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Topic | My girlfriend is close to her ex husband's family |
DDirtyDastard 01/16/18 10:20:27 PM #28 | Zeus posted... DDirtyDastard posted...They had three kids together, they were married for 22 years and have been divorced for more than 5 Gotta address it: She's 45, I'm 33. I'm into her because she has her shit together and is mostly drama free. She's really into me and supports my passions 100%. She's super hot for 45 and three kids. Her youngest is 18 and just joined the military. None were living with her when we started dating. I've dated countless women in their 20's and 30's over the past few years. I've found every single one of their personalities to be repulsive in the long run. Most of them are poly-amorous, unable to commit to a relationship unless it's financially gainful. The ones that don't need money are usually already in a relationship and are bored with their significant other. Not willing to leave, but looking for excitement. Dick 'em down and they'll pay for the date. Just don't contact them between the hours of 6pm and 6am. There's also the powerful woman that just loves sex. She'll pay for the date, fuck you, and chuck you. Just like the men in power do. Long story short: After asking her what's up about the whole thing she explained it, (see earlier post) and now we're talking about how perfect we are for each other. I feel dumb for suspecting her, but you guys gave me a much needed realty check. Stay rad PotD |
Topic | My girlfriend is close to her ex husband's family |
DDirtyDastard 01/16/18 7:42:55 PM #9 | RCtheWSBC posted... I'd ask her. "hey I can't see that post anymore, did it get deleted?" This was good. I appreciate the advice. She said things started getting weird once people started tagging her ex-husband in the post. She knew he wouldn't appreciate that and she thought it was better to just delete the post. I feel a lot better about the whole thing now. Thanks to all you guys for the insights. |
Topic | I'm losing my goddamn mind |
DDirtyDastard 01/16/18 7:25:31 PM #19 | Plan a trip or vacation. It gives you something to look forward too. You can also look into joining some kind of club or even something like a support group. Bars can suck if you're not a heavy drinker or very extroverted. |
Topic | My girlfriend is close to her ex husband's family |
DDirtyDastard 01/16/18 7:20:50 PM #8 | green dragon posted... I'm not trying to be a dick or anything, but she could love her ex- husband (and not be in love with him). They could be really good friends. Oh I know she loves the guy. They shared a huge part of their life together, they just are terrible for each other. I'm pretty sure she just said it to another family member too. It's just the whole disappearing act that troubles me. I wish she didn't feel she had to hide that kind of stuff from me. She has jealousy issues so I figure she probably hid it because she was afraid it'd spark jealousy in me. She didn't need to do it and it really back-fired because it sparked some trust issues instead. |
Topic | My girlfriend is close to her ex husband's family |
DDirtyDastard 01/16/18 7:13:05 PM #6 | SusanGreenEyes posted... The question is : when she visits his family, are you also invited or does she go by herself? We've been dating a little over three months and in that time she hasn't visited his family at all. Our relationship status is public on FB. |
Topic | My girlfriend is close to her ex husband's family |
DDirtyDastard 01/16/18 7:11:51 PM #4 | Not something I would typically do, but maybe that's a good course of action. I'm usually not very nosy about such things, but it would probably give me some peace of mind. |
Topic | My girlfriend is close to her ex husband's family |
DDirtyDastard 01/16/18 7:06:34 PM #1 | And I'm not sure how to feel about it. They had three kids together, they were married for 22 years and have been divorced for more than 5. I get that those people were her family for a long time. I have no problem with that or her keeping contact with those people. It's only natural for her to have connections to them over that much time. I'm still friends with some of my sister's ex boyfriends. I get it. Well her ex husband's father died over the past few days. She was close with the man and has been feeling guilt having not gone to see him in a few years. This is the grandfather of her children, right? He was a father to her when her own father was being quite cruel and distant. I totally understand and have no problem with this either. So let's just fast forward to my dilemma. I saw her post something on FB about her ex father-in-law today, some R.I.P. type stuff. There's all the