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super_felicia 03/29/24 4:53:36 AM #1: |
I am incapable of holding grudges. I get mad at someone and then Ill forgive them or at the very least act normal with them after 6 hours or something, is this normal?
a guy I knew insulted me and bare faced lied super inconsiderately and I seen him again and acted casual and didnt bring up anything and now Idgaf I see someone on twitter say about having enemies and all my enemies are in the past I guess I have had really toxic things happen but I dont call them my enemies I just kinda ignore what they said in the past and act fine with them and i stop being mad at them after time heals and passes. Is this what i should be doing? I hyper focus on the words and how their headspace coulda been and Im like maybe they had a bad day? (They just wanted to be mean but I try to justify it to myself) --- I am a mess and Felicia is the cleaner.... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MrFingers07 03/29/24 5:06:27 AM #2: |
I hope you don't do that for every single thing.
Like would you still act normal towards someone if they hurt a loved one, of if you were cheated on? Something along those lines... There's gotta be limit to this or you're going to be taken advantaged of. --- :D Brawlin' Mains: R.O.B., Lucario, Pikachu, Wolf ... Copied to Clipboard!
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super_felicia 03/29/24 5:08:39 AM #3: |
MrFingers07 posted...
I hope you don't do that for every single thing. MrFingers07 posted... I hope you don't do that for every single thing.Oh I was talking mainly insults verbally not physical. Trust me if someone was gonna hurt anyone physically things would be way different --- I am a mess and Felicia is the cleaner.... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guide 03/29/24 5:09:44 AM #4: |
Nah that's just called being secure in yourself
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MrFingers07 03/29/24 5:18:21 AM #5: |
Oh in the don't think it's that weird, I wouldn't say it's "normal" though but it's not a bad way to think imo.
But I would be cautious towards people who are repeat offenders of verbal abuse. --- :D Brawlin' Mains: R.O.B., Lucario, Pikachu, Wolf ... Copied to Clipboard!
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super_felicia 03/29/24 5:31:34 AM #6: |
MrFingers07 posted...
Oh in the don't think it's that weird, I wouldn't say it's "normal" though but it's not a bad way to think imo.Im a bit weird with verbal arguments and rudeness. I dont really understand myself but I am so inconsistent with what upsets me verbally it is kind of weird. I cant think of much examples atm but I remember someone called me the slur that begins with r (mental one uncalled for af but I admit I was in the wrong cos I didnt think of outside situations that happened just before it i did get an apology) and I was more upset with being called untalented and useless. Then Ill get called the same thing but it doesnt bother me unless the emotion put into saying it is a particular way. --- I am a mess and Felicia is the cleaner.... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guide 03/29/24 5:38:42 AM #7: |
I am sleep deprived and on further review, I read OP wrong, that's kinda leaving you open for further consistent abuse
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super_felicia 03/29/24 5:39:47 AM #8: |
Guide posted...
I am sleep deprived and on further review, I read OP wrong, that's kinda leaving you open for further consistent abuseAh I do know that but I truly just dont feel hate for a while I just get over it too quick --- I am a mess and Felicia is the cleaner.... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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absolutebuffoon 03/29/24 5:54:12 AM #9: |
tbh it probably isnt, but I'm the same way but maybe even more so. I have a hard time staying mad about anything for more than a couple hours and sometimes even a couole minutes. Something would have to be continually happening and refreshing my annoyance to even stick. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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super_felicia 03/29/24 6:26:19 AM #10: |
absolutebuffoon posted...
tbh it probably isnt, but I'm the same way but maybe even more so. I have a hard time staying mad about anything for more than a couple hours and sometimes even a couole minutes. Something would have to be continually happening and refreshing my annoyance to even stick.Exactly I'm the same! --- I am a mess and Felicia is the cleaner.... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vyrulisse 03/29/24 6:36:38 AM #11: |
I'm the same way honestly.
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