Why is it looked down upon to order water at a restaurant?

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I dont like soda. Why do waiters judge for getting water? Like is that type of attitude really worth the waiter getting an additional 60 cent tip (20%*$3 for a drink = 60 cents)?

Example:
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It adds nothing to the bill, and a lot of really cheap people try to make lemonade with it.
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I don't know who looks down on it, but I get water because there's no charge to it and also because I don't like all that sugar in my beverage. It's not refreshing to me.
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If tip is based off the bill, then water is adding work for the waiter without adding revenue. But the American tip system is a messed up system.
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it's not. and don't let anyone make you think it is
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If someone look down on water then they can fuck off. Water is the best thing to be drinking.
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Giant_Aspirin posted...
it's not. and don't let anyone make you think it is

But a cropped social media screengrab said it was, though.
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Devilanse333 posted...
But a cropped social media screengrab said it was, though.
Its one example brah. In college, some co-students literally called me cheap for not ordering a drink and getting free water. Like wtf.
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it's not. and don't let anyone make you think it is

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Does this need to be spelled out? Because it's free, it still requires work to bring to the table and refill, and doesn't add to bill which usually doesn't add to their tip.

Waiters also prefer when customers order booze and get refills, as refills cost as much as the original drink.

People you go out to eat with being annoyed at you ordering a drink is dumb, though.
Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less.
There is nothing wrong with just ordering water LMAO
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Really, in the small image, the thing that sticks out as an issue is the people being there for 5 hours. >_>
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It's not if you're being charged for it or getting it from the tap
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never heard this in my life
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I never understood why bars and restaurants have to give people free water. Try walking into a gas station or Walmart and demanding a free bottle of water
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I remember my wife and I went to a restaurant many years back. Neither of us drink alcohol at all so we just each got ourselves a soda as our drink. The table next to us got alcohol. We noticed the waitress gave them considerably more attention than we did to the point to where we were ignored when asking for refills. My wife had to call the restaurant just to get some help with refills.
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B18Champ posted...
I never understood why bars and restaurants have to give people free water. Try walking into a gas station or Walmart and demanding a free bottle of water
Water at the water fountain is free.
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B18Champ posted...
I never understood why bars and restaurants have to give people free water. Try walking into a gas station or Walmart and demanding a free bottle of water
Bottled water doesn't have to be free anywhere, but tap water does.
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Have the waiter bring a pitcher if you need a lot of water and don't want to feel needlessly guilty about it.
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Paragon21XX posted...
Bottled water doesn't have to be free anywhere, but tap water does.

Bottled water = tap water
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B18Champ posted...
I never understood why bars and restaurants have to give people free water.

they don't "have to". its common courtesy.

Paragon21XX posted...
Bottled water doesn't have to be free anywhere, but tap water does.

there is no law in the US saying that restaurants are required to provide water.

https://www.eposnow.com/us/resources/are-restaurants-required-to-provide-water/

B18Champ posted...
Bottled water = tap water

this = wrong
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I basically never order alcohol, and I'm pretty poor so I try to be frugal when I'm eating out. I'll never forget going to a restaurant one time with some friends, ordering water, and having the waitress keep "forgetting" to bring it. (My friends ordered drinks and she brought those, of course.) Then at the end of the meal, when she brought the bill, she said to me: "I guess you didn't need that water, after all, did you?"
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bfslick50 posted...
If tip is based off the bill, then water is adding work for the waiter without adding revenue. But the American tip system is a messed up system.


I feel like that if people are getting water to avoid paying more they aren't probably planning to tip well in the first place. Some people don't tip by percentage. I tip by service. Great service is at least a 20 in a diner from me. More if its a nicer restaurant but I'm a server so I tend to tip as well as I can.

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TheOnionKnight posted...
I basically never order alcohol, and I'm pretty poor so I try to be frugal when I'm eating out. I'll never forget going to a restaurant one time with some friends, ordering water, and having the waitress keep "forgetting" to bring it. (My friends ordered drinks and she brought those, of course.) Then at the end of the meal, when she brought the bill, she said to me: "I guess you didn't need that water, after all, did you?"

If a story like that is true, I wouldn't have given a tip, or a very small one.
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Heineken14 posted...
If a story like that is true, I wouldn't have given a tip, or a very small one.
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Heineken14 posted...
If a story like that is true, I wouldn't have given a tip, or a very small one.

