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Current Events Macro Economics explained to Americans (sorry if old) 1 2025-01-29 16:12:42
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I've never liked the saying "once a cheater always a cheater" because it suggests someone who cheated on someone once in junior high school can't be in a monogamous marriage in their late 50's. It's an idea that people can't learn and grown and change. Maybe even seeing the hurt and pain their actions did might lead them to never want to do it again.

I am not saying every cheater can and will reform, many will cheat every chance they get, but I think it is correlation not causation type thing.

I think anyone could cheat, but there are factors that make some people more capable of being serial cheaters.

Some people do not want monogamous relationships but get into them anyway, and these people will cheat over and over again, but...

I think many people are capable of being monogamous, but under certain circumstances (including their own emotional maturity) they are more likely to cheat, once. But change the circumstances they aren't likely to cheat.
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Robin: "Fight anyway!" (pb)
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