Last Topic: 5:57:52pm, 07/22/2020
Last Post: 8:50:28am, 02/03/2021
There's no guarantee that the friendship can be repaired, but one thing is to give it time. I've said stupid things to my friends before (especially during this pandemic on zoom calls or the like). I didn't say enough to get me blocked, but we definitely did get on each other's nerves. Over the course of a month, we were commenting and liking each other's Facebook posts again and I feel like if we talk now, we would be fine. But my stuff was probably lighter than yours. I relished being single to my working mom friends and then it got tense (lol).
Like I said, there's no guarantee your friend will unblock you, but I would wait a few weeks to a month. Then send him or her a message though another app if they haven't unblocked you yet and just explain what you told us in your first post. They may still reject you, but it's possible that they may accept it. And also think if you have been giving back to your friend or have you only been expecting them to listen to you. Do you listen to their problems and sympathize with them? As another poster mentioned, friendships and conversations are two-way. And you need to listen to what they tell. If they say they are uncomfortable with something, you back of immediately. No exceptions. If you don't think you can do that, it's best to move on.