I don't like confrontation but this would have me talking to the manager because that's fucking insane. I'm a server but I hate serving staff like this. Screw those people.
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Heineken14 posted...
If a story like that is true, I wouldn't have given a tip, or a very small one.

It's 100% true, and I did leave a very small tip. It's the kind of thing where I think about it in retrospect, and realize I should've left no tip or caused more of a fuss. Instead I just decided to never go to that restaurant again, and I never have.
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despite my previous comment, i think the attitude is a bit different in EU than in the US. over there, you need to specifically order "tap water" or else they bring you a bottle. i was at a restaurant in Amsterdam one time and ordered 'tap water' and the server, no joke, literally scoffed at me and goes "... sir, this is a restaurant." i said "uh, i get that and i am ordering food. but i don't need a bottle of fancy water and i am perfectly happy with tap water.' he brought out like a 6oz glass and only gave me one single refill, after asking twice.
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randy_123r posted...
I did not know this was a thing. Is it really? Any former waiters/waitresses here?

I wouldn't say former but I've never seen this as an issue. I usually don't care if they order water. I actually never thought about the correlation to tip. I just assumed they drank water in their household. This makes me feel naive.
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I just get water since I don't want the extra calories and don't even like fountain drinks.

Never thought about it reducing the bill before.
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VeggetaX posted...
There is nothing wrong with just ordering water LMAO

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Giant_Aspirin posted...
despite my previous comment, i think the attitude is a bit different in EU than in the US. over there, you need to specifically order "tap water" or else they bring you a bottle. i was at a restaurant in Amsterdam one time and ordered 'tap water' and the server, no joke, literally scoffed at me and goes "... sir, this is a restaurant." i said "uh, i get that and i am ordering food. but i don't need a bottle of fancy water and i am perfectly happy with tap water.' he brought out like a 6oz glass and only gave me one single refill, after asking twice.


I feel like that's more of a European thing. The bastardized Macys' quote "The customer is always right" is something that's ruining America. Also, they don't normally accept tips in other countries so maybe he's just being a snob.
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uwnim posted...
Really, in the small image, the thing that sticks out as an issue is the people being there for 5 hours. >_>
5 hours enjoying the unlimited soup and salad and free water. I wouldn't be surprised if they were acting liking a bunch of entitled Karens too, snapping at the waiter and demanding immediate service.
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B18Champ posted...
Bottled water = tap water
Wtf no it is not
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It's not.

Weird that you didn't provide full context for the comment you're so outraged about and in fact actively avoided doing so.
I get water when i want water. It being free is just a bonus.

I always tip, but waiters getting annoyed at people for getting water is absolutely a them problem
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I get water because:

1) It would be too late in the day to order coffee or tea and decaf is usually meh and been sitting for a while
2) I don't drink soda or sugary drinks usually
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Was the water the problem or that the ladies were staying for a super long time on just the bare basics?

Seems like the water was the least problematic, and just the cherry on top?

I'm sure if some ordered regular entrees and stayed the usual time for a meal no one would remember or care.
Aren't we all just a series of tubes?
I order water because I want water. I still tip 20%. But yeah, I would be mad as hell if some middle aged women took up an entire section for 5 hours and didnt order anything that wasnt free.
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Torgo posted...
Was the water the problem or that the ladies were staying for a super long time on just the bare basics?

Seems like the water was the least problematic, and just the cherry on top?

I'm sure if some ordered regular entrees and stayed the usual time for a meal no one would remember or care.
It was absolutely this, yes.
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Giant_Aspirin posted...
they don't "have to". its common courtesy.

there is no law in the US saying that restaurants are required to provide water.

https://www.eposnow.com/us/resources/are-restaurants-required-to-provide-water/

this = wrong
While yes, theres no explicit law that says restaurants must provide free tap water, most counties point to the International Plumbing Code for buildings and establishments to follow. And guess what the IPC requires? Free access to water.
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B18Champ posted...
Bottled water = tap water
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uwnim posted...
Really, in the small image, the thing that sticks out as an issue is the people being there for 5 hours. >_>
This. They were milking the hell out of that unlimited soups and salads deal.
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mystic_belmont posted...
It adds nothing to the bill, and a lot of really cheap people try to make lemonade with it.
brb bringing a bag of lemons and sugar into a restaurant and just ordering water
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