition or even having a definition of love.

Like the saying in Fast and Furious 7 goes, you can't tell someone they love you. I don't know if this is entirely relevant, I just wanted to be able to quote that

lol

Re-iNcarnated posted...

SophieLuvsTofu posted...

For those who said no:

Love isn't about the ability to deal with the best of what life throws at you; its the ability to persevere when life throws its worst at you.

If you can't survive cheating, emotional or physical, I don't think its true love, sorry, my OPINION.

You sound like someone who just cheated and now you're trying to cover your tracks. Love is not something someone else can define for you.

I mean I'm not really concerned if that's what I sound like, although I didn't, there's a lot of people who do that and I don't hold it against them. But I do agree love is difficult to define and can have multiple meanings.

Cleo_II posted...

SophieLuvsTofu posted...

Cleo_II posted...

SophieLuvsTofu posted...

If you can't survive cheating, emotional or physical, I don't think its true love, sorry, my OPINION.

I dont think thats a fair statement. You could easily turn it around and say if the person truly loved you, they wouldnt have cheated.

Everyone is entitled to their boundaries.

I mean yeah you can disagree with me, I very blatantly stated its my opinion. I get that argument to it, but I don't agree with it. Like you said in your original, very well written post, people make mistakes. Can't blame someone for being human. But, your tolerance level for mistakes depends on your affection for someone. Think about if your coworker did the same mistake your spouse did, who would you forgive sooner?

Right, I dont think you can blame someone for being human. Same goes for the person who feels they just cant trust their spouse the same way again, or love them the same, those are human feelings. Thats just my opinion though, I dont mean to be dismissive of yours or anything. We can agree to disagree.

Fair, appreciate the alternate perspective. Best of luck; great talk.

Darmik posted...

SophieLuvsTofu posted...

Darmik posted...

Picture this. Your spouses emotional boyfriend plans the engagement, writes the vows and do all the sappy crap. During the wedding day you get to sit home and play video games all day.

Then you go on the honeymoon and fulfil the physical needs.

The wedding is like the best part of everything you mentioned there lol

Its very spiritually bound.

Spoken like someone who needs a physical boyfriend

Lol way past that stage, but ditto to you.

Not end but could kill it off.

Darmik posted...

Picture this. Your spouses emotional boyfriend plans the engagement, writes the vows and do all the sappy crap. During the wedding day you get to sit home and play video games all day.

Then you go on the honeymoon and fulfil the physical needs.

The wedding is like the best part of everything you mentioned there lol

Its very spiritually bound.

Who would actually say yes to this lol

Cleo_II posted...

SophieLuvsTofu posted...

If you can't survive cheating, emotional or physical, I don't think its true love, sorry, my OPINION.

I dont think thats a fair statement. You could easily turn it around and say if the person truly loved you, they wouldnt have cheated.

Everyone is entitled to their boundaries.

I mean yeah you can disagree with me, I very blatantly stated its my opinion. I get that argument to it, but I don't agree with it. Like you said in your original, very well written post, people make mistakes. Can't blame someone for being human. But, your tolerance level for mistakes depends on your affection for someone. Think about if your coworker did the same mistake your spouse did, who would you forgive sooner?

ApherosyLove posted...

SophieLuvsTofu posted...

If you can't survive cheating, emotional or physical, I don't think its true love, sorry, my OPINION.

Then I guess I can never fall in love?

I think you can fall in love, just saying I don't think its true unless you can overcome anything together.

Heck I fell in love with a guy in second grade, doesn't mean it was true love. Current relationship: Survived it and we feel stronger than ever.

For those who said no:

Love isn't about the ability to deal with the best of what life throws at you; its the ability to persevere when life throws its worst at you.

If you can't survive cheating, emotional or physical, I don't think its true love, sorry, my OPINION.

I wish we had more money or there was no need for it.

I don't think this has anything to do with skin color and I don't feel we should be turning this into that.

I don't think people should be doing things like harming each other for material things, especially shoes.

What actually happened to people?

I have 2000 karma too that is so cool

I have 2000+ karma I have time but not many spent here just long time from duration in other words I can just one a day and be even at 2000 its ok plus bonus.

averagejoel posted...

SophieLuvsTofu posted...

averagejoel posted...

I've been using a Mountain Equipment Co-op backpack since 2009 or so and it shows no sign of wearing out

Can I see it please?

I don't remember how much the thing costed me, but I'm positive it was under $40

the clothespin is for a size reference.

Thank you!

Its a nice bag.

Zikten posted...

@SophieLuvsTofu

lol I havn't seen you in forever.

Let me return the favor though

@Zikten

averagejoel posted...

I've been using a Mountain Equipment Co-op backpack since 2009 or so and it shows no sign of wearing out

Can I see it please?

I am super sorry to hear but welcome back!

You were missed!

Not sure who fam is but many familiar faces still here!

scorpion41 posted...

SophieLuvsTofu posted...

3) Kids are too young to understand spanking.

No, theyre too young to rationalize why something is wrong. But, they can associate physical pain with doing something theyre not supposed to do as long as the spanking is administered with purpose. Spanking or hitting with no purpose is why the act has garnered so much negativity.

But I mean in that same sense can't you just associate verbal reprimanding with something they're not supposed to do?

It's the same result...just...no hitting.

I am all for voicing different opinions, even those of hate, but I draw a fine line at violence.

Should not be allowed or done at all even if it's not allowed.

I don't find it sexist.

She is just more fashionable than most that's why she dresses up.

Yaridovich posted...

JanSport for LYFE

FUCK all those Herschel motherfuckers I HATE THEM

Oh wow that's some fiery passion haha

This one is a Herschel:

http://scene7.zumiez.com/is/image/zumiez/pdp_hero/Herschel-Supply-Pop-Quiz-Black-Backpack-_181857-0001-front.jpg

Herschel or Jansport?

I want a plain design. Neutral colored on there.

I agree with some on here and disagree with others.

1) I don't think anyone should be hit.

2) You can verbally communicate anything to someone with the same resolution.

3) Kids are too young to understand spanking.

GiftedACIII posted...

So would these murders have happened if I didn't take it?

That's actually question...

Congrats, I guess.

I'm sure this makes you happy.

Just the look of a gun is pretty absurd to me, not trying to act like I've never held one or fired one but I don't like them in general.

For a human to have that much power is scary.

I wouldn't want that that would be racism there.

Hello TC,

So grade school days are tough, you're either in or not. Especially in public schooling system...

I am sure you are not bad looking, keep in mind, beauty is subjective. For example, some people view a modesty (such as what you appear to have) to be a very attractive trait!

If people like you online, which they do, at least we do, then people IRL like you too.

Don't look at fights with the fam as a bad thing, you fight because you care about one another. Indifference is worse than that.