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| Topic | Scariest horror movies? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/30/17 8:20:46 PM #19 | Eat More Beef posted... Event Horizon --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | New 2dsxl is only $50 less than n3dsxl. |
| TrevorBlack79 07/30/17 3:50:48 PM #15 | I have 7 3DS. OoT 3DS ALBW 3DS XL NES theme 3DS XL Black N3DS XL (technically my boyfriend's, I gave it to him last year) MM N3DS XL Triforce N3DS XL Galaxy N3DS XL I like Zelda stuff. I have the WW Wii U, too. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Worst 2D Metroid. |
| TrevorBlack79 07/30/17 3:42:11 PM #44 | luigi13579 posted... It's not the difficulty so much as being limited to where you can go at any particular moment. Also this. Hand-holding =/= difficulty. Completely separate concepts. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Worst 2D Metroid. |
| TrevorBlack79 07/30/17 3:40:06 PM #43 | masterpug53 posted... something 'should be' rather than what it 'is' deserve their disappointment if they can't see far enough past their expectations to recognize quality. Expectations or no, Fusion was low quality. Prime defied expectations by going first person (to the point that many fans raged about it before its release), but is widely regarded as one of the best games ever made precisely because of the quality and care put into it. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | What game do you most want to see on the N64 Classic? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/30/17 1:02:12 AM #5 | CrimsonWaffle posted... Mischief Makers Came in to say this. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Worst 2D Metroid. |
| TrevorBlack79 07/29/17 10:37:34 PM #6 | NES Metroid, only because it aged so horribly. Otherwise, Fusion when weighted for the capabilities of the hardware - garbage plot, railroaded along a set path, hideous art design, forgettable soundtrack. It's a Metroid game in name only. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | I'm going to use this image to react to everything |
| TrevorBlack79 07/29/17 10:26:05 PM #28 | Topic of the fucking year right here. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | I'm an adult man and my family brought me a lego set from lego land >_> |
| TrevorBlack79 07/29/17 7:46:09 PM #26 | Feline_Heart posted... joe40001 posted...You be you, most people who call others "man-children" are insecure themselves. Imagine what someone who's been finger painting for 30 years could produce. Probably some beautiful work, with all that practice. Edit: I just Googled "professional finger painting." Just as I suspected, some great stuff out there. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | I'm an adult man and my family brought me a lego set from lego land >_> |
| TrevorBlack79 07/29/17 6:46:55 PM #8 | I have a Lego room. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Does anyone still unironically advocate atheism? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/29/17 6:44:12 PM #128 | VaniIIa Coke posted... TrevorBlack79 posted...Volkswagen_Bros posted...Saying "There isn't evidence of God's existence" isn't a valid argument. That's not how it works. Existence claims require evidence, and without evidence no one is obligated to entertain your claim. Particularly when your claim hinges on the supernatural. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Federal judge BLOCKS Arkansas's new ABORTION restrictions |
| TrevorBlack79 07/29/17 6:28:19 PM #9 | Good. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Yet another garbage Nintendo decision : hard mode only unlocked with an amiibo. |
| TrevorBlack79 07/29/17 4:11:46 PM #18 | Is Fusion confirmed to be the only increased difficulty mode? I could see there being a Hard mode unlocked after beating the game, with Fusion being a more advanced difficulty. Either way, this is frustrating. I mean, I like Amiibos and I have the new Metroid Amiibos on preorder, but I've always preferred Amiibos be linked to trivial or cosmetic content. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | *boots up Wii U* |
| TrevorBlack79 07/29/17 10:42:11 AM #7 | creativeme posted... EffectAndCause posted...Worst interface in history. Wait, why was your sensor bar unplugged in the first place? --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Retail Workers: What little things do customers do that just annoys you? