Dikitain posted... The difference being a landlord would have to deal with the HOA, not you. If a landlord tells you to fix your fence, you tell that landlord to shove his ideas up his ass and floss his teeth with them. Then he can fix it for you.
If your landlord takes issue with your landscaping choices or how you want to paint the house, though, good luck making the choices you want. Even more so if it's a lease that offers little by way of tenant protections and they can evict you (or just choose to not renew the lease) if you do anything they don't like, like park your car in the wrong place. That doesn't even need an HOA, that's just the landlord controlling their property. And that's all without considering the lack of stability in the rental market (meaning there's a push to get out as soon as you can afford to so you don't get priced out) or the push to start building your own equity instead of giving it all to somebody else, both of which are strong motivators to stop renting.
Dikitain posted... Then don't move into a house. When you are shopping for a house you have a set of parameters that you are looking to fulfill. If whatever you are looking at doesn't fulfill those parameters, then you don't buy the house. It is up to your real estate agent to give you houses that meet your criteria. That is what they are getting payed to do. If I tell them "I want a new house in a neighborhood with no HOAs" then they better show me places with no HOAs.
And if there are none, then you complain about overbearing HOAs limiting your housing opportunities. Alternatively, you settle for an HOA house because it's better than renting, but still bad enough to complain about. Alternatively, you buy a house with an HOA that doesn't seem too bad on paper, but then find out after settling in that they're tyrants, and you complain about that. Alternatively, you buy a house with an HOA that isn't too bad, but a couple of turbo-Karens take over and make it worse, and you complain about that. Alternatively, you buy a house without an HOA, but the neighbourhood establishes one that doesn't align with what you want and you get outvoted and strong-armed into it, and you complain about that.
Yes, people are prone to metaphorically buying houses next to pig farms then complaining about the smell, and that does apply to some complaints about HOAs, but that doesn't mean nobody has room to complain about theirs. The notion that everybody should just stop buying HOA houses to make HOAs go away is about as plausible as the idea that everyone should vote third-party to fix the two-party system: It would solve the problem, but there's literally no chance of it ever happening.