How is it CHEATING going out with another girl for coffee at WORK?

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SaccharineSmile
03/16/2024
08:32 PM
#1
or hanging out with that same girl Friday night with other work people?

I have to go through my whole life just hanging out with guys now? Literally 1950s mindset here get outta here

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Gobstoppers12
03/16/2024
08:33 PM
#2
What the fuck are you talking about
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Umbreon
03/16/2024
08:33 PM
#3
Depends on the context, and this sort of thing should be discussed with your partner.

Incidentally, how would you feel if your girl was hanging out with another dude?
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Guide
03/16/2024
08:36 PM
#4
The standards set on what constitutes cheating are things to be discussed with your partner.
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SaccharineSmile
03/16/2024
08:37 PM
#5
Umbreon posted...
Depends on the context, and this sort of thing should be discussed with your partner.

Incidentally, how would you feel if your girl was hanging out with another dude?


Im fine with that she has friends that are guys at her current work she hangs out with now, she can hang out with whoever she wants

Im not with her just to control who she can see thats ridiculous, but it seems its still a common thing to a lot of people still
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StealThisSheen
03/16/2024
08:40 PM
#6
SaccharineSmile posted...
Im fine with that she has friends that are guys at her current work she hangs out with now, she can hang out with whoever she wants

Im not with her just to control who she can see thats ridiculous, but it seems its still a common thing to a lot of people still

You haven't actually answered

Gobstoppers12 posted...
What the fuck are you talking about

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Umbreon
03/16/2024
08:43 PM
#7
SaccharineSmile posted...
Im fine with that she has friends that are guys at her current work she hangs out with now, she can hang out with whoever she wants

Im not with her just to control who she can see thats ridiculous, but it seems its still a common thing to a lot of people still


Alright cool. A lot of people are hypocrites in that regard.

But yeah, this is a conversation between couples. I had an ex that was rather jealous of me talking to my female best friend. That one wasn't meant to be.
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luigi33
03/16/2024
08:44 PM
#8
Ahh, the "work wife".

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BlueberryWaffle
03/16/2024
08:46 PM
#10
For me, going out to lunch during a work day is fine, but Id find it a bit odd for my partner to go out with a person of the opposite gender for dinner.

Thats just me though.
Torgo
03/17/2024
03:42 PM
#11
Depends on your intention.

If you have it in your mind you'll "see where it goes" and part of that is a romantic or sexual encounter and you have an exclusive agreement with your current GF- then yeah, you're cheating.
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Dakimakura
03/17/2024
03:43 PM
#12
Guide posted...
The standards set on what constitutes cheating are things to be discussed with your partner.

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falayyou01
03/17/2024
03:43 PM
#13
Emotional damage. You wouldn't want your girl grabbing a coffee at work with a strapping young chap at her place of work now wouldja.
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hmnut7
03/17/2024
03:45 PM
#14
Its cheating if your significant other says its cheating, if you feel they are being unreasonable, get a different significant other.
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Chadawah
03/17/2024
03:48 PM
#15
Me (39M) and my coworker (20F) shared a milkshake, with our own straws on each side I might add, and my wife (37F) got mad. AITAH?
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ColdOne666
03/17/2024
04:04 PM
#16
I have lunch one on one with a women at work slightly younger then me all the time this year. We are friends and are almost like work wife's/ husbands at this stage. She has had a partner for years and years.
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deoxxys
03/17/2024
05:52 PM
#17
I don't think it's cheating but it's unfair to your partner if they don't want you to, because at the end of the day how is going out to have coffee or watching movies, etc any different from going on a date?

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ssb_yunglink2
03/17/2024
05:53 PM
#18
Gobstoppers12 posted...
What the fuck are you talking about

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SaccharineSmile
03/19/2024
09:14 AM
#19
so I ended up getting that chicks number

is that considered cheating? Like I dont see how thats a problem just a work chick

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Goldice
03/19/2024
09:19 AM
#20
deoxxys posted...
because at the end of the day how is going out to have coffee or watching movies, etc any different from going on a date?

You could ask the same about going out with your guy friends
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philsov
03/19/2024
09:29 AM
#21
SaccharineSmile posted...
is that considered cheating?


Tell your girl everything and see what she thinks.

It can be seen as cheating, but you obfuscating this from your partner is not a healthy look and means its even more likely to lead to cheating.
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LonelyStoner
03/19/2024
09:30 AM
#22
Gobstoppers12 posted...
What the fuck are you talking about

He's all alone through the day and night.
VeggetaX
03/19/2024
09:30 AM
#23
There's a lot of variables to this and I love it.

One could be she's being highly insecure and controlling and have trust issues or she's projecting and these are all red flags. Another is you should respect your s/o's feelings. Everyone here is a love and relationship expert, though so it'll be very fun to see what everyone will spew.
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LonelyStoner
03/19/2024
09:30 AM
#24
SaccharineSmile posted...
so I ended up getting that chicks number

is that considered cheating? Like I dont see how thats a problem just a work chick
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Tanthalas
03/19/2024
09:32 AM
#26
Tomorrow:
I started putting my hand on that chicks lower back while we talk, is that cheating?
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bigblu89
03/19/2024
09:40 AM
#27
When it comes to cheating, it's a simple as "Would I be mad if they did this to me?" and if the answer is "Yes" then it's cheating.

But if the answer is "No" but to your S.O. the answer is "Yes", then you should immediately stop whatever it is and a conversation needs to happen.
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SaccharineSmile
03/20/2024
05:31 PM
#28
VeggetaX posted...
There's a lot of variables to this and I love it.

One could be she's being highly insecure and controlling and have trust issues or she's projecting and these are all red flags. Another is you should respect your s/o's feelings. Everyone here is a love and relationship expert, though so it'll be very fun to see what everyone will spew.


yeah thats the thing we joke about me hanging out and talking to other girls but shes chill about it and vice versa when she hangs out with other guys from work

but a couple of my friends say its disrespectful and emotionally cheating which I cant agree on I just feel thats like such an boomer way of thinking like I should be able to talk and be friends with anyone

I have so my guy friends that are so controlling of their girl its disgusting Im not that

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SunWuKung420
03/20/2024
05:32 PM
#29
Why are you going out with her or the group of people? To spend with her and not your SO?
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SaccharineSmile
03/20/2024
05:32 PM
#30
Tanthalas posted...
Tomorrow:
I started putting my hand on that chicks lower back while we talk, is that cheating?


weve shared drinks and straws is that cheating? Like where is this imaginary social line start and end?
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