Current Events > When did you realize you're demisexual?

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Feels like Ive been leaning in that direction for years but I never really connected the dots until recently.

I had a chat with a coworker years ago about some things and she asked me if Im ace, but I know Im definitely not that

My wife is. Demi and bi

When I realized Demi Moore was pretty hot

I was a slut by nature until I met my wife. The emotional bond between people who were essentially made for each other is extremely powerful.

Not, but my girl is, which I find ideal

No idea what that meant until just now, but I'd assume always? My wife is legit the only person I find attractive, so...20 something years ago? When I was in my early teens.

I've never seen a woman I've found attractive at first glance.

Well, Demi Lovato is cute

I'm still not sure if I am or not, but I feel like I've always had leanings like that. Maybe I'm more on the demiromantic side of things since I feel like my sexuality sways a lot with my libido.

I think I may be. I didn't know what it was till a couple of years ago or so, but it fits.

I don't ever feel any real attraction to anyone. But if I get to know someone or become close with them, it can kick in real hard. I don't like it, I kind of wish it just never kicked in at all. I wish I could just press a button and become asexual, that would solve a lot of stress I think.

Only about half my life this is a Final Fantasy joke

Pretty sure Im just ace

What about demonsexual?

Asexual demiromantic here, only figured it out a few months ago

McMarbles posted...

Well, Demi Lovato is cute

She was, until she started singing to ghosts.

Pretty sure I'm ace, judging by how I think about things versus how the world at large goes about it.

Like...yeah, I suppose there's something to physical intimacy, but how intense people get over that and that alone is...weird. Unsettling, even. And I can't picture going through that with anyone

But that's a "me" thing. I'm happy for the folks that find fulfillment from that sort of thing, that are happy to have partners and so on. I just... don't see that happening to me, pretty sure living with anyone for any significant length of time would drive me insane, actually. So better to not, both for my sake and the sake of any rhetorical prospect out there.

...but I do wonder, sometimes. And I think it would be nice to be cared about in that way.