If her parents are letting her do what she's doing then it's not your problem since her actions don't seem to be affecting you in any way. You deal with it by not caring and minding your businessIt does effect me, I'm wasting gas and hours of my time every week to drive her to work, if I didn't then my mom or brother would have to take off of work/school to drive her/let her use the car. I wouldn't have a problem giving her rides either if it was closer or she was making good money but she's not, she wants a 45 minute ride, so 1.5 hours round trip each time, to make the same that should could get just about anywhere.
It does effect me, I'm wasting gas and hours of my time every week to drive her to work, if I didn't then my mom or brother would have to take off of work/school to drive her/let her use the car. I wouldn't have a problem giving her rides either if it was closer or she was making good money but she's not, she wants a 45 minute ride, so 1.5 hours round trip each time, to make the same that should could get just about anywhere.
You may call yourself Muscles but you are in desperate need of a spine, assuming this isn't just shit you're making up.Why do I need a spine? Because I'm helping my mom and brother by driving her? She Could use my mom's car but then my brother wouldn't have a way to school and my mom wouldn't be able to use it either, I would rather help them so all 3 aren't sharing 1 car
Why do I need a spine? Because I'm helping my mom and brother by driving her? She Could use my mom's car but then my brother wouldn't have a way to school and my mom wouldn't be able to use it either, I would rather help them so all 3 aren't sharing 1 caror. Mommy Muscles, Brother Muscles, and Mr. Muscles all don't lend her their cars. You're all enabling each other. Mommy Muscles already blew it by buying her a car.
How do you deal with people like this?
Why do I need a spine? Because I'm helping my mom and brother by driving her? She Could use my mom's car but then my brother wouldn't have a way to school and my mom wouldn't be able to use it either, I would rather help them so all 3 aren't sharing 1 car
How do you deal with self centered loved ones?
Am I wrong for being angry about this?
How do you deal with self centered loved ones?
How do you deal with people like this?
My sister doesn't care about anyone but herself, our mom bought her 2 different cars that she was supposed to pay her back for and ran both of them into the ground without paying for them. Recently she moved back in and got a job 45 minutes away, since she ran the car into the ground she either needs a ride there and back or just take my mom's car for the day and she's not even making good money. She could have gotten a job 5 minutes away for the same pay, or even more but decided she'd rather be a huge burden on all of us just so she can have a job she likes. Am I wrong for being angry about this? It pisses me off that she didn't take the burden she puts on the rest of us into consideration when getting a job.
How do you deal with people like this?
I tell them to take the bus.