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/29/17 10:09:46 AM #247 | judasmaiden15 posted... That's one of my pet peeves, asking to speak to a manager when things don't go your way One of my favorites. I got that quite a few times back when I worked food service, and the looks on people's faces was priceless when I would reply "I am the manager." Late night Taco Bell drive through, bar rush, some drunk asshat starts ordering BK items because he thinks he's funny: Me: "Sir, you're at Taco Bell. Please order from our menu." Drunk guy: " I have a better idea, why don't you suck my dick and take my order!" Me: " I'm sorry sir, you're going to have to leave. We will not be serving you." Drunk: "Fuck you! You're going to take my order! You can slob my pole!" Me: " I'm sorry, if you don't pull through and exit the property I will call the police and have them remove you." Guy pulls up to the window: "Who's the little shit that was talking back to me?" Me: "That would be me." Drunk: "Get me your manager!" Me: "I am the manager. You need to leave now." Drunk: "Get me the store manager." Me: "She's at home asleep. If you want you can call the store tomorrow and speak with her." Drunk: "Oh I will! I'll have your job, asshole!" Me: "Well, I already put in my notice, so there's an opening if you want to apply." He sped off. He never did call the next day. Not that it would have done anything, there were two other people wearing headsets who heard the entire exchange. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Republicans a few days ago: McCain is a war hero, our prayers are with him! |
| TrevorBlack79 07/29/17 7:45:42 AM #55 | Cj_WlLL_VVlN posted... littlebro07 posted...lmao How embarrassing for you. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Video shows border officers encouraging teen to drink liquid meth. He died. |
| TrevorBlack79 07/29/17 7:43:46 AM #66 | Everyone involved sounds like an idiot. We don't need idiots patrolling the border, so at the very least they should be terminated. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | What food is your region known for? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/29/17 2:15:45 AM #13 | So is CE agreed that this map is a joke? --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | What food is your region known for? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/29/17 2:06:59 AM #3 | That map labeled Nebraska and Kansas wrong. Add to that I've lived in NE since I was 3 and have literally never heard of "Nebraska handheld meat pies." --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Without looking, does anyone know what color a mirror is? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/29/17 1:52:25 AM #4 | cjsdowg posted... green --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Retail Workers: What little things do customers do that just annoys you? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/28/17 9:53:41 PM #241 | Continued: Going way back to my first day on call, very shortly after I started at this job. My very first after hours call is a hospice nurse in my delivery area asking to order a home hospital bed for a new admit. He has already been discharged from the hospital and is at home, but the family already dismantled his personal bed and hauled it away, to make room for the hospital bed. I explain to the nurse that I'm en route to another delivery (We frequently work well past the time the office closes, finishing up orders) that's an hour away, will take me about an hour to set up, and then once I get back I'll have to go to our warehouse to load up a bed for the delivery. After it's all said and done, I wouldn't be able to deliver this bed until after 10 or 11pm. The nurse starts freaking out, saying this patient is uncomfortable slumped over in a chair and can't wait that long. I apologized, and politely suggested that home DME should be ordered before a patient discharges and is sitting at home without the equipment he needs. The nurse huffed and hung up before I could get the patient's name and address, and I never got another call about it again. Other wonders are equipment coming unplugged from the wall, the nurse calls and says it's "broken," I ask them to check the plug and they get offended, ask if I think they're stupid, etc. I frequently have to explain to them that I cannot send a driver out after hours before attempting to troubleshoot over the phone. Sometimes they actually check and are all "Oh, it was the plug, sorry!" Sometimes they outright lie and say they checked, but when I or the appropriate driver gets to them, we find the equipment unplugged from the wall after all. These are the people taking care of your sick and elderly. Most of them are great, and I love good nurses, but some of them make you wonder how they make it day to day without wandering out into traffic...nevermind how the hell they graduated nursing school. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Retail Workers: What little things do customers do that just annoys you? