ryudo500 posted...
@SunWuKung420
just want to know what went wrong or where it started, i think it happened day after valtines day whe she thanked me for my flowers via ext 2 hours later after she went home. I think thats when should have picked up on it since next day she said she had a lot on her mind
SunWuKung420 posted...
Who knows? Only her and I wouldn't bother trying to get answers.
Your best move is to move on. Don't obsess.
Who knows?! We all do because TC posted numerous things he did wrong. He needs to look back and understand properly because he will otherwise be doomed to keep making the same mistakes.
TC, that Valentines thing you're bringing up. That is not where it went wrong, you were already out. That was it already at the edge of the cliff.
What went wrong? Did you not read my message before.
You had essentially no dates. You show up during HER work week late at night after she is exhausted from work. You rushed into sex, you're sleeping over and texting her any chance you get, there is no sense of challenge or mystery with you, there is nothing to keep her curious (interested). You text (and probably talk to) her like a girl instead of a man. You have her watching a totally dark dude show during your hangouts instead of something fun.
You shouldn't be having her sacrifice HER work nights to see you, you should be sacrificing YOUR work nights and mornings on the weekends. But not to go over to her house to try and drain her emotionally and have sex with her, but to take her on DATES during her weekend. Show her something FUN. You had no dates for 3 months and now you're scratching your head wondering where it went wrong.
This one is over. But you can do better with another girl. This girl, never text her again.
Edit: TC, just fyi, I made many of the same mistakes in my early 20s. I'm not trying to rag on you but to help you. Over time, these things will become obvious, you won't have to wonder what you did wrong or right.