12amMadman posted...
My gf and I are almost mid 30's and people are always giving us shit for not wanting kids. We usually just lol but some people seem strangely affected by a decision that doesn't effect them.
My wife and I waited later than most of my friends my age to even start trying to have kids, then found out there were complications and it took another 3 or 4 years to actually have one, so yeah, I got a lot of that being in my mid-30's. Like my actual close friends never really bothered me about it, it was usually acquaintances and random strangers. But yes I don't understand why people think its their business if I even want to have kids or not, or if I do but can't, etc. Like I wasn't really too bothered by it because whatever people ask stupid things sometimes but my wife would get really upset. >_>
And of course now people ask us about having a second child. :(
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