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/28/17 9:53:06 PM #240 | Ok, not retail, but the topic's been branching out a bit: Disclaimer: If you have a loved one in a nursing home, you may want to skip over this post. I work for a DME (Durable Medical Equipment). We contract with nursing homes and hospices to provide equipment to patients in facilities as well as at home. I've been at this job for about two and a half years now, and overall I love it. I meet a lot of interesting people, and I get to provide a valuable service to patients in need. That said, there are some horror stories. Being that we provide medical equipment, during off hours we have drivers (like myself) on call for emergency issues such as equipment failures or after-hours hospice admits. We have about a dozen branches scattered across the midwest, and when I'm on call I take calls from all of our areas and dispatch them to the appropriate branch's on-call driver (or if it's my area, I run the order myself). I was on call yesterday, and last night I got a call at 1am. A nurse called and said that they were out of woundvac canisters for a patient. For those of you who don't know, a woundvac is a device that gently suctions through a special dressing applied over a wound. It draws out excess fluid and actually facilitates the healing process. The machine has a canister attached to store the fluid it suctions out, and the canister needs to be periodically changed as it fills. So the nurse says their patient is out of canisters, and they need more. Right now. At 1 in the morning. Now, under normal circumstances the nursing home should be calling us during regular business hours to order more dressings and canisters when they get low, but someone at this facility failed to do this. Now the patient's canister was full, and they wanted me to send a driver out to deliver more, right then. Rather than put a regular dressing over the wound until the morning when we could deliver more supplies, I had to call the driver and send him out. So instead of someone doing their job and ordering disposable supplies when their stock gets low, I have to get someone out of bed to clean up their mess. And this driver still had to work at 8 the next morning. GG, nurses. I recently got an order (regular business hours, at least) for a malfunctioning concentrator. A concentrator provides concentrated oxygen to patients by pulling in room air and separating the oxygen from the other gasses. The flow rate can be adjusted per the patient's needs. The facility is about an hour's drive, so I start heading that way. When I get there to troubleshoot the concentrator, I turn it on and there's no o2 flow at all, but the machine isn't alarming as it normally would if there was a mechanical problem. It takes me all of 10 seconds to realize that someone had turned the flow rate all the way down to 0, and apparently no one in this facility could figure out how to turn it back up (hint: you literally turn the dial - the only dial - on the machine up above 0). The nurse looked embarrassed as hell when I explained the issue as I had her sign my service ticket. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | who are you voting for in 2020 |
| TrevorBlack79 07/28/17 4:38:39 PM #3 | Giant Douche or Turd Sandwich. I haven't decided yet. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Which toys were your fave growing up? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/28/17 12:30:28 PM #16 | OrtegaTron posted... Lets not count vidya games. Topic list. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | What video game are you super knowledgeable about lore wise? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/28/17 3:21:21 AM #15 | FFVI, VII, IX Metroid series About half the Zelda games TLoU Earlier RE games - 1-3, CVX, REmake, 0 Secret of Mana Chrono Trigger, Cross to a lesser extent because it's so convoluted EarthBound --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | When was the last time you got played like a fiddle? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/28/17 3:07:18 AM #5 | Years ago I dated a guy. He was pretty cool, we got along great and had similar interests. He had a decent job he walked to and was saving for a car... Then he got fired. It was legitimately bullshit, but the part of town he was in didnt have any other jobs in walking distance, so I let him move in with me despite my reservations about how short of a time we'd been together - he had been staying in his friend's parents' basement, which should have been a red flag. The day he moved in he did a complete 180 into the worst boyfriend I ever had. He would: Pick fights over inane things like making him 3 pancakes and only 2 for myself. Somehow this was worthy of a screaming match. He once borrowed my car to go to a party where he did a bunch of coke and drove home drunk. I told him if he ever pulled that shit again he'd be right back in his friend's parents' basement. He tried to spin that as me being a bad unsupportive boyfriend. We once went to a party together, where he got blackout drunk and started making out with a chick friend of his in front of me. The next morning he denied it happened, despite the fact that I was stone cold sober the entire night. While I was out of town for family Easter, he browsed gay hook up sites on my computer and was too stupid to clear the browsing history. One of my friends tried to get him a job at Quiznos, where he refused to ever do any work and accused his co-workers of treating him "like a Mexican" when they would ask him to wash dishes or wipe tables. He got pissed when I played video games. Every time. He said he needed weed to "help forget how miserable I am out here." He got pissed because I refused to charge a friend gas money to ride along to a concert we were all going to anyway. In my car. Fuck you dude, my car, I decide whether people owe me gas money or not. He asked me to cover his portion of the bills one month, because he was close to having enough money to buy a car. I did so, and the day he bought the car he packed up and moved out to go back to the friend's parents' basement and dumped me. The worst part is I later dated a self-loathing gay literal creationist Christian, and he was substantially better that the guy outlined above. Regardless, I learned a lot from that experience. I now have zero tolerance for bullshit, and have since only dated top shelf personalities. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | I just realized I've never tried on a jockstrap before |
| TrevorBlack79 07/28/17 2:40:22 AM #4 | They're great for man lovin. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | SSJ-Spiderman is hoth right |
| TrevorBlack79 07/28/17 1:06:33 AM #17 | Different personalities for alt accounts, that shit's weird. I never understood the point of alt accounts in the first place. Unless you're incapable of having the self control to keep from getting suspended or banned, there's no point. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | SSJ-Spiderman is hoth right |
| TrevorBlack79 07/28/17 1:00:00 AM #15 | Kaname_Madoka posted... TrevorBlack79 posted...Kaname_Madoka posted...Veggeta X posted...I did not know hoth was a rightist. Or is that just a gimmick he uses when he's on his JohnLennon account? Not gonna lie I use different personalities depending on which name I'm using. For example I'm very chill when i'm on my main but I get a bit extreme when I'm on my MAX account and then I'm edgy AF when I'm on my edge account. Read the posts I quoted. There's your answer. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | SSJ-Spiderman is hoth right |
| TrevorBlack79 07/28/17 12:56:39 AM #13 | Kaname_Madoka posted... Veggeta X posted...I did not know hoth was a rightist. Or is that just a gimmick he uses when he's on his JohnLennon account? Not gonna lie I use different personalities depending on which name I'm using. For example I'm very chill when i'm on my main but I get a bit extreme when I'm on my MAX account and then I'm edgy AF when I'm on my edge account. You people are weird. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Is Trumpanzee a slur? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 7:41:56 PM #57 | SageHarpuia posted... I love how pointing out disrespectful and immature behavior is now considered being butthurt and crying. This is nothing new here. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | attn thelovefist stop tagging me in crap |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 3:10:28 PM #23 | Imagine not having thelovefist on ignore. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Does anyone still unironically advocate atheism? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 3:04:11 PM #65 | Volkswagen_Bros posted... Saying "There isn't evidence of God's existence" isn't a valid argument. Yes it is. Existence claims need to be supported with evidence, otherwise they can be summarily dismissed. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Does anyone still unironically advocate atheism? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 2:51:46 PM #63 | Twin3Turbo posted... SSJ-JohnLennon posted...TrevorBlack79 posted...SSJ-JohnLennon posted...TrevorBlack79 posted...Volkswagen_Bros posted...believing in God is the de facto stance. I'm beginning to believe JohnLennon is a troll account designed to make conservatives look stupid. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Does anyone still unironically advocate atheism? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 2:31:15 PM #57 | SSJ-JohnLennon posted... TrevorBlack79 posted...SSJ-JohnLennon posted...TrevorBlack79 posted...Volkswagen_Bros posted...believing in God is the de facto stance. Exactly. Like language, religion has to be taught. I'm glad you understand this. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Does anyone still unironically advocate atheism? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 2:21:54 PM #52 | SSJ-JohnLennon posted... TrevorBlack79 posted...Volkswagen_Bros posted...believing in God is the de facto stance. Literally no one is born believing in a god. Do try to familiarize yourself with the terms being discussed before you comment. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Does anyone still unironically advocate atheism? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 2:05:27 PM #49 | Volkswagen_Bros posted... believing in God is the de facto stance. Wrong. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | New IT trailer |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 1:41:35 PM #2 | So fucking hyped for this. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Have you ever met a transgender person in real life? