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First job at 38? Wtf

Every boss in Mafia 3 we got a detailed backstory about through the CIA dude's Intel. It was pretty cool. There's 9 dudes you have to take out and for each one there's text detailing their status in the family and past crimes

Not to mention they all get at least a cutscene

Can't stand the way she talks. It's so fake

Lost_All_Senses posted...

I do still kind of feel bad that someone lacks outward personality so much they gotta pretend they have an ailment and make that their personality. I doubt anyone actually wants to be that person. If they could understand how to get help out of it and learn to be happy being themselves, they'd probably take it.

I don't think that many people pretend, I do think a lot of people suddenly feel they've got a pre loaded excuse for any toxic behaviour

Only speaking anecdotally but the last person I dated would blame her Bipolar and past trauma for everything she said or did that hurt me(and she had a vicious mouth) and took no accountability/ never apologised for nothing

It was enough for me, someone who has schizophrenia and used to enjoy openly talking about, to think twice about how we view mental health these days. My diagnosis was 10 years ago and I take pride in keeping it mostly private these days(it's also mostly dormant), hers was a few months before I met her, that might have something to do with it. It's all she talked about. Every time she said or did something ridiculous I told myself "it's not her fault, it's her Bipolar". Then when it ended I was left feeling really stupid and a total pushover

I believe the vast majority of people who say they have a mental health disorder truly have one, but it's cringe how it's become such a flex for some people. It's all some people want to talk about

I find it incredibly boring/bland without sauce

solosnake posted...

There are probably many black holes a lot closer than that to us.

Some people theorize the gravitational anomaly people attribute to planet x may actually be primordial black hole.

In general they arent much to worry about, there are far more dangerous and scary things in the depths of space.

Such as?

That's what this ya know, dark side magic, sith shit

Fucking nerf herders!(force throws chair)

CanuckCowboy posted...

Please shut up.

Sorry I just don't view them the same as humans

JuanCarlos1 posted...

Depends how hard you went on the dog. I remember a boyfriend of my moms doing that to my dog and I wanted to hit him. A regular, gentle push is fine.

I wouldn't do it in a situation where I wasn't in my own home. I'm essentially looking after it when she's at work

I4NRulez posted...

I mean my dog has stepped on my nuts before but I wouldnt shove her. Its not like she knew what she was doing.

depending on how hard you shoved the dog is my reaction to this. Dogs are pretty tough so a light shove probably wouldnt do much. If you shoved the dog with force thats way too much.

Yeah, I think it was soft, like I said it didn't moan or yelp or make any noise at all, but I obviously had an annoyed face while doing it and I think just something other than complete worship of her beloved dog got to her

Like I'd understand if pushing it off me resulted in it getting hurt or its tail going between it's legs, it didn't give a fuck. I guess the push was pretty soft but the fact I did it at all really triggered her.

It's more she'd prefer I'd try reasoning with or something, or just let do it's thing. She's always going on about the mental health and intelligence of dogs and all I see and experience is this maniac animal being a little shit

ArchNemo posted...

I mean, have you ever talked to her about not wanting her dog jumping on you or did you just randomly decide to shove her dog off the couch?

She's seen it jump on me in the past and as I winced in pain once from sore nuts she just had this "oh that cheeky dog of mine" attitude. Basically she doesn't view it as an issue at all

Sigh. It's always jumping on me and annoying me, sometimes it jumps on my nuts when I'm on the couch watching tv. I wasn't in the mood today so gave it a push/shove off me and she lost it. She didn't outright call it animal abuse but she was saying how it's not nice and it won't learn anything from me doing that.

I said it's a personal space thing and she said "it's a dog", which is why I feel comfortable pushing it in the first place. It didn't yelp, it didn't care, it kept running around the room without a care in the world and I'm sure itl jump on me again tomorrow.

People who view their animals the same way as children or think everyone has to love them equally, I don't get it.

A girl did this to me too on the weekend. Though it was more a conversation petering out with my message just happening to be the last one then the next day she asked how's my day going

It's funny, I'm not even slightly turned off. I wonder why it has such a bad stigma

Pardon?

Luke kissing Leia, whatever happened there

I pee like Butters in South Park

The_shibe posted...

Dang.

I don't think she was racist, at all. She just seems to have.... issues. But you two making it into a sexual/gender/ thing is quite disgusting.