typical responses of condolences and all that. No biggie. Well a few hours go by and I happen to open up FB again to see that post at the top of my news feed. My girlfriend's last response was "I love you too." I didn't think much of it, though I got curious and clicked the comments to see what prompted her to say that and when it went to load the post, it said there was an error and to try loading it again. Tried again, nothing. I logged out, logged back in and checked her profile to see that the post was no longer there. Now there's only a few options here. A) She hid the post from me. B) She deleted the thread. C) There's some kind of glitch on FB and the topic is lost somewhere in electronic limbo. I've had no reason not to trust her up until this point, but suddenly alarm bells are going off. I'm probably over-analyzing, but suddenly I feel a bit suspicious. Anybody deal with something like this? Any insights? tl;dr Girlfriend's post about ex-husband's recently deceased father magically disappears after she says "I love you too" to someone before I can see the proper context. |
Topic | Why is being fat and showing off your body noteworthy? |
DDirtyDastard 11/29/17 11:12:34 PM #4 | It isn't. If it is, it shouldn't be. |
Topic | Nobody I know voted for Trump |
DDirtyDastard 11/29/17 11:11:21 PM #5 | I know a bunch of people who voted for him. Many of them family members. |
Topic | Based on da above posters personality, what dog breed are dey more like? |
DDirtyDastard 11/29/17 11:10:33 PM #2 | A wiener dog |
Topic | She said she likes me but won't date me because I'm a bum |
DDirtyDastard 11/29/17 11:02:17 PM #8 | I've banged multiple women with no job while not being in school. You just aren't cool enough. |
Topic | Millionaire buys homeless people lunch--they yell at him for not giving cash |
DDirtyDastard 11/29/17 11:00:47 PM #8 | They weren't hungry, they wanted money for booze. |
Topic | So one of my coworkers is quitting his programming job to become a gardener.... |
DDirtyDastard 11/29/17 10:59:55 PM #8 | Drasilor posted... Awesome posted...he saw the light He's becoming part of the solution. |
Topic | What have you guys been playing lately? |
DDirtyDastard 11/29/17 10:57:22 PM #48 | MvC Infinite Street Fighter 5 Fallout 4 Double Dragon 4 |
Topic | What kind fo Star would you want to be? |
DDirtyDastard 11/29/17 10:56:34 PM #23 | The poll and all previous posts lack "rockstar" FAIL |
Topic | This 19 y/o Girl owes $200,000 to CHARITY after PROMISING!! Should she??? |
DDirtyDastard 11/29/17 10:55:29 PM #6 | She gets to work for that charity for a looong time as far as I'm concerned. Teach the bitch a lesson for talking out of her ass. |
Topic | My sister's boyfriend chews me out for being 2 minutes late but... |
DDirtyDastard 11/21/17 6:28:25 PM #41 | Chew him out 30x harder. |
Topic | Is it true you guys love pot? |
DDirtyDastard 11/21/17 6:12:11 PM #31 | Love? Nah. Like on occasion? Sure. |
Topic | What's for supper/dinner/evening sustenance? |
DDirtyDastard 11/21/17 6:11:39 PM #10 | I'm just now having lunch. Haven't thought as far as dinner yet. |
Topic | Is Smash Bros. a fighting game? |
DDirtyDastard 11/21/17 6:08:10 PM #26 | Sure, technically. But it isn't really considered a pure one by FG enthusiasts. |
Topic | What is your opinion of the Nintendo switch? |
DDirtyDastard 11/07/17 6:28:54 PM #25 | I've never even seen one. |
Topic | brock - b = rock |
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Topic | 10 billion dollars but you have to move to and stay in a random city permanently |
DDirtyDastard 10/11/17 8:43:49 PM #14 | No deal. Most of the fun of having that kind of money would be to travel the world and have homes in all sorts of places. |
Topic | What is the last game you bought a hard copy of? |
DDirtyDastard 10/11/17 8:42:04 PM #35 | Street Fighter 5 |
Topic | Tilted by women again |
DDirtyDastard 10/11/17 8:41:24 PM #22 | OmegaTomHank posted... 5th chick in a row Ive been interested in and actually get along with that I find out already has a boyfriend. She isn't married to the guy. Go ahead and hit that shit. |
Topic | Should girls be allowed to join the Boy Scouts? |
DDirtyDastard 10/11/17 8:39:21 PM #30 | I think people need to quit trying to change everything and leave all this shit alone. |
Topic | Do you like mayonnaise? |
DDirtyDastard 10/11/17 8:37:03 PM #7 | KJ StErOiDs posted... I prefer Miracle Whip these days, but I can eat mayo if it comes to that. Blasphemy. |
Topic | Last time you've played a video game, which one and in what console? |
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Topic | Women don't know what the f*** they want |
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