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 1:26:18 PM #15 | Yes. She was a friend's roommate. We weren't close though, and after she and the friend moved out of the same apartment I lost contact entirely. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Does anyone still unironically advocate atheism? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 1:05:35 PM #26 | Apparently neither does proofreading. That said, see post 21. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Does anyone still unironically advocate atheism? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 12:55:13 PM #24 | SSJ-JohnLennon posted... TrevorBlack79 posted...SSJ-JohnLennon posted...WaffIeElite posted...The hypocrisy of using one of the greatest scientific advancements in history - immediate global communication - to spread fearmongering through children's fairy tales is hilarious and horrifying. TrevorBlack79 posted... Are you even capable of saying anything that makes sense? --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Does anyone still unironically advocate atheism? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 12:35:10 PM #17 | SSJ-JohnLennon posted... WaffIeElite posted...The hypocrisy of using one of the greatest scientific advancements in history - immediate global communication - to spread fearmongering through children's fairy tales is hilarious and horrifying. Are you even capable of saying anything that makes sense? --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | How is it that lego batman movie is the best batman movie since the dark knight? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 11:45:18 AM #11 | I found it entirely forgettable honestly, but I've never been a huge Batman fan to begin with so whatever. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Is Trumpanzee a slur? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 11:42:46 AM #24 | fenderbender321 posted... ZMythos posted...fenderbender321 posted...It was okay to make ape references to GWB, and now it's okay to do it to Trump. But by golly when it's a black president, NO THATS WRONG AND RACIST!!! Lol @ society and our double standards. Context. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | As someone that identifies as gender-neutral, I find the plight of transpeople |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 1:25:07 AM #7 | Dammit! --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | As someone that identifies as gender-neutral, I find the plight of transpeople |
| TrevorBlack79 07/27/17 1:21:49 AM #5 | inb4 "attack helicopter" --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Is it healthy to still feel grief over someone's death even a decade later? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/26/17 11:22:19 PM #12 | tremain07 posted... It's pathetic, isn't it? To cry,scream and be as undignified as possible,even in private No, that's not pathetic at all. I screamed into my empty house every day for weeks, begging my husband to come home after he died. We do what we gotta do to let out all that pain and loss. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | Is it healthy to still feel grief over someone's death even a decade later? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/26/17 11:15:18 PM #11 | It largely depends on your relationship to them and how they died. Under normal circumstances a death shouldn't inflict that much trauma unless it was your child or spouse. Suicides, murders, and painful deaths (as in the deceased died in pain) are more complicated, and from the tone of your post it sounds like a "complicated" death. But grief is an ongoing process, and everyone moves through it at their own pace. The stages of mourning aren't even a linear path from anger to denial to depression to acceptance - mourners often shift between stages chaotically. It sounds like some counseling may be helpful, or even a support group if counseling is unpalatable or the cost burdensome. Ultimately, it may be something you'll need to cope with indefinitely, and I empathize with you there. Best of luck, man. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | On a scale from 1-10, how excited are you about the Will & Grace new season? |
| TrevorBlack79 07/26/17 10:25:32 PM #5 | ArtVandelay posted... Johnny_Nutcase posted...0 --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
| Topic | If Conservative Opinions get MODDED more often than Liberal Opinions.. |
| TrevorBlack79 07/26/17 10:22:35 PM #23 | DifferentialEquation posted... We do have some biased leftist mods here. Someone once commented that my late husband deserved to die of cancer. I marked it, the post went unmodded. These seem to be cases of "mod discretion" determining that wishing or justifying terminal illness on people is somehow inoffensive rather than a political bias. Personally I would have deleted the post you linked, but that's just me. --- "a minority is someone who you can tell off the bat they are black/hispanic/colored. LGBT isn't a minority" - Blakkheim1 |
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