Quite disgusting lol. TC is labelling this girl racist for crying because a dude touched her without her consent, showing a massive gap in knowledge regarding mental health and how people can react to unwanted touch

Pick your battles

DOOM-64 posted...

quote from her friends: different colors

you and others: could have been anything, STFU

you know what? Im out. Enjoy this topic, and enjoy the world youre creating for future generations.

you know its VERY telling when none of us were there yet you and others are already going to bat for her hard: she could have been an SA survivor dude may have smeared shit on her arm. It might have been the cordyceps from last of us taking control of her temporarily because an alien from outer space pressed some controls remotely and the black guy had the Venom symbiote none of you know any of that, nor do you have any reason to believe so, yet here you are willing to die on that hill and getting aggressive with me for daring to feel repulsed by this.

go enjoy your trump rallies, Im out

Cool, you hate women. We get it

The_Popo posted...

I have a co-worker who will freak out if anyone touches her face - including her husband. You just dont know with some people until you trigger something.

Big time. Certain body parts hold trauma. My housemate told me how her childhood abuse involved a man sliding his hands up her thighs, to this day even when having consensual sex she gets upset when people touch her thighs

Without any knowledge of the situation we can't blame the person touched without consent

One problem with guns is just this human desire to use something you own for it's intended purpose (in this case shooting at someone) at least once. You'll find the weakest of justification for doing so after a while.

Regular people shouldn't be allowed to own them

You're never in the right when you're touching a stranger

What an idiot

Not anymore. Only when he was shoved down fan's throats. It flew in the face of the idea that fan approval affected who got the belt in wrestling

A, she was a Droid
B, she hit me

..and that wasnt my youngling she was carrying

My family is pretty poor but my mum is one of 9 children, only 2 of which had kids, and only 2 each so it's my sister and 2 cousins

I dunno where it would all go if it not to us

I've had two girls tell me they loved me, right around the time I was getting over them

And I've told one girl I loved her, she broke up with me a few weeks later

All 3 relationships/situations were around the 3 month mark

Never been in sync with someone yet lol

Um, Mario kart

5, starting with the Scott Tenorman episode the quality went up a notch

Cheers for the advice, it wasn't really necessary though

I just think the premise of your topic is silly. I'm not losing sleep over my hairline, I came to terms with it years ago, but getting haircuts was such a non issue I'd never even think to make a comparison like this

Waxitron_Gazer posted...

Knowing you're doomed to one kind of hair style that can be easily managed at home is nice.

Having to go to a salon every few weeks and drop $40 to look ok at best is sorta shit.

You're not gonna convince me of this buddy. I've experienced having a full head of hair and I've experienced balding

Uh no

Antifar posted...

Antifar posted...

I think it's worth considering alternatives; these apps don't exist in a vacuum.

Yeah, I found myself discouraged at times on Hinge or the other apps, but I also know that they allowed me to have ten times the success that I would've found trying to meet women in person, or flirting with strangers at a bar. For my anxiety, the relative clarity of purpose on a dating app cleared away a lot of the inhibitions I'd feel approaching someone in person.

The bolded part is so true. Before dating apps I'd hang out with girls not knowing if it was an actual date etc, dating apps there's none of that confusion.

You'll strike out more and have people you meet once and never again but you'll never be stuck in this weird "do they know I'm interested in them" thought process

Hoodroar posted...

If you're socially stunted in some manner it absolutely is. In that situation the one expected to make the first move will have it infinitely harder than the one who doesn't have to.

Yeah, making the first move is the hardest part of dating. After that walls been breached things become way more natural

The two people were probably flirting and TC barged in between them, making them both feel awkward

What a strange thing to gatekeep. As if bone structure or anything related to hotness has changed in 20 years of human evolution

Anybody can put makeup on

Pretty damn cool. He knew he was making history right there

Maybe I just got a bad one but I dated a 22 yr old at 30 and the difference in maturity and social skills was so painful.

It's hard to put it into the exact words but if you've done it you'll know what I mean

You don't just bang all day, you've got to put up with dumb conversations

Just based on that snippet and nothing else she seems really immature

Home schooling. Not even once

I don't feel any insecurity over this knowing I'm one of probably 40 people messaging them a week (if they're hot) it's almost nothing against you, it's not like your 5 pics and bio sum you up as a person

Actually going on a date and not impressing them enough for a second, now that stings

My dad was a boxer in his youth. I've never been in a fight (except to break one up)

So probably my dad lol